The raising of boys, like a tamed beast, does not need to be too hard, but needs to be in the right direction. Boys are never problem makers, and as long as their parents give boys a clear lead, their talents will be tapped out.
There is a male treasure at home, and parents may wish to hang these 4 sentences on their lips.
1. "Why do you do this?" What do you think? ”
Things can be repaired if they are broken, curiosity is obliterated, and the child's thoughts are shackled. Hands-on is equivalent to using the brain, the process of disassembly and assembly is the process of developing intelligence and active exploration.
2. "About XX, can you do it?" ”
This is because the boy is born not to accept defeat, the bones are restless, and the more you forbid, the more it will stimulate his rebellious emotions.
3. "Having a son without a son is not the same." ”
6 to 13 years old is the period when boys try to become men, a sentence "having a son without a son is not the same", seemingly simple, but invisibly stimulates the boy's sense of responsibility and value.
4. "I found out..."
An educator said that girls need more love as a child grows up, while boys need more encouragement. "I found that..." The essence of this sentence is to try to dig out the shining point in the boy, to amplify it, to give the boy self-confidence, to give the boy a sense of accomplishment.
Never underestimate the impact of what you say on a child's life. As a talking parent, the boy's future is more prominent.
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