Love between a man and a woman is like a game that requires many skills to win. This game requires serious thinking and strategy to win the game.
Many women don't understand how to deal with men and feelings, resulting in love that should end perfectly in the end. This state of affairs was devoid of discipline and ended in a hurry almost without warning.
In love, men are usually sluggish. Women need to play a leading role to ensure that the relationship goes smoothly. In this way, we can expect the relationship to go on a normal track.
Even if you have a good relationship, if you don't pay attention to details, it may become a bland and boring relationship, and you will no longer have the feeling of being attracted to each other.
Women should understand that when you expect something from men, men can sense your needs from your actions. In a relationship, women are a little more proactive and express their needs, while men will love you more.
One: Ask for his company and let him know that you need him
Men who are emotionally sluggish often fail to understand the importance of companionship for women.
Women need emotional companionship to warm up their feelings. Without this companionship, love cannot bring them any spiritual comfort. This is a universal fact and not just for specific women.
When you find that the man has not arranged everything and has not been able to accompany you even for days, do not hesitate to be brave enough to express your thoughts and needs to him so that he clearly understands your feelings.
Sometimes, they don't mean to ignore you, it's just that everyone understands love differently. It is also possible that your loved one is relatively naïve emotionally and cannot grasp your expectations of love for a while. Perhaps, deep down, he longs to be with you, but he doesn't dare to show it because of face problems. Don't over-interpret their behavior, and be more tolerant and tolerant of yourself and the other person.
In any case, you should express your feelings to men at the right time, let them understand your needs, and let them know that you need them. It's a positive way of communicating and building better relationships.
Two: Ask for his gift and let him give more for you
Sometimes, men decide whether or not to continue the relationship by weighing their dedication to the relationship. In the process of calculating the pay, some men will be as careful as a shrewd science student, calculating the contribution of both parties.
In a relationship, the more committed a man is in the early stage, the less likely he is to change his mind in the later stage. If he gives a lot for love, he will not act easily when other thoughts arise in his heart. Men should learn to give and express in their relationships in order to maintain the longevity of love and avoid unnecessary contradictions and disagreements.
This involves a psychological term called sunk cost.
When a person puts more into something, he will have a greater sunk cost, forcing himself to put in his heart and make sure that what he is paying for is worth it.
Just like the bride price, if a woman does not want a bride price when she gets married, the man will be glad and spare no effort to show his love and be good to her, but deep down he may feel that this woman is very cheap. For this feeling that there is not much investment, he will not have too much pain and contradiction when he leaves. Because there is no cost at all, and there is no loss to leave.
Don't worry about being perceived as a materialistic and tacky woman. Asking a man at the right time to give him something that represents his true feelings within his financial means will make the relationship even more enduring. These gifts can not only bind the stability of the relationship, but also lay more foundations for ensuring the continuation of love.
When we give gifts to each other and give them back, our feelings also gain a benign flow channel, bringing us closer together. This kind of mutual gift and reciprocal gift makes our love develop better with the charm of nature.
In a relationship, women who know that they ask for support and care from men are wise. Through this interaction, the man will love you more deeply.