The beauty of love lies in the heart-warming feeling. Love will happen silently, like lightning and flint in an instant. This feeling cannot be stopped.
Because of this heartbeat, couples can spend a long time with each other. This feeling of excitement is able to support their love.
The world is unpredictable, and people and the moon are inevitably reunited. No matter how beautiful love is, it can become unrecognizable with the passage of time and the deepening of understanding, or the influence of fireworks. This is the inevitable reality of life.
Feelings are fickle things, and so is love. Everything expressed in love will be slowly taken back, and a complete retraction marks the end of the relationship, and there will be no chance to turn over. This is a common phenomenon, and everyone should keep a calm mind and not take an irreversible step.
Whether it is a lover or a husband and wife, if they no longer have three things, it is likely to mean that fate has come to an end.
One: Put away the tolerance given to the other party, and there will inevitably be more quarrels
When love is the strongest, both men and women will not hesitate to give each other the greatest tolerance. Even if the other person makes a mistake, two people who love each other will see each other's good and good in each other's hearts and will not overemphasize each other's faults. At this point, these small mistakes will not be seen as a big deal, because in the eyes of love, everything seems insignificant.
When love tends to be cold, this tolerance will naturally fade.
Substitute for the other party's behavior, and the other party will be harshly picky. Even if it's a trivial mistake or dissatisfaction, either side will unceremoniously attack.
used to be easy to talk about love, but sharp reprimands and critical swearing hurt deeply.
If you and your partner have gone into a three-day and five-day quarrel, then stop being under any illusions, your relationship is a thing of the past. Please face the reality as early as possible and stop wasting each other's time and energy.
Two: put away the company for each other, and the relationship can no longer heat up
When a person is deeply in love with another person, even if this person has always been proud and indifferent, he will instantly become soft and twist his fingers, and just want to stay with his lover from time to time, entangled with each other, and never reluctant to separate. This is the power of love, let us let go of ourselves, throw ourselves into each other's arms, and enjoy endless happiness and sweetness.
When the other person is no longer willing to spend time with you, you should have a clear insight into the way you deal with this kind of judgment, and realize that your love has long since lost its original taste.
Companionship is a long-term confession, representing a person's dedication of their most precious time to another person, and it is unstinting love.
When that warm companionship turns into a long-lost coldness, and the perfunctory conversation makes you desperate and chilling, you should understand that you have lost him.
Three: Put away the respect given to each other, and the two hearts are destined to be farther and farther apart
The vicissitudes of love inevitably produce a sense of boredom. This feeling does not happen overnight, it is a gradual growth process. When one party begins to feel disgusted by certain behaviors of the other party, the other party loses the respect they deserve. This situation can develop into emotional fatigue and eventually lead to a breakup. Maintaining the passion and respect of love is the key to maintaining the relationship between the two.
If respect is lost in a relationship, then it cannot develop healthily. The two hearts are destined to drift apart.
In the TV series "The World", Zhou Rong loved her husband Feng Huacheng at first, but when she saw the ugly behavior of the so-called great poet in real life, the prejudice that had been revealed because of love gradually faded.
She no longer worships him, no longer respects him, and her once deep love has become fragmented. This fact made her heart heavy, and she couldn't help but feel sad when she remembered the good old days.
Respect is the premise of love, and love without respect is destined to not continue. When one party loses respect, the other party gets bored and resentful, and can never return to the good state it once was. However, the fate between people is unpredictable, and separation may be predestined.
Whether it is a lover or a couple, in the process of getting along, as they get to know each other and deepen, their feelings will become deeper and deeper. However, for a relationship to last for a long time, tolerance, companionship, and respect are three essential elements. If these three things are taken back one after another, then the relationship is doomed. We should cherish everyone around us and strive to maintain our feelings for each other, so that love lasts forever.
No matter how much you once loved deeply, the reality is now cold and unforgiving. It's wise to step away so that you can give yourself the opportunity to pursue new happiness. Maintain a relaxed and formal attitude at all times and wherever you are.