The reason why there are always so many infatuated men and women in their relationships is that they stubbornly fall in love with someone who does not love them, and think that wishful thinking can be exchanged for the same sincerity. It's just a wrong idea. On the contrary, it is the right choice to invest in the person who truly loves you who loves you. Think carefully and don't give your feelings lightly, because true love shouldn't be unequal.
In fact, feelings are never an equivalent exchange.
It's not that the more you give, the more you get in return. In many cases, if you love someone more than yourself, or if you have lost your self-love, it will cause the other person to be scorned.
True love must be equal to each other, there is no such thing as who owes or is noble to whom, and there is no doom to whom is inferior to whom.
If everyone cherishes true love when they are in love, makes timely decisions, does not entangle, and does not force each other, while maintaining respect and love for each other, then love tragedies may not continue to happen.
Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, when the person you love does not love you, there is only one wise thing to do, and that is to let go decisively, set him/her free, and fulfill yourself.
One: Letting go decisively is to leave yourself the last dignity
Many people know that the other person no longer loves them, but they still can't stop tangling with them. This is a very common situation, and we should be responsible for ourselves, know how to let go, and let ourselves be free again.
Because he was still deeply in love, he was dissatisfied and did not want to give up easily.
How can we know that he really loved you, and if he doesn't love you anymore, your feelings will definitely change. No matter how much you deceive yourself, you can't change the ending that he doesn't love you anymore.
After a breakup, some girls will cry and keep each other, and boys will also kneel down and beg the woman not to leave. But we need to think carefully about whether it really makes sense to do so? After all, forcible retention doesn't solve the essence of a breakup. Let's think calmly, accept the breakup, face it maturely and move on, which is the best choice.
If you force the other person in such a drastic way, even if the other person sincerely turns back, the relationship between you has become distorted and is no longer the same as before. This kidnapping will not solve the problem, but will only exacerbate the disorder between you. It is advisable for you to think calmly and take a rational approach to maintain relationships.
Whenever and wherever you are, don't love someone too much, because if you lose your self-esteem, you will lose respect. This is advice for everyone.
If the other person has made it clear that they no longer love you, then you should decisively let go. This is the last chance to preserve your self-esteem, and you are expressing to him: It's okay, I don't love you anymore, because you're no longer worthy of me. It takes courage to make that decision, but it also allows you to look forward and move on. Don't let past emotions hold you back, believe that you will find someone better.
You are so generous and open-minded, in his eyes, you are more three-dimensional and full of self-esteem.
Two: Fulfill each other and fulfill yourself, this is the pattern of your life
In this world, nothing lasts forever.
Someone has said to you "I love you", but he may fall in love with someone else in the future. If you think that once you fall in love, you will never change, it only shows that you are naïve. Don't think of love as a lifetime commitment, but as a precious experience.
In the period of passionate love, sweet words and mountain alliances and sea vows are often a means of coaxing each other, don't take it seriously. Our lives are too long, and many relationships don't stand the test of time. If you're serious, you're only going to get yourself hurt. Just listen to it, you don't have to take it seriously.
Many couples will break up after seven or eight years, or even more than ten years of love, which may make us regret, why such a deep relationship does not last until the end? This is a very common phenomenon, but we need to realize that the relationship between people is very complicated, and although two people love each other deeply, there are various reasons that will cause them to eventually part ways.
After thinking about it carefully, we will understand that if something is destined to have no ending, then it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible and give it a go.
In our lives, there are many couples who have been together for decades and are separated in middle age. Although they used to love each other deeply, it is also true that they did not love each other in the end. This is the reality and a part of life that must be faced.
Even if we end up separated, we can't deny that the feelings we once had were real, whether they were good or bad.
It can be said that the flower's blooming and falling is determined by its own time, and the arrival and end of fate are not under our control.
When your loved one no longer loves you, don't deny your own worth, let alone change your essence easily. Because you have to be clear that this does not mean that you are worthless, and whether the other person loves you or not cannot determine whether you are good or bad. At all times, we must believe in our own intrinsic value, not be affected by emotional fluctuations, and be firm in ourselves, so that we can move towards a better future.
He has no feelings for you anymore, it's his own problem, it's none of your business.
You don't need to put down your dignity to beg him back. On the contrary, keep a high profile, decisively decide to let go, respect each other, and fulfill each other. This is not only a dignity for yourself, but also a high style of life.
In any case, it is important to understand that it is impossible to change someone who does not love you, so there is no need to bother to try.
You have the ability to change yourself, to make yourself more attractive, to make yourself worthy of better people, and this is achievable.