I've seen a thing before, and I think it's both ridiculous and embarrassing.
A 21-year-old female college student suddenly asked her parents to take a paternity test with her because she thought she might not be their biological child.
Why did she suddenly make such a fuss?
It turned out that she doubted her background for the following reasons.
The first point is that she feels that she is very beautiful and beautiful like a flower, but her family looks average. Moreover, she is not at all like the rest of the family, she has blonde hair, and the rest of the family is not.
Second, she didn't understand that her parents were farmers and had no special skills, so where did they get the money for her to go to college? Is it that he has another wealthy biological parents, and the money is given by his biological parents?
Third, she felt that her parents often beat and scolded her, and her biological parents should not treat their children like this.
Based on the above, the girl also decided from the bottom of her heart that her current parents are definitely not her biological parents. Her biological parents may have had to raise her outside for some reason.
But one day, the rich parents will come and pick her up and let her live a prosperous life.
But her mother, Ms. Tang, responded to these questions one by one.
The mother explained that the money for supporting her daughter was earned by herself and her husband, and the couple was reluctant to spend it for themselves, so all the money they earned was spent on their children.
As for often beating and scolding her daughter, her mother said that her daughter has been very worry-free since she was a child, often doesn't go home at night, drinks outside, and doesn't look like a serious girl at all in terms of dress.
As a simple peasant woman, the mother is not used to her daughter's behavior, so there are often conflicts.
But the girl insisted that she must do a paternity test, and threatened that if she didn't do it, she would make the family uneasy. She wants to leave this home as soon as possible and return to her own rich parents.
In the end, my mother had no choice but to agree to do this appraisal.
When they arrived at the hospital, when the girl and her mother were still waiting for the results, the two had a quarrel again, and she even beat her mother.
But no matter how she made trouble, the final appraisal results came out, as expected, she was indeed her mother's biological daughter, not the daughter of a rich man.
This senseless farce ended like this.
Although the girl's illusions are shattered, her parents say that no matter what happens, she is still their child after all. If she makes a mistake, she can correct it, and the door of the house will always be open for her.
I have to say, pity the hearts of parents all over the world.
No matter what the child is, he is also the child of his parents, even if he hurts his parents' hearts, he apologizes, and his parents will forgive.
But this incident also reminds us of a few important things.
● Don't raise your children to worship money
When a child takes money too seriously, he will ignore many things, including family affection, for the sake of money.
This girl is so fantasizing that she is a down-and-out daughter, maybe she is very resistant to being the daughter of poor parents. In order to run towards a rich life, I fantasized about having a pair of rich parents.
That's why I have to make a fuss and do an appraisal with my parents.
When we raise children, we must pay attention to the fact that we are neither poor nor rich, and raise them according to our actual situation, so that our children can relax and accept their own lives.
In this way, he will not blindly worship money, and he will not do foolish things.
● Communicate in a timely manner
Most of these misunderstandings are caused by a lack of communication and understanding.
If there had been more open and honest communication at home, it might not have come to this point. For example, if parents can understand their daughter's feelings earlier, and if the daughter tries to put herself in the parents' shoes, and be more considerate on both sides, this extreme situation may be avoided.
●Cherish the people around you
Finally, it also tells us to cherish the people around us.
Many times, we always look into the distance and may lose sight of the love of the people around us.
The girl didn't see the hard work and love of her parents at first, and although she figured it out in the end, how much damage was caused to everyone in the process.
Therefore, we must teach our children to learn to be grateful and cherish every given, especially the love from family members. Maybe the family is not so perfect, but when we are confused and make mistakes, only the home is willing to open the door unconditionally for us.
A 21-year-old college student thinks he is as beautiful as a flower, and says that his poor parents are not his own, what do you think about this?
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