I believe that every lady has her own unique requirements, and the views are different, after all, radish cabbage is a love.
How do we know before marriage how a man feels about you?
Some women hope that the other party can look handsome and attractive, so that the mood will be much better when they see each other every day after marriage.
And character is the basis of a person's life, with people with good character, the happiness index will be higher.
In addition, there is a more important one, that is, emotional management, which is really too important.
There have been many incidents of domestic violence that have occurred frequently in recent years, and most of the reasons are due to poor emotional management and emotional loss of control, resulting in domestic violence.
Meeting people who are worth getting married is an expectation for us, but not everyone can be lucky.
Many people are caught in a vicious circle, and married life naturally fails to feel happiness and beauty.
For us, marriage has always been the first major event in our lives, and only by marrying someone who deserves it can we have a relatively happy marriage, otherwise it is really likely that it will become very unhappy.
I once received a case like this:
Female, 26 years old, married for 2 years, is now divorced, and the reason for the divorce is domestic violence.
Due to the long-term oppression and control of the other party, her state is also on the verge of collapse, and she cannot sleep and is anxious every day, resulting in many psychological problems.
As she talked about her relationship experience, I learned that when she first fell in love, the other party was very kind to her, especially good.
But after getting married, it changed completely, and she didn't know what she was doing wrong, and she didn't know what was wrong.
Now she wants to seek a good direction and escape from this life. I want to make myself better and better, and I want to be a person who can have happiness.
In the TV series "Know It or Not", Minglan said that "staying with people to see a man's conduct ultimately depends on the lowest point of his heart.".
We tend to be carried away by dopamine in relationships, so it's important to focus on the following:
1. Discern people
Everyone has their own principles for doing things, but some people may not have principles.
Some people are grassy and will only go to flattery, only like beautiful events and the most successful characters.
In addition to principles and bottom lines, a man also needs to look at each other's native families.
The other party does not need to be very rich, but there can be no vulgar thoughts, and the harm caused by vulgar ideas is far greater than the material problems.
And a man's ability to grow determines the happiness index of marriage.
When in love, if men do not know how to understand women's minds, do not know how to empathize, do not know how to take into account each other's feelings, after marriage, they will not pay much attention to each other.
2. Talk is counted
Capable men can bring you happiness, not that men without money do not really love you, but after marrying someone, it is no longer possible to be illusory love.
In the process of choosing a husband, women must measure whether he is suitable for you as a whole.
No matter how good pan an looks, or how it looks, it cannot be determined for life based on appearance and external conditions alone.
The most basic thing for a person to be based on this society is to be respected by others and to focus on commitment.
In other words, in our lives, if the other party can't give you even the most basic respect and trust, then it is not worth marrying him.
Life is more about chai rice oil and salt, if you don't want to always quarrel over these small things in the future days, it is best to find a man who is capable and pays attention to commitment.
3. Responsibility and responsibility
Whether a person is worth marrying, you have to look at his responsibilities.
Matching words and deeds is a manifestation of a person's character, and we all know that when in love, many people are very good at disguising themselves.
A man must have his own responsibilities and responsibilities, to be able to choose his own life, not to be bound by the family.
Being able to let his lover live a happy and comfortable life with sufficient spiritual support is a man's greatest ability.
When a man treats you as the center of the world and is both responsible and responsible, and then thinks about you in advance, such a man is undoubtedly worthy of marrying him.
Marry a man who really loves you and you will be very happy, in life he will spoil you everywhere and love you, and the man who does not love you will only pick faults everywhere, think that you are always not doing well enough, and then also exuberantly cheat on yourself.
How important marriage is to women, women get married is a single choice, the right choice may be happiness, the wrong choice may be the abyss.
Many people say that men are the most unreliable animals in the world, and it is easy to change their minds and cheat. So we must judge clearly before we get married.
A good man who is truly worth marrying is supported by a good enough inner and outstanding ability.
I'm Chongyang, we'll see you next time!
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