Since ancient times, opposites attract each other has been an immutable law of nature, and men and women have been spouses of each other for a long time. This phenomenon is both universal and natural, and has become a fact that cannot be ignored in our daily lives.
To many, women always seem to be in a position of dependency in gender relations, as if their names must be tied to male surnames in order to be considered "normal".
In fact, more and more women no longer see men as their only needs, and some women no longer need men. This trend is evident in real life, especially for women over the age of 50, who account for the vast majority of this phenomenon.
There are three reasons for this phenomenon, which are very practical.
One: Physiological changes that make the passion fade
Each person's physical and physiological characteristics have their own unique development curve, and the body is strong and energetic when young. And for women, biologically, they crave the attention and comfort of others.
As women age, their adrenaline production decreases, causing their passion to fade. Especially after the age of 50, women's physiology prevents adrenaline from rushing as easily as it did when they were younger. Growing older seems inevitable, taking away the passion and enthusiasm that was once possessed.
We can find that many women over the age of 50 choose to sleep in separate rooms with their partners.
They no longer want to be close to their husbands because their bodies do not allow them to have any other thoughts. It's a meaningless and powerless reality.
Two: Spiritual damage is the root of not needing a husband
Sister He is 53 years old and her husband betrayed her two years ago. Although she was persuaded to remarry, she firmly refused.
She is not in love with her ex-husband, but because she is freer to live alone. Without the constraints of marriage, she can have fun and go to the land of her youthful dreams.
You don't have to worry that your husband will have an opinion about it, and you don't have to worry that he will mess around outside. No longer have to deal with the dissatisfaction of marriage......
Compared with previous decades, Sister He is extremely satisfied with her current life. We should understand that just because we have a husband, it does not mean happiness. There is no need to fall into the trap again and put ourselves at risk of being harmed.
Three: Gradually become sober and start living for yourself
Some people will meet the true destiny and the marriage will naturally be happy, but for some women, marriage has become their difficulty, and the only gain is to see the sinister nature of society.
Aunt Ming has a unique view of marriage. Once, she sacrificed herself for the sake of her family and devoted herself to being a housewife. But during a diagnosis of what appears to be a serious illness, she sees her partner's true selfishness. Without hesitation, she made the decision to divorce. It's about protecting herself and the things she cherishes. She values herself in her marriage and insists on protecting herself.
Now Aunt Ming no longer confines herself to the small world of the kitchen. She began to make friends, invest her mind, and use her money to buy food that she would not normally dare to enjoy. Her friends are spread across various fields, which broadens her horizons. Through these changes, Aunt Ming's life has become easier and more formal.
She began to appreciate the importance of self-worth and gradually became clearer and more sober.
She has given up on pursuing men because she thinks she is more comfortable without men. Without the man's entanglement, she felt less troubled.
No matter what age a man is, it is difficult to abandon a woman. Women, on the other hand, pay more attention to spiritual resonance and spiritual communication in the relationship between the sexes.
When women's feelings deteriorate, they usually do not hesitate to let go of their past lives, treat men as dusty beings who are casually discarded, and forget them in unattended corners of their brains. This phenomenon is widespread, and women are good at making themselves independent and not having to be attached to a single man. It is not difficult for them to break away from the past and start a new life, which is a unique advantage for women.
The reason why some women no longer need men after the age of 50 is very real.