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In 1998, Shi Lanya, who has attracted much attention, and Liu Bin, a talented and well-known actor, bathed in the warm congratulations of relatives and friends, entered the holy hall of marriage, and everyone sent the most sincere and noble blessings to this hot couple! At that time, the peerless Shi Lanya was only 25 years old and in his prime, while Liu Bin was already standing and entering the age of 36. Despite this, the 10-year age gap between the two has made the outside world inevitably have some doubts.
When they first met, Shi Lanya did have doubts about Liu Bin's age. As a young actress who is on the rise of her career, she naturally has certain worries about whether she will be able to devote herself to her career development. However, Liu Bin used his fiery love and meticulous care to finally open Shi Lanya's heart. He candidly told her about his emotional journey in the past that he failed to reach the end due to career reasons, and looked forward to Shi Lanya's understanding and tolerance.
Liu Bin's sincerity deeply touched Shi Lanya, and she began to believe that the age gap was not an obstacle to their love. As a result, the two quickly confirmed their relationship, and in the same year's grand ceremony, they walked hand in hand into the sacred hall of marriage.
However, love and marriage are two very different concepts after all. Soon after the marriage, the differences between the two gradually became apparent. Liu Bin hopes that Shi Lanya can be at home with peace of mind to teach her husband and children, while Shi Lanya is eager to show her strength in her career and go all out. Due to the huge difference in concepts and the difference in living habits, the contradiction between the two has intensified.
Liu Bin's conservative traditional ideas make it difficult for him to understand Shi Lanya's persistent pursuit of career, and he even believes that Shi Lanya should regard having children as the first task in life. However, as a professional woman, Shi Lanya could not agree with her husband's views, and she was convinced that she was fully capable of balancing career and family.
The two have disagreements everywhere in their daily lives, often arguing over trivial matters, and the conflicts are constantly escalating. Eventually, after a heated argument, they decided to separate, ending their brief marriage, which lasted only a year.
On the occasion of parting, Liu Bin lightly expressed his true feelings to Shi Lanya: "Perhaps, the age gap between us has long been destined to make this relationship unlastable."
His impassioned words made Shi Lanya fall into deep thought again, and deeply questioned whether there was really a sincere and passionate love between them. So, they said goodbye one after another and went on their own journey of life. Shi Lanya endured endless pain in her heart, but her yearning for beautiful emotions rose again in her heart, while Liu Bin fell into a deep depression, and her trust and expectation in the emotional world disappeared in an instant.
These two former youth partners each steered the boat of life in this way, and sailed to the unknown shore without hesitation, looking for their own stars in life.
Liu Bin was born into an ordinary family in Beijing, and his family background is not very good, but he can still maintain basic living needs and education expenses. Since he was a child, he has had a grand dream of becoming an actor, but fate does not seem to favor him too much. Liu Bin was never seen as a child with special artistic talents, on the contrary, his appearance could even be described as "ugly", far from meeting the aesthetic standards of the time.
However, despite his prosaic appearance, even a little disgusting, Liu Bin's dedication to becoming an actor comes from the most sincere yearning in his heart, so, with full of enthusiasm, Liu Bin mustered up the courage to sign up for the exam of the Central Academy of Drama, however, at the critical moment of the interview, he was almost eliminated because of his appearance, if it weren't for a benevolent mentor to lend a hand, I'm afraid that even his chance to step into the dream school would be in vain.
After four years of university life, Liu Bin finally completed his studies successfully. However, to everyone's surprise, he did not become an actor as he wished, and was assigned to work at the art station. Despite the good pay, he always had a desire to regain his dreams. A year and a half later, Liu Bin finally made up his mind and resolutely quit his stable job to devote himself to the highly competitive and unpredictable actor industry.
Although this decision was fraught with risks, it turned out to be the right one, because it was with his superb acting skills and perseverance that Liu Bin quickly won wide recognition in the industry.
When the opportunity came, Liu Bin proudly joined the stirring filming process of the TV series "The Great Eunuch Li Lianying", which was a shocking film and television masterpiece of the year, and had an extraordinary influence! In this way, he successfully overcame the embarrassing situation of struggling with no one and became a well-known actor.
Since then, he has continuously participated in popular masterpieces such as "I Love My Home" and "The Story of the Editorial Department", which made his reputation in the entertainment industry skyrocket, and his career climbed to the peak. However, just as his career was in full swing, his emotional life was at a low point.
