Many men and women have developed to a certain extent and will want to talk about marriage.
It's just that people often say in life that marriage is the graveyard of love, and the lethality of this sentence is not insignificant for women.
No woman wants to be a resentful woman after marriage.
Therefore, there are many women who have premarital anxiety, and they will have a strong worry in their hearts, afraid that they will follow in whose footsteps.
In fact, as long as you have the right mindset, the things you are worried about often do not happen.
For example, before marriage, you can think about the benefits of marriage, compared to falling in love, the benefits of marriage are still many, let's take a look.
1, after getting married, men will have more time to pay attention to your emotions, you can send comforting words in time
Her friend Xiao Wang's first boyfriend was her current husband. After marriage, Xiao Wang's smile was more, and every time she talked about her husband, she was full of praise, and the people around her were very envious of her.
Xiao Wang said that before marriage, the two people did not live together, and if something happened, if he did not say it, the lover would not find out as soon as possible.
After marriage, it is different, Xiao Wang's husband will go home on time every day, Xiao Wang's mood is slightly wrong, the husband can send comforting words in time, and try to help his wife solve the problem.
In Xiao Wang's view, getting married was a decision she had made very correctly, which made her life more colorful.
If there is no unexpected situation after marriage, the husband and wife will live together for a long time, and the two people will have more time to get to know each other.
When a man loves his wife, he will often pay attention to his wife's emotions and strive not to make his wife sad.
You know, there aren't so many straight men of steel in the world, just haven't met the right person.
For people they like, men will try their best to integrate into each other's lives, and they are eager for each other to look at themselves 24 hours a day.
After all, a person with no IQ problem, as long as he is willing to work hard, it is impossible not to find the emotions of his lover who has been with him for a long time, and a man who does not love his wife will choose to turn a blind eye.
2, can commemorate the days become more, love your man will often prepare surprises for you
Reader Xiaoping shared her story, before marrying her husband, the other party is a very romantic person, every Valentine's Day or Christmas, etc., Xiaoping will receive gifts from each other, she will also give gifts to each other.
After marriage, XiaoPing thought that her husband would be cold to himself, but he did not expect that every year on the wedding anniversary, her husband would treat it with care.
In addition, the first time Xiaoping was checked out that she was pregnant with a baby, the day when the two had their first honeymoon, her husband did not forget, even if he was busy, his husband would take time to accompany her on that day, which made her feel very happy.
After the baby was born, Xiao Ping's husband did not choose to be a hand-throwing treasurer, but took care of the child with Xiao Ping, changing the child's diaper, washing his body and so on.
Now that the child has gone to kindergarten, the sweet days between Xiaoping and her husband have increased, and every day she is with her husband, she feels that she has earned more.
The man who loves you will not change much after marriage, and even if there is, it is a change that makes you feel happy.
When a man loves his wife, he will spend a lot of time on his wife and strive to make the other person a super happy woman.
Like some commemorative days, men will not forget, they will think of creating surprises for their wives and making them happy.
In fact, many men, before meeting the person they love, will make the people around them feel too straight, but after having a lover, they seem to be possessed by the love saint, which is the difference between the heart and the heartless.
For women who don't like it, many men are too lazy to spend any effort to care about each other's feelings, after all, everyone is quite busy.
3, the husband's suitors have become less, he will calmly tell the other party "I am married" when facing the overtures of the opposite sex
At the same time, Xiao Qian's husband is a very attractive man, before the two people got married, Xiao Fan encountered more than one lover being confessed by a girl.
So when the man proposed to her, Xiao Fan decisively agreed.
After marriage, the husband will carry the wedding ring of the two every day, and there are obviously fewer people pursuing him. After all, the nature of pursuing a person with a girlfriend and pursuing a husband with a wife is still not the same.
Xiao Fan once went to the mall with her husband, and met a suitor from her husband a long time ago, the other party did not take Xiao Fan in his eyes, and invited her husband to dinner, and was choked by her husband's sentence "I am married".
For this situation, Xiao Fan is still very satisfied, and it seems that marriage is still quite good.
Two people who choose to enter into marriage and become a person on the hukou book will be legally protected.
If a person cheats in marriage, the other party has the right to claim compensation from the wrong party if it has sufficient evidence.
Many little three have a more miserable end after provoking their husbands with wives.
But this also makes some women who look at other people's husbands back off, so marriage can be a good way to reduce men's suitors.
After a good man becomes a family, he will also give his wife enough security and will not hide the fact that he is married.
epilogue:
Marriage is a matter of two people, and only by mutual tolerance and joint efforts between husband and wife will the family be made better.
Although love is not as complicated as marriage, there are many shortcomings.
If you love a man enough and feel that the other person loves himself, it is best to marry the other party, because there are many benefits of marriage.
Marry a man who loves you and life must be happy. After all, there is a saying that beautiful things need to be shared to make sense. For example, happiness, having a lover who can share happiness around you will really make people very satisfied.
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