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A recent hot search news, see pregnant mother indignant.
A 38-year-old mother of a second child was beaten by her husband who had been sleeping in the same bed for 9 years until her heart stopped!
Although she recovered her heartbeat after being rescued by doctors, unfortunately, she died on the fifth day after being admitted to the ICU ward.
She left her favorite world, and both children lost their mom forever.
As the news was exposed, her tragic experience was also revealed, and people choked up to see it.....
According to the deceased's sister, this is not the first time that the sister, Ms. Huang, has been abused by her husband.
Ms. Huang, 38, has been married to her husband Sun Mou for 9 years and has given birth to two daughters, one 8 years old and one 4 years old.
After marriage, the husband is idle all day and drinks heavily.
In order to support her family and give her children a good life, Ms. Huang opened a clothing store, industrious and optimistic and easy-going, she gained a lot of repeat customers, and the business of the store is getting better and better.
As a mother, she is bent on one day in the future, she can buy a small house on her own ability and give her children a better life.
But all the longings were shattered by the demonic husband.
Because her husband was an alcoholic, Ms. Huang was often beaten and scolded by her drunken husband.
After waking up, he cried and apologized like a trick, begging for his wife's forgiveness.
In addition, Sun Mou also has an almost perverted desire to control, not only installed surveillance in the store, but also installed a monitor in the keychain that his wife carries, and his wife's every move is within his surveillance range.
Even if his wife had a daily meal with friends, he would interfere, not only stirring up trouble but also beating people.
Later, Sun Mou's violent behavior became more and more serious, and if he did not feel the slightest displeasure, he would punch and kick his wife, and even pinch his wife's neck.
However, in order not to worry her family, Ms. Huang is not worried, but such a violent life is ultimately unbearable.
Ms. Huang thought about divorce, but her family who did not know the truth advised her: Bear with it, for the sake of the children, the children need father's love and need a complete family.
Children are always the weakness of the mother, under the persuasion of the family, Ms. Huang chose patience and forgiveness for the sake of her two daughters, and continued to maintain this marriage bitterly.
But her forbearance did not exchange her husband's conscience, did not wait for the prodigal son to turn back, she waited for only intensified domestic violence, and she was also killed!
The tragedy of Ms. Huang warns all girls that they must polish their eyes, these three kinds of men must not marry!
Men with violent tendencies must not marry!
Too many tragic examples tell us: domestic violence is only 0 times and countless times.
It's just that when most people encounter domestic violence, few people can escape at the first time.
Some people hope that the other party will change, and some people will be coaxed by men's various rhetoric afterwards, but domestic violence will have the Nth time for the first time, and never expect this time in front of you to be the last.
Ms. Liu of Shangqiu, Henan, in order to escape her husband's domestic violence, she chose to jump from the second floor, she said: I am not committing suicide, I am escaping!
Because this is not the first time she has been abused by the family, before her husband lost money because of gambling, she beat her up and punched and kicked her, and she filed for divorce at that time.
But the husband admitted his mistake sincerely, promised that he would never do it again, and she forgave the other party with a soft heart, which had the bitter fruit behind.
The beautiful, hard-working, kind anchor Ram, who was with her ex-husband at the age of seventeen or eighteen, had two sons, and could be married for more than ten years, which was a nightmare for her, and she silently endured many domestic violence.
Divorced to save his life, and remarried for the safety of his children, he was soon beaten again until he lost his life.
She is so sunny and kind, trying to live, but she was killed by her ex-husband in the most cruel way in the world, which is too painful.
All girls must remember that when the violence begins, the man's affection for the man is no longer there, and all you have to do is to turn around bravely and avoid secondary injury!
A man who is abusive will never be a good partner or a good father!
Don't put up with it again and again, blindly tolerating will only put yourself in danger!
All the perpetrators will be habitual offenders, and they must stop the loss in time, whether it is in love, marriage, or after having children!
Emotionally unstable men, must not marry!
Emotionally unstable people are like a time bomb.
Normal circumstances, it may seem no different, but when the madness comes, it is often accompanied by violence and immeasurable consequences.
As psychology professor Li Meijin said: Emotionally unstable people, their emotions are very marginalized, there is no buffer period, always in the two extremes of emotions, either not alarming, or stormy.
How scary are emotionally unstable people?
A while ago, a video of a man abusing a baby caused public outrage, and the man in the video abused a baby.
Later, after investigation, the couple in the video had a conflict due to family trivia, and the man Cheng Beat His Young Son because of his emotional loss of control.
A person who does not control his emotions well, once the emotions are out of control, it is the weak women and children who are hurt.
The pregnant mother also brushed a news a while ago, which is a surveillance video of the accident released by @Guangzhou traffic police.
In the video, a couple has an argument because of emotional problems, and boyfriend Ah Feng deliberately walks to the middle of the road and faces the traffic with open arms to show his girlfriend Xiaoting "how to be hit by a car".
Xiaoting tried to persuade her boyfriend to leave the highway, but was unexpectedly hit in the chest by her boyfriend with his right elbow and crouched in the lane two steps backwards.