First of all, his marriage to Shi Lanya lasted only a short year and ended in regret. He then went through two failed marriages. Many of the second wives could not stand his temper tantrum and eventually chose to sentence their son to their own custody.
The third wife, Wang Lijun, is 20 years older than Liu Bin, which leads to huge differences in their living habits and values. Even more unfortunate, Wang Lijun betrayed him soon after marriage, and in order to escape his anger, she even left the family with her children.
So, from a young man full of longing to a middle-aged man who raised three children alone, Liu Bin's life path was full of twists and turns. He painfully recalled the past, if he had been able to hold on to his love with Shi Lanya, his current life might not be so bleak.
Unlike Liu Bin, who was born in an ordinary family, Shi Lanya grew up in an artistic environment since childhood. Her family has a deep love for art, and her parents hope that Shi Lanya will pass on this artistic talent.
Under the careful cultivation and guidance of her parents, Shi Lanya has developed a strong interest in acting since she was a child. Whenever there was a crew around to recruit actors, her parents would be ecstatic to take her to auditions, hoping to open the door to the temple of art for their daughter.
Perhaps because of his obsession with art, or because of his natural talent, Shi Lanya showed outstanding acting talent at a young age, so he quickly won the appreciation and recognition of many well-known directors in the industry.
In 1990, at the age of 19, Shi Lanya bravely took the lead and participated in the sensational TV series "Emperor Superstar", and quickly won the love and popularity of the public with her superb acting skills and outstanding performance, and became famous!
However, despite such brilliant achievements, Shi Lanya did not become complacent, but strengthened her determination to study performing arts in depth. Therefore, she resolutely chose to enter the Central Academy of Drama and devoted herself to the study of performance theory and practice.
During his studies, in order to solve the problem of living expenses and tuition fees, Shi Lanya did not give up any opportunities to perform. On the contrary, she made full use of her spare time to actively devote herself to the filming of various film and television dramas, and raised funds for her studies with her sweat and hard work. There is no doubt that her achievements today are due to her diligence and perseverance.
In 1995, after four years of hard study, Shi Lanya finally successfully completed her studies at her alma mater, the Central Academy of Drama, and officially became a professional actor. With her outstanding talent and outstanding performance, she quickly received high recognition from the industry, starred in many excellent works in a row, and her career is thriving.
Shi Lanya's love for art coincides with Liu Bin's persistent pursuit of dreams. However, it is a pity that the love story between them did not come to an end in the end, but in any case, their pursuit of ideals should be deeply remembered by us.
In the days after breaking up with Liu Bin, Shi Lanya's love life can be described as full of twists and turns. She has experienced two heart-wrenching romances, which almost made her despair of love.
The second boyfriend's affection for Shi Lanya seems to be only briefly lost, and he soon turns a blind eye to her sincere feelings and ruthlessly leaves her sincerity behind. This undoubtedly caused great pain to Slanya, and she could not bear this sudden betrayal.
Just when she was about to be completely disappointed in love, her third boyfriend arrived as scheduled, giving her a new warmth and hope. The two have been in love for many years and have a deep relationship. However, fate once again played a trick on Shi Lanya.
Behind the seemingly happy and happy situation, her boyfriend has been hiding the fact that he has a serious illness. When Shi Lanya learned the truth, the pain in her heart can be imagined.
In this way, this relationship, which was destined to end without a problem, unfortunately died. The boyfriend went to a foreign country, the two gradually became estranged, and the warmth and sweetness of the past were forgotten in the long river of time. After many tribulations, Shi Lanya's heart has despaired of love, and she only wants to stay alone, regain her strength, and devote herself to the cause she loves.
During this period, Liu Bin's emotional road was also bumpy. Although his marriage to Slanya was short-lived, it left a deep scar on him. Since then, he has experienced two more marital setbacks.
The second wife had many people, but finally chose to leave because he couldn't bear Liu Bin's irascible personality and lived alone with their son. As for his third wife, Wang Lijun, she betrayed him shortly after her marriage and eventually left him, leaving him alone with his three young children.
Since then, the two have each embarked on very different life paths. Despite the setbacks in her life, Shi Lanya remains determined in her pursuit of happiness, while Liu Bin is overwhelmed by the burden of raising three children and loses faith in love for a while.
