Distance from the opposite sex has always been a topic of discussion, but does this still need to be said?
Shouldn't a person with boyfriend and girlfriend or marriage keep their distance from the opposite sex the most basic truth?
Keeping distance here does not mean not being able to come and go, but beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends, such as coming to you for a little thing in life, and the first thing that comes to mind outside the home is you.
Good morning, good night, chat constantly, don't know really think you are a couple.
You might say that this is my good buddy, or good confidant, so good, so where is the other position in the family?
Next you may have various reasons, such as looking for someone to help.
In "Perfect Partner", Lin Qingkun is very busy, busy with work, busy with the two of them to have a good life, but it is also this kind of busyness that leads to his wife's dissatisfaction, and when he encounters things, he looks for Sun Lei.
It seems that Wu Min is looking for Sun Lei, but in essence, the relationship between the two people is wrong, there is no communication, one needs companionship, and the other feels that everything I do is for this family.
If your partner has been very busy responding to you, it proves that there is something wrong with your relationship, and it is more important to communicate, understand where your problem is, and fix it.
If he is really busy and does not have time to pay attention to you, you can handle small things by yourself, big things must be consulted with him, and you cannot ignore the other half because of work, which will affect the harmony of the family in the long run.
Instead of because he is busy, then I will go to other people, you may be to provoke him, let him reflect, but everyone's ideas and ways of thinking are different, which in his eyes is to always find others regardless of his face.
There is also a reason why I just help her
Many men for the opposite sex are not rejected, to say that it is a warm man, but warm everyone has become the central air conditioning, as a wife to think, is not the home are all good?
Just like Sun Lei in "Perfect Partner", everyone says that he takes care of his family, is a good person, and is warm-hearted, and indeed everyone may say that he is good, but what do you think as a wife?
Your husband is called on and even if you don't look for your husband, you won't feel comfortable, you'll just be depressed.
Because this is what other husbands are going to do, your husband is just crossing the line.
Sun Lei said that I am like this to many people, yes, you are like this to many people, you have no heart, but the other party may be intentional?
You see Sun Lei's on-call to Wu Min, cooking and caring for her so much that she said nonsense in front of her husband, I just want to see him, I feel respected.
Originally, you may have been kind, but now it has become 4 people who are injured, Lin Qingkun's self-esteem has been hit, Chen Shan is also very sad, although they all understand, but understanding does not mean that there is no idea at all.
In the long run, everyone is not happy.
In the past, it was said that there is a difference between men and women, and now even if it is open a lot, but both of them are people with families, you have a big package when things happen, how do people's husbands live?
Burns, people say that they can deal with themselves, you still want to take medicine for others, the key is that Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun have frequent contact, he will also be jealous, which proves that he understands.
But how did it come to be just a concern? Moreover, the two people are still only the acquaintance between parents, and they have reached such a deep point that I am afraid that they cannot say it in front of their children.
Because of her husband's absence, Wu Min looked for Sun Lei in everything, regardless of the feelings of the other wife, and Sun Lei shouted that he was warm-hearted and had no boundaries about Wu Min's affairs.
A few meetings made the four people very embarrassed, didn't they show up, and the others would not be able to?
Every time with children, two adults, married should understand the boundaries, rather than blindly mixing with each other's families, otherwise everyone says that they want to be a pair.
In fact, to be honest, they are really not necessarily a good couple, both people are home-based, although there is no requirement for materials, but it does not mean that there is no material.
Lin Qingkun and Chen Shan both worked hard for the quality of life of the family, if the two people as a whole are entangled, they are family chores, there is no ability to earn money, but I am afraid that I will not be able to live a day.
Therefore, after marriage, you should keep a distance from the opposite sex, and if there is anything in the marriage, you will return home to solve it.
Is it that it continues to be discussed by two people, and it is impossible to solve these problems by relying on outsiders to help, today is these small things to let people outside help, so what about tomorrow?
Is it a big deal in the family, or is your body physically necessary for help?
If the husband and wife really can't solve it, then say it again, because not keeping a distance from the opposite sex often hurts not you alone, but a group of people.
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Love will see, interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way