The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
As the saying goes, there is an invisible gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes it difficult for many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to cross for a lifetime, and eventually leads to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after many years.
Ms. Wang's elderly mother-in-law wanted to eat the apple, but was rejected by Ms. Wang, who said to her mother-in-law: You want to eat the apple to tell your daughter, let her buy it for you, don't come to me. Even today, Ms. Wang is angry whenever she thinks of what her mother-in-law did when she was young.
Ms. Wang's husband was two brothers and sisters, the husband was five years older than her sister, and at that time, Ms. Wang and her husband belonged to the late marriage family, so not long after Ms. Wang married her husband, her sister-in-law was also married.
Ms. Wang and her husband were pregnant not long after they got married, at the beginning, Ms. Wang could also move independently, and did not need anyone to take care of her, but with the passage of time, Ms. Wang gradually became inconvenient, plus her husband was very busy at work at that time, there was no time to accompany himself, the couple discussed, decided to call the mother-in-law who lived in her hometown, hoping that she could come from her hometown to help take care of Ms. Wang for a period of time.
Yes, since Ms. Wang became pregnant, her mother-in-law has never come to Ms. Wang's home with her husband, and she has never said a word of concern.
However, the development of the matter was unexpected by Ms. Wang, and when her husband called her mother-in-law, she was rejected because her sister, who had just married, was also pregnant, and her mother-in-law wanted to go to her sister's house to take care of her.
When the husband hung up the phone, he looked at Ms. Wang with an embarrassed face, and Ms. Wang could not say anything for a while.
Change to someone else's mother-in-law, after hearing that the daughter-in-law is pregnant, which is not happy to take care of the daughter-in-law, afraid that the daughter-in-law will fall and touch, although their mother-in-law needs to take care of the sister-in-law, but the sister-in-law also has her own mother-in-law, which can still be your turn to take care of.
But at this point, Ms. Wang and her husband could only find another way. Finally, the husband hired a nanny for Ms. Wang and took care of ms. Wang until Ms. Wang gave birth.
Since then, there has been a huge rift in the relationship between Ms. Wang and her mother-in-law, and even if it is the New Year, Ms. Wang only chooses to return to her hometown with her husband if she can't hide.
Since Ms. Wang and her sister-in-law are pregnant almost at the same time, the two children are about the same age, but for the mother-in-law, she always seems to favor her grandson, and there is always some intentional or unintentional neglect of her grandson.
In this regard, Ms. Wang naturally can't stand it, and the mother-in-law doesn't care about herself, after all, she is only a daughter-in-law, but she also treats her grandson differently, which is equivalent to touching Ms. Wang's reverse scales.
There was a big fight between Ms. Wang and her mother-in-law, and since then, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has dropped to a freezing point.
In fact, for Ms. Wang, she does not require her mother-in-law to be considerate of herself, only hopes that she can fulfill her mother-in-law's responsibilities, but the mother-in-law's inaction eventually annoyed Ms. Wang, and since then, she has not even returned home for the New Year.
Sometimes Ms. Wang also asks her husband why her mother-in-law does not pay attention to herself, and her husband obviously cannot say the reason, after all, one party is her mother, the other is her daughter-in-law, the palms of her hands and the backs of her hands are all meat, and finally, the husband can only use the unstable reason of "my sister is younger, and my mother may prefer her more" to explain these behaviors of her mother-in-law.
Time flies, gradually, the children grow up, and the mother-in-law is gradually old, since the mother-in-law is old, she has been living in Ms. Wang's house, of course, at the beginning the mother-in-law meant to live in the daughter's place, but the daughter is not willing to accept the mother-in-law, because she also has her own mother-in-law to take care of.
The poor mother-in-law has been serving her daughter all her life, but in the end her daughter is unwilling to accept her.
In desperation, the mother-in-law lived in Ms. Wang's home. Years of dissatisfaction can be so easily resolved, once the mother-in-law wanted to eat apples, but the family did not have it, Ms. Wang said to the mother-in-law: Want to eat apples for your daughter to say, let her buy it for you.
After hearing Ms. Wang's words, the mother-in-law couldn't help but be silent, after all, what she had done for so many years, there was no feeling between her and her daughter-in-law, and it was already a blessing to be able to let herself live here.
After seeing this scene, her husband was a little unbearable, so he persuaded Ms. Wang to conform to her mother-in-law, but Ms. Wang said: I don't want to, turn my head and walk away.
In this regard, the husband can only express helplessness, after all, he has no reason to persuade Ms. Wang.
For Ms. Wang's mother-in-law, it is precisely because she did not ask her daughter-in-law anything when she was young, and when she was old, she wanted to eat an apple and was rejected by her daughter-in-law.
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