Just when Ah Feng wanted to check Xiaoting's situation, the driver Lin Mou drove a small car past, instantly knocking Xiaoting away and wiping Ah Feng to the ground.
In the end, Xiaoting died due to her injuries and ineffective rescue.
These bloody examples tell us that being with emotionally unstable people is a disaster, as if a time bomb has been placed around you.
When this bomb will explode, how powerful it is, and whether it will be peaceful or shattered in the next second, no one knows.
Such a bomb should be dismantled early, and only then should we be kind to ourselves!
Because extreme emotions are the same as domestic violence, only 0 times and countless times.
Most people who commit domestic violence will continue to commit domestic violence after admitting their mistakes, and the same is true for people with extreme emotions!
Men who are stained with yellow gambling poison must not marry!
Yellow gambling and poison, any kind, as long as it is stained, can make a family troublesome, the wife and daughter are scattered, and even the family is destroyed.
A while ago, Mango had a variety show, and the female guest could not have chosen to divorce because her husband gambled.
Her husband is her first love, 7 years in love, 2 years in marriage, after marriage found out that her husband gambled...
(Image source: Variety show "Spring Day Delays Departure Again")
The first gamble was when the parents filled the pit for their husbands to pay off their debts.
The second time she gambled, her husband actually thought that she helped him pay back, and even blamed her: Why are we married, I owe money but my mother is helping me pay it back, why don't you help me pay it back?
And she has always liked children, and after knowing that her husband gambled, she secretly took birth control pills.
Because she felt that giving birth to a child for her gambling husband was irresponsible to herself, and even more irresponsible to her children.
Fortunately, in the face of her repeated unchanging husband, she chose to leave and ended the relationship.
However, it is a pity that not all girls who encounter this situation can have this luck.
In March 2020, a 26-year-old man in Shanghai, Yan Mou, killed his wife and set him on fire because of a conflicting debt, when his wife was pregnant.
The cause of the tragedy also stems from gambling.
The perpetrator Yan was adopted by his adoptive parents from childhood, the family was well-off, his adoptive father opened a garment factory in Shanghai, when the business was good, he earned millions of dollars a year, bought a villa, and bought a luxury car for Yan.
Later, Yan met his 27-year-old wife Xiaoli, who was a high school teacher and looked beautiful, and Yan began to pursue.
During the pursuit, Xiaoli also heard about Yan Mou's situation, had a temper, and was not self-motivated, but she chose to believe during the love period.
However, after marriage, Xiao Li found that Yan mou actually gambled badly, has lost nearly ten million assets in the family, and the adoptive parents desperately make up for the hole for their son, but the bottomless pit of gambling, plus Yan did not want to close it at all, and the family could not fill this hole at all.
During Xiaoli's pregnancy, Yan ran out again, and as a result, she lost another 4 million, xiaoli couldn't bear it, and the two had a big fight.
But who knows, Yan actually took out a knife and stabbed his pregnant wife!
When he saw his wife pass out unconscious, he was scared again, he took out gasoline and poured it on his wife, and then he set a fire in the villa, trying to disguise it as a fire.
In this way, the pregnant wife was burned alive.....
Such evil is simply beyond people's cognition, how to treat their pregnant wives!
But as netizens said: yellow gambling and drugs, these three things are addictive, becoming addicted is like selling the soul to the devil, you can never imagine what they will do for this!
Yes, a person can have no great achievements, but he must not stick to the yellow gambling poison, and any one can destroy the whole family!
Timely stop loss is a life-saving wisdom!
There are thousands of accommodations in this world, but marriage cannot.
Pregnancy yesterday and moms solicited this topic: what happened to the marriages that will be done?
The answer given by a mother is very simple, but the words are harsh: the marriage that will be done is either tormented or exploded!
And the price to be paid under the outbreak is never light.
Therefore, girls, in the matter of marriage, how to be cautious is not excessive, let alone tolerate half a point, because marrying the wrong person is really very terrible!
If you find a problem before marriage, please run away decisively, this is a lifesaver.
But if you really find that you have not met a good match after marriage, you must withdraw in time, stop the loss in time, and the fearless persistence will only make your injured body incomplete.
Just like Ms. Huang, if she had fled during the first domestic violence, she would not have lost her life.
Just like Xiaoli, who is pregnant, if she withdraws decisively when she knows that her husband is gambling and will not turn back, she can protect herself and her children.
Unfortunately, nothing is as if.......
I want to say to all girls: life is your own, what others say does not count, let alone be swayed by the persuasion of others, because they can't pay for your emotions and life.
Stop the loss in time, maybe there will be a better choice, a better life.
As the writer Yan Xiaoyi said:
What about marriage? It's better than getting married.
What if you're already married? It's better than having a baby.
What about having a baby? It's better than catching up with the rest of your life, all the good years.
Breakups, divorces are not the end of the world, holding the wrong person for a lifetime is, that kind of life, dark and heavy, never see the light.
Such a precious you, don't let the unworthy people waste a good time, at any time, please cherish and protect yourself!
Reference articles
(Image source: Variety show "Spring Day Delays Departure Again")
@Li Meijin