Really loving someone is not a good feeling for a while, but knowing that there is no result, but still want to persist, no matter how painful it is, it is willing, because it is not easy to meet, and it is a pity to miss it. Anyway, the best result, the rest of your life is you, the worst, but the rest of your life is pain and memories.
"Feeling this thing, it is good not to live up to each other, it is too difficult to live up to this life." This is a sentence in the movie "Later Us", our life will meet many people, many things, some people leave, some people come. No matter how good you are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you, no matter how bad you are, there will always be someone who loves you. Some people can accompany you throughout the rest of your life, and some people appear just to teach you a lesson and teach you what growth is. For those who don't love you, you have to know how to let go, and for those who love you, you have to cherish it.
Love is a sweet jelly, marriage is a cup of boiled water, so people in love are always full of happiness, once they enter marriage, they find that the happiness when they were in love is gone, and more is replaced by family chores and quarrels from time to time. Maybe it's because I've seen too many cases of marriage failure, or maybe it's the sweetness of lust for love, so some girls don't want to get married, or even fear marriage.
However, in real life, when you really meet a person you like, boys are eager to hold hands with her and enter the marriage, only by getting married, their love can be regarded as a positive result. When faced with marriage, the psychology of girls is complicated, and she will consider many problems, such as: fear that love can not withstand chai rice oil and salt, fear that her husband will no longer love her after marriage, fear of not having a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, fear... Wait, when faced with these problems, girls will be discouraged.
In fact, some girls only want to fall in love, do not want to get married, it is not that she intends to play with your feelings, nor does she not love you enough, but you do not give her enough security, she is not confident in herself, and dare not face the complicated chores after marriage.
So what will be the performance of girls who only talk about love and do not marry? Today, Nuan Nuan will analyze it with you:
One is not interested in wedding dresses
The wedding dress is really beautiful, it is a beautiful yearning for every girl to enter the marriage hall, probably every girl is looking forward to wearing the most beautiful wedding dress at the wedding to marry the most loved one.
However, there will be exceptions to everything, and some girls just don't like the wedding dress and the messy process of the wedding.
Liu Lu was once an unmarried girl, she looked beautiful, lived soberly, was a very personality girl, because of her outstanding looks, so she often had boys around her to pursue, she also talked about love several times, but did not enter the marriage. We used to go shopping together, and when we walked to a wedding dress shop, several of us were attracted by the wedding dress in the window, except for Liu Lu, who looked indifferent. I asked her, "Which one do you like?" She said: "I don't like any of them, I'm not a princess, even if I wear a wedding dress, I don't look like a princess, so I never dream of a princess..." ”
Liu Lu's free personality lasted for two years after graduation, until her true destiny appeared, the man spoiled her as a princess, and later she got married, and at the wedding she wore a beautiful wedding dress, beautiful and moving.
Man, you must know that if a woman is with you and she does not desire a wedding and does not want to wear a wedding dress, then it is likely that she does not want to marry you at all. If your relationship is very good, she may only want to fall in love with you, just want to enjoy this short-term happiness, and did not think that in the future, such a girl will give you an unforgettable love, but may not be able to accompany you into marriage.
When you propose marriage, she shifts the subject
Colleague Xiao Li is 29 years old this year, talked about a girlfriend, three years, immediately arrived at the year of establishment, marriage is imminent, Xiao Li proposed marriage several times without success, every time he mentioned marriage, the girlfriend is either not ready, or deliberately shifted the topic. This made Xiao Li very distressed. Xiao Li came to me with this question, he said, their relationship has always been very good, he can also feel that she loves him, but why, she just does not want to get married?
I told him that girls actually have some fear in the face of marriage, the first marriage has no experience, and thinking of the tedious process of the wedding, they have to face a lot of unknown things after marriage, because of the fear of the future unknown. This requires men to be more enlightened, give her courage and security, and then firmly tell her, don't be afraid, no matter what happens in the future, there will be me.
Men should understand that if you have a certain emotional foundation, you obviously feel that women love you, but you propose to get married, she always shifts the topic, then you need to give her safety and bravery, I believe that as long as you take this step, you can get happiness.
She is very independent and never depends on you
Zhang Jiayi once said: A woman does not depend on you materially, does not depend on you financially, and does not depend on you spiritually, so please ask you, women are so independent! Does she still want to get married?
Women are inherently sensitive and vulnerable and insecure. Even the most powerful woman longs to have a shoulder to lean on, and when she is tired, someone cares about herself and pampers herself. If you meet a loved one, most women will have a psychology of dependence, and a particularly strong woman will occasionally become a small woman snuggled up next to a man. Spoiling and showing weakness is a way for a woman to express her love.
Once saw a boy in the circle of friends said: always feel that she is too independent, never spoiled, not sticky, not active and not dependent, and even sometimes feel not like his girlfriend, but like an ordinary friend, sometimes there are obvious things hidden, ask her not to say, always by herself strong support, I love her, but also more sticky to her, I don't know if she loves me or not?
I think for a girl who is too independent, what she needs is mutual appreciation, not all kinds of struggles, at this time, it is necessary for boys to have their own ideas and independent personalities, and to be able to link with each other spiritually. And independent girls to fall in love, boys should be confident, you know, since she is so independent and willing to fall in love with you, in many people chose to be with you, then you must have something desirable in her heart.
Girls are born with delicate minds, many worries, independent girls are often sober-minded, have plans for their lives and future careers, and she also has her own positioning for feelings, they are not like "love brain" girls, a few sweet words can be done. Therefore, during the relationship, she will carefully observe the quality and personality of boys for a long time. Therefore, for independent and non-clingy girls, they will not agree to marry you too quickly.
Conclusion:
Marriage is the ultimate destination of two people, and every couple who loves each other is eager to enter the palace of marriage. If girls only fall in love with you and don't want to get married, men you have to understand that the real reason why women don't want to get married is not that they don't love you, but:
1 You didn't give her enough security
2 She's still examining your character
3 Fear of the future, fear of facing the aftermath of marriage
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