As the saying goes, the mother of the child is worried, no matter how old the child is, the parents can not put their minds at ease. Even if their children get married and have children, most parents will earnestly take care of them later.
However, the well-intentioned intentions of parents are not really understood by many children. And after understanding, there are very few who can really return one or two.
Therefore, parents raise their children and raise a love affair, but they can only watch their children gradually break away from their wings.
01, the daughter is upside down to marry
If it were not for the original daughter's move of crying, making trouble and hanging herself, perhaps Aunt Yang would not have easily agreed to her daughter marrying her son-in-law Luo An, who was penniless at the time.
Although Luo An's son-in-law has a good character and looks in line with their requirements, his family is too poor. Although my parents no longer farmed, they could only make ends meet by doing odd jobs. If you want to be rich and noble, it is even more difficult to ascend to the sky if two sons can get married and get hundreds of thousands of down payments and dowries.
Therefore, when Aunt Yang agreed to the marriage of her daughter and son-in-law, the old couple bought a dowry house for their daughter at their own expense. They thought that they would have a daughter, and all their family property would be left to their daughter in the future, so Aunt Yang and her wife did not feel any pain.
And it is precisely because of the daughter's upside-down marriage that the small family of two families has slowly supported it, otherwise relying on the economic conditions of the family, I don't know that the Year of the Monkey can make my daughter live in a house in the city?
It's just that the daughter is married, but Aunt Yang's heart is not less than half a point. The daughter and son-in-law work in general, the salary is not high, and the two people can barely cope with the mortgage and living expenses. But after the daughter became pregnant and gave birth to the child, the two little ones began to cry bitterly.
Although Aunt Yang did not want to care, she still could not bear to stand by and watch, so she had to subsidize her daughter with some money every month to help her daughter raise her children. With the help of Aunt Yang's money and efforts, her daughter's first child has indeed been slowly raised.
02, the daughter asked the second son to follow his surname
However, before Aunt Yang could catch her breath and take a break, her daughter suddenly told her parents that she was accidentally pregnant with her second child. Aunt Yang was surprised and happy, so she had to help her daughter raise her grandson again, and then waited for her daughter's three meals a day.
Originally, the whole family hoped that their daughter's second child would be a sweet little cotton jacket, but who knows, in the end, it is still a son. When the second grandson was full moon, the daughter quarreled with her son-in-law, saying that she was an only child, and the second son should be surnamed after her.
In fact, if the grandson does not follow his own surname, Aunt Yang does not particularly care. But if the grandson can have a surname that follows him, it is also a very good thing, and his own family houses can be left to the grandson in the future.
It's just that the son-in-law doesn't agree, and the two relatives are even more noisy on the full moon wine, saying that their son is marrying a daughter-in-law, rather than plugging the door backwards, and being a door-to-door son-in-law, so the children naturally have to take their son's surname. No matter how many grandchildren they had, their old Luo family could afford to raise them.
Hearing such a shout from her relatives, Aunt Yang felt a little ridiculous. The daughter's first child, the two relatives said how good it sounded, but they did not come to help serve the confinement, nor did they come to help with the child. As soon as the daughter asked them to help, the two relatives, either to shirk the bad health, or to say that the daughter-in-law is also pregnant, and so stay at home to take care of it, and lack of skills.
In the end, Aunt Yang couldn't bear her daughter to fight alone, so she took it all in, and it was really money and effort. But the family quarreled, and in the end, they could not stand up to the daughter,The second child was either with my surname or divorced, which blocked the mouth of the family.
03, after the second child, the mother-in-law became the son-in-law's ATM
After the second child and the daughter's surname, it was difficult to agree to come to bring the child's mother, but she did not do it, saying that her own grandson did not have a surname with her, and she did not have to serve a person with a foreign surname. Then he went straight back to his hometown, and after that, he didn't want to come out no matter how much he urged him.
The harsh words of the mother of the family made the daughter who had just come out of confinement shed tears. Aunt Yang was heartbroken and had to take care of her daughter's second child again. As the child slowly grew up, Aunt Yang slowly relaxed a lot.
But no one expected that after the second-born grandson and his daughter's surname, the two relatives did not understand things, and it was just a matter of throwing their hands away, even the biological father luo an with the child, also followed the stall, but where the child had any expenses, the son-in-law always let the daughter find his mother's parents to ask for money, saying that their old Luo family had no obligation to support other people's children.
The son-in-law's words made Aunt Yang feel very unhappy. The two relatives were not chaotic enough, and they complained in the son-in-law's ear all day to make a small report, afraid that their son and daughter-in-law's feelings were too good, and they also asked the son-in-law and Aunt Yang for money, saying whose children were paid for.
Whenever she saw her daughter tearfully talking about these things, Aunt Yang was heartbroken. For the sake of her daughter's family harmony, Aunt Yang and her wife not only took out all their old books, but even the monthly pension did not dare to spend more, and all of them were sent to their daughters, which solved the dilemma of their daughters raising two sons.
However, thinking that he did not take advantage of what cheap, and also posted a house and his daughter's Aunt Yang, his heart was very unbalanced. Since the little grandson and his surname, the family has a lot of broken jars broken, do not care, what money to let the daughter go back to the mother's home, as if their own home is the family's ATM.
Aunt Yang very much wanted to leave her hands alone and let her daughter cope with it on her own, after all, such a man and in-laws were also blinded by her daughter herself.
But after all, it is still a mother and daughter connection, Aunt Yang is reluctant and can't open it, she can only endure bitterly, hoping that her little grandson will grow up early and enjoy her old age well.
The woman pasted the house upside down and pasted the parents' pension money, so that she could barely support her two sons. In this way, not only is the woman pasted upside down, or the woman even brings her parents to help the in-laws.
Encountering such a selfish in-laws is the misfortune of a woman, and it is also the misfortune of the parents behind the woman. Parents only feel sorry for their daughters, but they have to take all their family property to subsidize their daughters.
Therefore, marriage is the second reincarnation of women, before they are optimistic and clear, women must not be confused for love.
Today's Topic:
How do you think Aunt Yang should get rid of the moral kidnapping of her family?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!