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I've written stories about what happened in the delivery room before, and the stories reflect human nature. Some readers said that it was over before they had read enough, and I also "promised" to write it next time.
Now, a similar article comes.
I've written before that there are three major places to identify human nature: the delivery room, the ICU (intensive care unit), and the paternity test.
The first two are related to the moment of life and death, and what a person will do in the face of life and death can best reflect his character.
Paternity testing, on the other hand, is associated with cheating, change of heart, and cheating.
You may think that what human nature can be reflected in the paternity test is nothing more than whether the child is his, whether the man wears a hat of a certain color or something.
In fact, it is much more than that.
Deng Yajun, director of the Beijing Zhongzheng Judicial Laboratory and a DNA expert who has been engaged in paternity testing for many years, told some strange things she encountered for many years in her career. It can be said that these events are all exposure machines of human nature.
◆ Identifying that the boy is not her husband's, the wife is relieved, but finally finds that she has been deceived
If the couple comes with a child, it is generally to determine whether the child is the man. But have you ever heard of a case where, in front of your husband, you identify that the child is not your husband's, and the wife grows a breath?
Dr. Deng has received such couples. The wife learned that the child was not related to her husband by blood, and her attitude was obviously calm. The man next to him also let out a long breath.
It turned out that the woman was unable to have children due to physical reasons. Men don't care, saying it's a big deal to raise one.
Within a few months, I really brought a boy.
After a few years of raising, the wife is full of doubts, this child has many similarities with her husband, the tone of speech, the way to eat are too similar! So I became suspicious and pulled my husband and children to do a paternity test.
Found that there is no blood relationship with her husband, the woman is finally relieved.
But guess what? It's not over yet.
During the identification, the doctor found that the identification object used for identification, the hair, belonged to the girl. But their family is obviously a son.
The woman did not seem to be completely relieved, and after a few days she came again, this time quietly with her son behind her husband's back.
The results showed that the child was the illegitimate child of the husband and someone else.
Quarrels and divorce are inevitable.
But is that the end of it? Not.
At that time, Xiao San had died unexpectedly, the husband and wife were divorced, and the child must follow his biological father. But the child made his own choice, determined to follow his mother, a woman who was not related to himself in the slightest.
What does this mean, that nurturing grace is far greater than being born? Even the purest blood relationship can not withstand the care and warmth of daily life?
But knowing that he is the product of her husband's betrayal, can the mother overcome her heart knot and accept the child?
◆ It was difficult to get pregnant, but she was suspected of cheating by her in-laws, and the woman filed for divorce after being proved innocent
A woman who was 4 months pregnant was accompanied by her family for a paternity test. In general, paternity testing is done after having a child, and it is rarely done when pregnant.
The doctor tells you that to do a paternity test during pregnancy, you need to draw amniotic fluid. But pumping amniotic fluid carries the risk of miscarriage, and it is hoped that the woman will consider it clearly.
The woman was very determined and said that she must do it.
However, in the process of doing the identification, the woman repeatedly struggled. A few times on the operating table, and a few times down. In the middle, there were also emotional outbursts and many crying.
The doctor understood the woman's grievances during the comfort process.
It turned out that the woman's husband suffered from oligospermia, and the doctor said it was difficult to conceive. As a result, the woman was pregnant.
This is unbelievable, the original treatment for many years has not worked, the husband who has given up has begun to become yin and yang, and the in-laws have been cursing and grinning all day, the meaning is obvious: she is pregnant with wild seeds in her belly.
In order to prove her innocence, the paternity test was proposed by the woman herself.
The result is comforting, the child is the woman's husband'. At this time, the attitude of the woman's husband changed greatly, and the mother-in-law looked at the daughter-in-law's belly "good grandchild" and "good grandchild" and kept shouting.
The woman's face was very ugly, and later she told Dr. Deng that she had submitted a divorce agreement and was very determined.
In fact, there are many strange examples in the laboratory, but they will not be expanded for reasons of space.
After years of appraisal and getting used to these strange things, Dr. Deng often joked with male colleagues around him: Man, don't think about making a lot of money to buy a big house, in middle age, as long as you can be sure that your wife is your own, and your children are also your own, this is enough to be called a "winner in life".
Think about it, we often envy other people's lives, but we don't know that the "habituation" in our eyes is also what others can't ask for.
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