As the saying goes: the human heart is like a scale.
When the scale has a partial scale, the man's heart also has an eccentricity.
A question for everyone, do you think a woman is biased toward her own daughter, or is she partial to her daughter-in-law?
In fact, many people say that they should treat their daughter-in-law as their own daughter-in-law, in fact, this sentence is the same as not saying it, after all, it is still their own biological daughter.
Yan Yan's mother-in-law is an eccentric person, and for this matter, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have not caused less contradictions.
Yan Yan has been married to this family for three years, and has been busy with her husband's career for the first two years, until the third year, when she was pregnant with a child.
After the birth of the child, the family is very happy because it is a twin.
Yan Yan's mother-in-law also praised her for being really powerful, and gave birth to two big fat boys in her life. Just by relying on Yan Yan herself, she must not be able to take care of the two children, so the mother-in-law looks at the eldest son, and Yan Yan looks at the younger son, so it seems that the division of labor is clear.
But at this time, his eldest sister divorced and returned to her mother's house with her four-year-old daughter. At this time, the mother-in-law not only wants to see Yan Yan's children, but also to see the children of the eldest sister.
One day, Yan Yan slept on the second floor with her youngest son in her arms, while her mother-in-law took her eldest son to play on the first floor. At about four o'clock in the afternoon, Yan Yan heard the eldest son crying bitterly, yan Yan hurriedly ran downstairs to see, this look does not matter, it turned out that the eldest son fell from the bed, and the mother-in-law was not in the room.
Yan Yan was very angry at this time, so she was ready to call her mother-in-law to ask what was going on, and her mother-in-law said: "I just went to pick up Xiao Lili (the daughter of the eldest sister's family), and when I left, Dabao just fell asleep, and I thought that he had to sleep for two hours, and I only went out for ten minutes, there should be no problem, and I didn't expect him to fall out of bed." ”
After listening to her mother-in-law's explanation, Yan Yan was even more angry.
She felt that her mother-in-law was obviously partial to her daughter.
When her daughter gave birth to a child before, she gave her daughter ten thousand yuan, and she gave birth to two big fat boys for her family, but she did not give a penny.
After many netizens learned about this matter, they expressed their opinions.
A netizen said: My old lady is like this, her daughter gave birth to a child, waiting outside the door of the operating room, when I gave birth, le le he played at home, wait until I knew that I gave birth to a son, before rushing to the hospital, in other words, if I gave birth to a daughter, she may not come. He also said that he treated me as a daughter, yes, at most, it was only "being a daughter", how could it be comparable to the treatment of a biological daughter?
Another netizen said: This is really not a partial thing, the degree of relationship between people and people is divided according to blood relations, of course, people are biased towards their own daughters, you are just an outsider. Don't believe it, wait until you have your own daughter, and then think about whether I am right or not.
In my opinion, this old lady's approach is not right, you have to pick up another child, you must first arrange the child in your hand. Because of such a small child, danger may occur at any time.
As the saying goes: prevent problems before they happen.
If you place Dabao to Yan Yan before leaving, then the child's "falling out of bed incident" can be completely avoided.
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