There are two kinds of "little three": one is "knowing three when three"; the other is the "red face" outside marriage who is burned by love and ignorantly understands that he has become a husband with a wife. The former, such as Chen Moulin, fell in love with Uncle Yuppis for seven years, and was sent to prison by the "uncle". As soon as this matter came out, the voice of scolding Uncle Yapishi for being unkind was overwhelming, but few people sympathized with Chen Moulin, who was in prison. As for the women who passively became "little three", most of them are too young, have insufficient social experience, can't stand the sweet words and generosity of men, and mistakenly hit and bumped into the "third" role.
Women who passively become "three" probably have to go through such a process: they do not know that the man has a family in advance, thinking that they have encountered "true love"; they began to be suspicious during the event, but they could not extricate themselves, so they tried to "straighten out"; afterwards, they regretted it at the beginning.
So, is there any way to effectively avoid "being small three"? The answer is yes – yes. There is not only a simple and rough single way, but also a composite way of mutual confirmation, "Little White" who has just entered the society, please read the following text carefully.
At the beginning of love, most of the inexperienced girls who are not in love business will be blinded by "love", and that sentence is not unreasonable: the IQ of women in love tends to zero. "Boyfriend" says what is right, what he says is correct and reasonable, he not only loves to listen, but also has a board and an eye, as everyone knows, he may have become a "plug-in".
Use the simplest "reverse way" to find out if the other person is single.
What is the most cautious thing for men with families to find "red faces" outside of marriage? Dare not accompany the "red face" all the way around the clock, especially on holidays, because there is still a "wife" at home who needs to report on the payment of food. If the "boyfriend" who is attentive to you will always have a particularly "reasonable" reason not to accompany you when you think you need him the most, then you must be sober and take a straightforward way to solve yourself.
For example, the excuse for "boyfriend" is to work overtime on weekends. Don't fool yourself, if you don't even know the "boyfriend's" unit, then it is no wonder that people deceive you without discussion. The way to verify is very simple, buy a cup of milk tea, or when you go to the meal, send a "love lunch" made by yourself, people are not there and do not inquire with anyone, ask the front desk, the front desk can never be in the same flow with him.
If the boyfriend is not single, there is a high probability that two times three times people are not working overtime in the unit, then do not naively imagine that he is not working overtime in the unit, and do not have to struggle with the fact that he is already a boyfriend physically and mentally, just step on the, cut this love clean, look forward, don't look back.
There are many similar verification methods, you can give an example, here will not be repeated.
Another composite verification method mainly uses physical space and behavioral dynamics to "corroborate" each other and form a chain of evidence. Let's take an example (not necessarily me). Chunyu was in love with a man, and he also had a feeling of being unable to extricate himself, and everything from the initial date to kissing and hugging was very natural, including the man's various generosity to himself. Chun Yu just didn't understand why a man never took himself to the parties of his friends or colleagues, and never fulfilled his promise to take her to meet his parents.
It's understandable not to take her to a party of friends or colleagues, and it's not necessarily necessary for men to bring "family members" with them. But if it's not the kind of "only love and not marriage", at least she should be taken to meet his parents and family, right? Also, even if the relationship has not yet reached the level of "meeting parents", then you can't always put the "world of two" between the two in a short-term trip or "home", right?
Chun Yu then began to seek verification. The first mystery comes from the man's "circle of friends", when there is no doubt in the heart, Chunyu has never thought about how many people there are in the man's circle of friends, and now when he opens up to see, he can't help but be surprised, whose "circle of friends" is only two people, and the members are him and her?
Strange two, chunyu groped out a law, the two people eat mostly in the secluded small fly restaurant, but also often cross the district, said to be deep alleys hidden delicacies. However, Chun Yu clearly said that she preferred the shochu barbecue in Xicheng with a few clear windows to the roadside stalls in Haidian or Chaoyang, and that dinner at night would almost always end before nine o'clock, and there were only a few times when the romance under the moon came, and a slap count came over.
The most evil thing is that Chun Yu actually can't remember that he and she had a once (except for travel) more than 24 hours of one room together, never had a weekend, nor had all the national holidays. ChunYu had a premonition that he might have encountered "scum", after repeated consideration, he made up this "three questions" into words and sent them to his "boyfriend", and finally remarked: Please do not underestimate my IQ, if the explanation is clear, please take me to see my parents; if you feel guilty, please do not reply, we pass by from here.
Love can not make themselves upside down, because of the unwitting intervention in an awkward relationship, resentment is only because the "scumbag" succeeded, in fact, it is also due to their own naivety and innocence, inadvertently hurt another innocent woman. The question is, how many people will doubt that their "Prince Charming" is not "Aquaman" during the hot love period?
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