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Ms. Wang and her wife in front of me have two children, a boy and a girl. After the son got married, Ms. Wang and her wife lived with their son and daughter-in-law, and soon they hugged the grandson, the eldest grandson was six years old and the younger grandson was three years old. Speaking of this, Ms. Wang began to cry, saying that her son and daughter-in-law had not managed two children in the past year, and she and her wife were taking care of them. Then Ms. Wang took the mediator to the bedroom to see her two grandchildren, Ms. Wang said that she could still be busy with her two children before, but now that her wife is getting worse and worse, she also needs to take care of herself, and she began to be a little overwhelmed.
The mediator then contacted Ms. Wang's son, Xiaolong, who said that what he wanted to do most now was to solve the family's problems. What's wrong with Xiaolong's family? Xiaolong did not deny that he did not care about the child, but gave his own reasons. XiaoLong said that he was very irritable now, and it was precisely because he couldn't lift his strength that he didn't care about the child. Xiaolong said that he and his wife Yanyan have always been very affectionate, and have been married for seven years now, and the previous feelings are very good, but in recent years, they have been quarreling continuously, and even once Xiaolong did not hold back his temper and beat his wife, and his wife returned to her mother's house in anger.
Xiaolong regretted this very much, and went to his mother-in-law's house many times to pick up his wife, but he never got it back. Later, he begged his mother to go to his mother-in-law's house to pick up his wife, but instead of taking her back, she quarreled with her mother-in-law. Ms. Wang said that she had discussed these things with her mother that day, but she did not expect that her mother suddenly pointed at Ms. Wang and began to scold. Ms. Wang's temper was not very good, and she did not hold back for a while and said a few bad words about her daughter-in-law. The mother who heard this was furious, so the two people began to scold each other, neither side let the other, you and I quarreled happily.
At that time, Xiaolong was also scolded by her mother, and Ms. Wang said that her son had repeatedly asked her to pick up her daughter-in-law, but the two people began to quarrel as soon as they met, and none of them ended peacefully. In the end, not only did the daughter-in-law not take it back, but it made the daughter-in-law hate herself even more. Now that Xiaolong finally realized his problem, his wife had moved back to her mother's house for three years, and it was basically impossible for him to let his wife come back, during which time he and his wife took turns taking care of the children, so it lasted for about two years. But then something happened that upset the balance and also caused Xiaolong and his wife to break up completely.
Because the daughter-in-law has not returned to her mother's house, and Xiaolong often blames herself afterwards, Ms. Wang feels that she is very wronged, and the resentment that has accumulated for a long time finally broke out, and Ms. Wang smashed all the things of Xiaolong and her daughter-in-law in a rage. Unexpectedly, this matter let the daughter-in-law know, so Yan Yan and Xiaolong proposed a divorce. Ms. Wang also did not expect that this time her son actually divorced her daughter-in-law. Xiaolong said that in the past three years, he has been trying to save his wife, and has repeatedly apologized, but he still has not been forgiven by his wife.
Speaking of this, Xiaolong has begun to cry, after a period of time Xiaolong finally stabilized his emotions, he said that after the divorce, in order to alleviate the pressure of his ex-wife, it was also out of Xiaolong's guilt for his ex-wife, so Xiaolong took the initiative to take the obligation to raise two children. Xiaolong said that whether it is the future economic needs or living needs of the two children, it is borne by Xiaolong alone. So since Xiaolong took the initiative to take care of the child, why did he let his mother take care of the child for him? Why is this happening now?
Xiaolong said that he has not had a stable job, so his income is also unstable and it is difficult to take care of his children. In addition, because he has been in a state of mental depression after divorcing his ex-wife, he now has no energy to take care of his son, and he also interferes too much with himself because of his mother. So does Xiaolong know that his actions have caused a huge burden on his mother? Xiaolong then quarreled with Ms. Wang, this time because of the children's life problems in the future. At this time, Ms. Wang finally couldn't control her emotions, and tears poured out of her eyes.
The mediator first persuaded Ms. Wang, who said that the son and daughter-in-law had indeed developed to this point and indeed had their own responsibilities, but Xiaolong was the father of the child after all and should bear the responsibility of raising the child. Indeed, since Xiaolong is the father of two children, he should take up the responsibility of raising his son, rather than leaving both children to the old man to take care of. After being persuaded by the mediator, Xiaolong said that he would take on the responsibility of taking care of the child in the future and would no longer let the two old people take care of the child for him.
But now there is still a problem, that is, according to the current economic conditions and living conditions of the dragon, it is estimated that it is very difficult to take care of the children. So the mediation team first helped Xiaolong find a psychologist, from their dialogue can be seen that Xiaolong very much wants to remarry with his wife, but Xiaolong said that he has expressed his thoughts with his wife many times, but Yanyan has always disagreed, and he hopes that the mediator can help her communicate with Yanyan. Yan Yan also said that part of the reason for her divorce from Xiaolong was because of her mother-in-law, but this was not the main reason, the main reason was because Xiaolong had always been immature, did not have any self-motivation in life, and did not have a stable job until now.
At the same time, Yan Yan also said that he would not always let Xiaolong take care of the child, he said that since he was the mother of the child, he would definitely take on the responsibility of taking care of the child, but now he could not take care of it temporarily because of work reasons. Xiaolong also said that if he wants to save his wife, he must make himself completely change, and he will let his wife see his change in the future. After hearing her son say these words, Ms. Wang was very moved, and she took the initiative to go to Xiaolong's side, and Xiaolong also said that she did not understand things before, which made her mother bother.
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