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The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

Now, "Dear Child" is also about to usher in the key moment of the finale. The ending in the original film version was open-ended, and the ending of the drama version also became the object of everyone's speculation, and I don't know what the final ending will be.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

After all, this drama is based on real events, and the story line of the drama version and the film version is the same. However, in order to make the story more full, the former has filled many characters, and the plot has also been more or less changed.

After all, art is based on reality, and it is higher than reality, and naturally there are differences. The plot of the play gathers more contradictions between the husband and wife after marriage, as well as between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, showing the audience the family trivialities of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea. Countless frivolities, as well as endless emotional problems.

However, in the real archetypal story, there are so many contradictions in the play.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

But there are also some beautiful things in the play. In the play, Xie Tianhua's role is newly added. Although he has no economic strength and the conditions are relatively ordinary, his heart is the kindest in the whole play.

After knowing Fang Yinuo, he was not only gentle with her, but also very kind to her daughter, just like his own daughter. I have to say that this stepfather has also done a very successful job. The reason why this role is added in the play may also be because the encounter of the heroine in the prototype is too painful.

Adding a role can also bring her more warmth, so that the ending has more warm possibilities, which seems to give the heroine hope, but in fact, it gives the audience a warmer expectation.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

In the play, the heroine's ending is still good, divorced from her ex-husband who does not care much about herself, and meets a good person who is very good to her. On the other hand, the heroine in the prototype does not have such a good situation.

But what is the true story archetype?

The real heroine in the story is named Yan Ying, that is, Fang Yinuo in the play, and Xiao Lu corresponds to Qin Deqiang, although the name has a strong sense of morality, it is seriously inconsistent in reality. The couple came all the way from their hometown to Guiyang to work, and the prototype of Hehe was their eldest son.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

Although the husband and wife have given birth to two sons before and after, their emotional life is not harmonious, because the husband is too grumpy and will always quarrel, and eventually they choose to divorce, and the eldest son follows the mother, and the second son follows the father. After the divorce, the woman did not choose to remarry like Fang Yinuo, and has not been married since the divorce, keeping the eldest son to live. However, I did not expect that when my eldest son was seven years old, because of knee pain, he underwent several examinations and was finally diagnosed with leukemia, which was naturally difficult for the mother to accept.

So the woman began to take the child everywhere for medical treatment, hoping to cure the disease for her son. But it was difficult for her to raise a child alone after the divorce, so how could she come up with a large amount of money to see her child?

At that time, the eldest son was constantly undergoing chemotherapy in the hospital, and her parents could not live together, so she could only buy a straw mat to sleep on the street, just to save the cost of accommodation. Even when she eats every day, she only eats two steamed buns, saving the money for the meal to see her children.

It wasn't until the police learned of her situation that they offered her free accommodation and gave her five hundred dollars.

Although this money is very meager for the people who see a doctor, it makes Yan Ying feel warm, and he did not expect to meet the help of well-meaning people in a distant place.

However, if you want to cure leukemia, it is really a long-term cost of financial, material and manpower, it took more than 80,000 yuan before and after, and before she could cure her eldest son's disease, the money she had saved for so many years had been spent.

However, at this time, the doctor told her that if she wanted to operate, she would need 200,000 yuan. And having money doesn't necessarily make it, and you have to find the most suitable bone marrow. To this end, she can only choose to sell her house and car, and she has to go around raising money if she does not have enough money. But her husband punched and kicked himself, not only did not help, but also complained and got angry. These bad actions were all seen by the eldest son, which caused great trauma to his soul.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

He always felt that the reason for his parents' quarrel was because of himself, and if he really left, maybe the family would be calm. He even planned to take the medicine and leave, and prepared a suicide note in advance, hoping that his parents would not quarrel again. Fortunately, this move was discovered early, and this life was not explained early.

However, after Xiao Lu's divorce in the play, he is still taking care of the sick Hehe, and even keeps making money to save his daughter. This is a hundred times stronger than the male major in the prototype.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

Fang Yinuo had Xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua, but Yan Ying had nothing. When she learned that the bone marrow pairing of the second son and the eldest son was successful, she did not expect that the age of the donor must be adult, when the second son was only 11 years old, so naturally there was no way.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

However, she also learned that the baby's umbilical cord blood could be used, so she had an idea of having a third child, so she chose to have another child with her ex-husband.

Even if she is already an advanced mother, she has nothing to fear. Finally, after experiencing various difficulties, the third son was born, but the matching result was not satisfactory, and there was no matching.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

Until the end, the eldest son could not wait for the day when the bone marrow pairing was successful, nor could he wait until his brother turned 18 and left.

Before he left, he also hoped that his brother could be filial to his mother.

The reality of "Dear Child": the heroine did not marry after divorce and gave birth to three children in order to save her eldest son

This is the real reality, the real tragic and unchangeable reality, maybe life always has to go through the bumps and downs.

But I also hope that the prototype heroine can live more easily and simply in the future, after all, this is also the wish of her eldest son.

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