Everyone has experienced the principle of the AA system, simply put, it is the equal division system, everyone eats together to pay their own money, or the party pays equally according to the head, this is the so-called AA system, of course, the implementation of this AA system is more and more extensive, and some people even use it in marriage. This AA system is like a double-edged sword, some families are getting happier and happier, and some families have become broken and messed up, which can only be said that each family has the way of each family, can not say that all of them live in the AA method, some families will really have some unbearable. However, the AA system has recently become popular in the remarried families of the elderly, let's take a look at the story of Uncle Zhang to judge whether this system is suitable or not.
Uncle Zhang is 69 years old this year and then in a few months will be the seventieth birthday, his wife has died early, Uncle Zhang, when he was young, he opened a fruit supermarket, although not particularly rich, but life is also very moist, it is this fruit supermarket that gives his family a happy life, now he is older, there is no more energy to take care of this fruit supermarket, so his son inherited, and his son also filial piety gave him more than 5,000 living expenses every month.
Uncle Zhang's daughter-in-law is also very open-minded, although the daughter-in-law very much hopes that Uncle can go to live with them, but Uncle knows that there will inevitably be some small contradictions after a long time, so his son and daughter-in-law are also very much in agreement with him to find a new wife, and even often arrange blind dates for him.
Uncle Zhang's conditions are quite good, there are nearly 300,000 deposits in his hand, there is a house of 120 square meters, the body is very healthy, this condition is a good one, but the process of blind date is not ideal, most of them are running to the uncle's deposit, so the uncle has gradually resisted the blind date. In fact, uncle also hopes that he has a wife to spend the rest of his life with him, but the difficulty of this blind date makes him realize the difficulty of finding a wife, either for him to come with money or to bring a son who is not useful, and then the health is not very good, Uncle Zhang definitely does not want to experience the pain of widowhood again, so uncle is also a headache. However, the so-called heart to plant flowers and flowers do not bloom, no heart to plant willows, ah, uncle so met his favorite wife.
Uncle one day in the community fitness met another with his same wife died early aunt, the two talked very happily, so the two gradually more and more, the aunt also often came to Uncle Zhang's home to cook and eat together, together to sort out the housework, soon the two people got comfort from each other's interactions, the two also quickly came out of the shadow of the loss of their wife. This big aunt is called Aunt Wang, when Aunt Wang was young, her husband unfortunately suffered a car accident and died early, and her daughter had already been married, and now that she is older, she has not had a very stable residence, and she also hopes to have a complete home.
In this way, the two elderly people began to try to change this identity, gradually from friends to lovers, and also tried to get along together, and the two people came to a "trial marriage" and talked about a relationship. Soon the two of them took the marriage license and did not have any wedding. The simple two became a twilight couple.
Uncle wang is very satisfied with all aspects of aunt Wang, people are diligent and honest, but there is only one point, that is, after marriage, her daughter will no longer support her, for this uncle also knows that aunt Wang's daughter's family is actually not so rich, after all, married with a family and children, the cost is really not small. But after a long time, the uncle inevitably felt that he was a bit of a loss, so he was a little sullen and unhappy.
Later, when the son came to visit him at home, he knew about this matter and came up with an idea for the uncle, if it really doesn't work, dad and aunt implement the AA system, I heard that this system is still quite popular recently, so that no one will feel that they have suffered a loss.
The two old men thought about it for a while, thinking that this was a fresh proposal, and it was really not okay, so let's try it. So the two old people began to live aA system after marriage, but the implementation of this AA system of life was a little unexpected by the uncle.
Two people share the utility bills, no matter what to do to keep accounts, each one and a half, at first uncle felt very good, but half a month passed, uncle found the difficulties, he found that there was no one at home to clean up. Later, it was found that the original aunt went out to find a job in order to live, and came out early and returned late every day, so the housework was delayed.
Uncle Zhang went to ask Aunt Wang why no one had done the housework at home? At this time, the aunt said that this is the AA system, economically, in life, it is necessary to AA system, and housework must be evenly distributed, so that no one will take advantage of anyone.
Aunt Wang also said: "Moreover, I am going out to work now so that I can earn money that we can AA!" Uncle Wang was dumbfounded by Aunt Wang, and what made It even more difficult for Uncle Wang to accept was that Aunt Wang often did not go home to eat when she worked late, and at this time, Uncle Zhang was back at home alone, which made Uncle Zhang feel very uncomfortable He wanted Aunt Wang to be able to accompany him at home more often. At this time, Aunt Wang said: "Lao Zhang, I also need gas, vegetable money and other expenses to cook at home, these have to spend money, you want me to do you have to give enough money I can cook, this is also part of the AA system, I can't afford it, and I eat in the unit, the unit is in charge of rice, this does not require me to spend money, this is very cost-effective for me." ”
Uncle Zhang thought in bed at night, this AA system is simply too uncomfortable, originally wanted to find a wife to spend the rest of his life with, but now he has fallen back to his own state of no one to take care of, which is too unbearable. Then the uncle called his son to the house, the son was teased by the uncle laughed, the son explained to the uncle: "Dad originally did business everything has to be counted, this is still more careful, and a little machismo, never want to let himself suffer losses." This idea can also make Dad realize the shortcomings of his personality, and then Dad can know and correct mistakes, after all, life cannot be measured by calculation. ”
The matter was finally resolved in the end, and the uncle finally understood the pain of Aunt Wang, and since then, the aunt quit her job, and the two finally lived a happy old age.
In fact, marriage is like this, sometimes a happy marriage can not be completely measured by money, and often the family life with heavier family affection will be happier and more satisfying.
What do you think about AA marriage?
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