I used to think that I was a lucky person who was always able to bring good luck to those around me. However, when I came across an interesting psychological test by chance, I really understood that I was not only thriving others, but also thriving myself.
I, an ordinary girl, have a boyfriend who loves me, and our relationship has always been good. One day, while we were walking around the mall, we saw an interesting psychometric test booth. The stall is lined with five adorable puppies, each with their own unique characteristics.
My boyfriend saw that I was interested and suggested that we try it together. I chose one of the puppies that looked docile and cute. I was surprised by the test results, and it turned out that the puppy I chose represented "prosperous others".
I asked my boyfriend, "What does this mean?" Why should I be prosperous with others? The boyfriend smiled and said, "This may be because you are always thinking about others and always being able to bring good luck and happiness to those around you." ”
I think back to some things in the past and realize that I really always try to help others and care about their needs. I once helped an unemployed friend find a job, and I once spent a sad time with a lovelorn friend. These experiences have made me proud and made me more aware of my own worth.
However, I also began to wonder if I was just trying to help others and neglect my own needs. Should I also strive for some good luck and happiness for myself?
So, I decided to try to change. I started focusing on my dreams and goals, and worked hard to improve my abilities and skills. I also began to value my time and energy more and stopped giving too much for others.
After a period of hard work, I found myself becoming more confident and content. I am not only prosperous with others, but also with myself. I started to receive more good fortune and opportunities to achieve my dreams and goals.
My boyfriend looked at me and said with a smile, "Look, you are not only prosperous with others, but also with yourself." This is because you learn to balance and learn to think of yourself. ”
I deeply understood that we should not only care about others, but also ourselves. Only by balancing our own needs can we truly prosper others and ourselves.
Through this story, I want to tell everyone that psychological testing is just a form of entertainment and cannot completely determine our fate. We should believe in our own abilities and choices, and at the same time, we must learn to balance our needs.
Let's work together to prosper not only others, but also ourselves. Let our lives be full of good luck and joy to achieve our dreams and goals.