"When the daughter grows up, the parents become more and more humble" The child reaches adolescence, and the parents must do this well!
Adolescence seems to be the fault of every child, my friend's daughter is like this, according to friends, the child used to be very obedient, but also often communicate with friends, but after the second year of junior high school, between the night and night "temperament changes", temper explosion, in front of the daughter, become very humble.
For example, it is time to eat, friends call their daughters to eat, the first time the daughter does not agree, the second time the daughter impatiently says "coming", and then just sat on the dining table for a few minutes, saw the meal on the temper explosion, said "these dishes eat every day tired of eating, do not eat", directly slammed the door out, friends explained that the food is the daughter loves to eat.
Also, the daughter likes to play mobile phones to watch videos, every time she laughs, friends can't help but care about a sentence "Don't play mobile phones, it's not good for the eyes, is the homework completed?" The daughter shouted impatiently, "Annoyed to death, don't play, talk about it all day long", friends said, as soon as they saw their daughter like this, they had to shut up and did not dare to "offend" the child.
Friends said to me, such a scene to appear every day, make the relationship with the daughter very stiff, do not know what to do, in fact, the child to adolescence, many parents will encounter such a situation, parents a lot of times also have a hard time to say, in short, adolescent children have too big temper, it is really not easy to manage!
In the face of such a situation, I specifically consulted a friend in the psychology industry, she suggested that as a parent, in the face of children's adolescence, should not overly control the child, which will only backfire, resulting in the deterioration of parent-child relationship, should be to use scientific and correct methods to guide children, to help children smoothly through puberty.
Moreover, I also suggested that my friend read this set of books - "Hello, Adolescence", a full set of books has a total of 9 volumes, all aspects of science to guide children in the face of adolescence what to do, to help parents suggest friendly parent-child relationship, I believe that children can establish the correct three views after reading, to solve the difficult problems of adolescence.
"Hello, Adolescence" - "The Secret of Adolescence" can let children correctly recognize the physical changes that occur during puberty, as well as the changes in thinking, and the book also indicates what should not be done.
"Hello, Adolescence" - "My Family", let the child confirm his role around, assume the responsibility of the role, fulfill his obligations, learn to get along with his family, and communicate correctly.
"Hello, Adolescence" - "Me and the Internet" can guide children to recognize the advantages and disadvantages of the Internet, be cautious about online dating, do not visit yellow websites, distinguish the true and false online messages, and avoid falling into online games or falling into consumption traps.
"Hello, Adolescence" - "I love fashion", can cultivate children to form a correct concept of consumption, do not blindly pursue famous brands, guide children to learn aesthetics, do not spend money indiscriminately, and find a suitable direction for their own clothing.
There are also campus violence that has always been worried by parents, as well as sex education problems, can find solutions in the book, promote children's growth, help children improve themselves, enhance their awareness of self-protection, and say "No" loudly to all acts that infringe on their rights and interests!
The book takes real examples to guide children to correctly face adolescence, overcome all the difficulties of adolescence, and strongly recommend that children with adolescents at home prepare a set, lead children to read this set of books together, I believe that after reading it, they will benefit a lot, jointly promote the healthy growth of children, and be the guide on the child's road.