When it comes to adolescence, our brain will flash the two words of rebellion, because at this age stage, the hormones in the child's body will change, in terms of traditional Chinese medicine, yin and yang are changing, from a scientific point of view, this is the law of the child's normal development, in the Emperor's Inner Classic, this is the external manifestation of the Tao; the Tao is the law of nature, the ancients have always emphasized that following the Chang, reversing the death; so at this time, we must conform to the child's normal psychology at this age, normal physiology to guide.
Children at this age may show some abnormal behavior, behind the occurrence of this behavior, in fact, there are reasons, for example, you usually do not care enough for the child, not enough love, not enough care, less time to accompany the child, some of the child's behavior may prompt you, mom and dad I lack love, mom and dad you don't care enough about me. Therefore, as a parent, you should chat more with your children, talk to your children more, accompany your children to go shopping, and accompany your children to go out for a walk, which can not only increase your children's experience and insight, but also enrich your children's cognitive ability to the world and this society. Follow the child's nature to educate him;
We parents often attach great importance to the child's grades, this time remember to take the child's grades compared with other people, do not always say in front of the child, who who took the first place in the class, who is enrolled in a well-known school, and then look at you, the grades are always so poor, it is really a headache; if this is the education of the child, the child is finished, so as a parent can not compare, as the saying goes, I am born to be useful, so we should conform to the nature of the child to guide education.