In the process of raising boys, mothers want to take fewer detours. Being a boy's mother: To know how to separate, Dr. Emerson Aigridge wrote in "Raising Boys": You can't always treat boys as little dolls, and you can't never let boys grow up. One day when he wakes up, he will become a boy and no longer be a little doll. Another day when he wakes up, he will become a man, not a boy.
When encountering difficulties, please try to solve them yourself at the first time, don't shout "Mom" at the first time! When you are a mother, sometimes you need such a "decision", do not rush to replace the child to do something, erase the child's learning process, believe in the child's ability, and give them affirmation and support. The best gift a mother can give to her son is not to protect him for a lifetime, but to teach him independence and responsibility. Because when he grows up, he will not only be your child, but also a husband and a father.
In "The Boy Says", a mother told her son: "No matter how much you learn, you can speak a few languages, it doesn't matter, I hope you can be a responsible and responsible pure master." You will have a sense of responsibility when you do housework now, and you will take responsibility for your family in the future. "It is important to cultivate a sense of responsibility in boys. How to cultivate? Start by letting him know to care for his parents and the people around him.
When your boy opens his teeth and claws, oil and salt do not enter, you may wish to take the initiative to seek his help, lie to him, let him know that his mother is not omnipotent, even a little weak, but also need care and help, the child will gradually understand the sense of responsibility as a man. Backstage once received a very interesting message: the mother who will be spoiled, the best life. Being a boy's mother especially needs such a routine.
The different manifestations of boys and girls are largely due to differences in their physiological structure and brain development. Boys' physiological development is later than that of girls, their intellectual development is also slightly slower, and their language expression ability in listening, speaking, reading and writing also lags behind that of girls.
Many mothers ignore these characteristics of boys, often hurt boys with violent tempers, stop, reprimand boys, and even use violence, some children are more nagging and more inappropriate, the more they beat the skin, as they grow older, they will become extremely rebellious. Even naughty boys are eager to be treated gently by their parents. When a boy's mother, you must love more patiently.
If he is energetic and can't sit still, take them to the outdoors to walk, run, and release his energy; if he is mischievous, please make rules in advance, and let him go within the principle; if he always can't hear you like no one else, walk over, crouch down, look into the eyes of the child and say it seriously... If you spend more time and patience with boys in the first few years, the education will be much easier later.
Copyright note: Reprinted articles and the use of illustrations are for learning and communication purposes, are not used for any commercial purposes, and the copyright belongs to the original author. Some of the reposted articles and pictures are from the Internet, and the author is unknown. If there is any infringement, please contact it in time! Thanksgiving reading and liking to show encouragement! No matter how busy you are, please help share!