After two failed romances and marriages, Slanya's inner world gradually becomes cold and unforgiving, and she seems to have become completely disillusioned with love. Although relatives and friends have persuaded her to re-examine herself and find a sincere love, she has always refused, stubbornly believing that she is destined to die alone.
However, just as Shi Lanya's desire for happiness was about to be shattered, a warm force quietly poured into her life, melting the last cold ice in her heart. That was when she participated in the filming of the TV series "Jiangshan", she met actor Li Youbin, and the two developed a deep relationship.
Although the age gap between the two is as high as more than ten years, and Shi Lanya is even much younger than Li Youbin, this did not stop the germination of love between them. However, what made Shi Lanya feel helpless was that Li Youbin had already entered the marriage hall at that time, and although the marriage relationship was in jeopardy, he was still a family man after all.
Faced with the infinite longing for love and the incomparable love for Li Youbin, Shi Lanya firmly decided to wait patiently. She silently suppressed the love surging in her heart, lest she fall into the whirlpool of emotions again and suffer the painful torture again.
After a long three years, Li Youbin finally got rid of the shackles of marriage and ended the unhappy marriage relationship with his ex-wife. At this point, the two of them were able to openly express their deep friendship with each other without scruples, and entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in the same year.
Shi Lanya's emotional journey can be described as full of twists and turns, she has experienced two heart-wrenching marriage breakdowns, which almost made her lose the courage to pursue happiness. However, Li Youbin gave her warmth and care that she had never experienced, which rekindled her hope for love.
Under Li Youbin's meticulous care, Shi Lanya gradually tasted the sweet taste of happiness, as if she had been reborn. The way they get along with each other is more like close friends who talk about everything, being considerate of each other, showing respect and understanding for each other everywhere.
With Li Youbin's confidant-like lover by her side, Shi Lanya finally found her own warm harbor and lived a quiet and beautiful life. The emotional road that was once full of thorns finally found a home under the protection of Li Youbin, and she felt the taste of happiness again.
Looking back on the life trajectories of Shi Lanya and Liu Bin, their fates can be described as very different. Once, they promised each other to spend their lives together, and their love was deep and incomparable. However, love can't resist the tricks of fate after all, and the breakup becomes a heavy blow that they can't bear.
After the divorce, Shi Lanya went through hardships and experienced two unsatisfactory relationships, and her desire for love was completely erased for a time. And Liu Bin's love life is also in trouble, he has married twice in succession, but both ended in failure.
Many of the second wives even left their sons alone, while the third wife, Wang Lijun, left him due to cheating, leaving Liu Bin alone to take on the responsibility of raising three children.
In the ups and downs of life, Shi Lanya finally found that long-lost happiness. She met Li Youbin during the filming of the TV series "Jiangshan", and although the two have a age difference of more than ten years, the love between them is warm and sincere.
After a long wait, Shi Lanya finally waited for her soulmate, and the two tied the knot and entered the palace of marriage together.
What is jaw-dropping is that Liu Bin, who has entered old age, is alone, immersed in a difficult and difficult life every day. The responsibility of raising and teaching his three children fell on his weathered shoulders, and the pressure of life took away his courage to rekindle the fire of emotion.
Looking back on the past, he always sighed with emotion, if he could have worked hand in hand with Shi Lanya, what would life be like today? However, the harsh reality is that fate plays mercilessly at them, destined to make them go their separate ways.
The age gap may be the key to their very different destinies. At that time, Liu Bin had already entered middle age, conservative in thought, and expected his wife to devote herself wholeheartedly to family life, while Shi Lanya was in the prime of his youth, with endless yearning for his future career.
It is interesting to note that after the divorce, the encounter and love between Shi Lanya and Li Youbin once again revealed the profound impact of age differences on relationships. Only this time, Li Youbin, who is ten years older than Shi Lanya, gave her incomparable tolerance, understanding and meticulous care, so that their relationship can continue forever under sincere care.
On the other hand, Liu Bin, in the next two marriages, the same age gap became the fuse, causing many contradictions and conflicts. He was nearly twenty years older than his wife, and he had huge differences in life philosophy and values, and he could not understand each other, which eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship.
It can be seen that the age gap is certainly an important factor affecting the development of feelings, but more importantly, whether both parties have a broad mind to tolerate and understand each other, and whether they have enough patience and wisdom to eliminate the estrangement between each other, which is the decisive factor for whether love can last.