#社会越发现实 why some girls like to marry rich people instead of being willing to work hard with their boyfriends to create wealth #
At first glance, this problem is the boy's intention to be uneven. Think that many girls are too superficial, Ming Ge is a potential stock, but the brother as a waste? Isn't living a life to see the future? How can we not create wealth together, it is really a rat's eye!
Most of the men who think like this are desolate in their hearts, and they just want to find a bridge for face, so they blame the problem on the woman's side.
So why are girls reluctant to find poor men now? Talk about stupidity.
1. There are many girls and boys.
Feudal thinking has never disappeared, not only the elderly, but also some young parents feel that having a son has confidence.
It can be seen from the abduction of children that the loss rate of boys remains high, just like Sun Zhuo's buyers, obviously the two daughters of the family still want to buy a son, just to show in front of people.
Some parents do B ultrasound after pregnancy to see the sex of the fetus. Knowing it was a girl, I went to miscarry. There is even more evil, it is actually a gender change medicine...
Anyway, in the case of giving birth to boys and girls, these people have worked hard to create the current situation.
The imbalance between males and females of appropriate age naturally leads to an increase in the vision of girls.
Those poor boys in the family, no longer have any skills, naturally become leftover men.
People go up, and so do marriages.
2, the predecessor planted the tree after the person to cool off.
A girl fell in love with a poor boy, and the whole family was against it at the time.
Girls have to insist, and even fight with hunger strikes. The parents agreed to the affair.
After marriage, the man wanted to open a shop, and the girl took out all the private money given by her parents. The lack of money was also borrowed from her mother's family. The two men got up early and worked greedily. Later, the woman gave birth to a child and became a full-time wife.
Ten years later, the man became the boss, the house and the car tickets were available, of course, there was also a small three.
After a tearing war, the original match left the scene, and the little three entered the room...
The former people planted trees and the people cooled down, and the youth and love of the women were fed to the dogs.
Therefore, many girls prefer to be superficial material girls, at least after marriage can live a very comfortable life, as for men, spending time and whether there is an economic foundation before marriage does not have much to do with it.
3. Merit-based admission.
Let's take an analogy. Two boys, one is handsome, the family is surrounded by four walls, the other is also good-looking, the family conditions are good, and they are also excellent. They all fell in love with the girl. If you were a girl, who would you choose?
If you have good conditions for marriage, you will have all the face inside, and the economic difficulties will naturally have to stand on the side. Looking for a partner, merit-based admission is normal, isn't it the same for boys? I am unwilling to find a girl with a heavy family burden as a daughter-in-law, for fear of being dragged down.
In this matter, no one should say who, that is, the crow fell on the sister, and could see the black of others, but could not see the black of himself.
4, marriage is a springboard.
Some girls, whose families are very poor, want to use marriage to change the status quo.
Those with poor families are excluded.
Marriage, too, is a springboard that can change the quality of life.
5. Feel good about yourself.
Every girl has a Prince Charming in her heart, always hoping to meet a handsome man who is obsessed with herself.
Some girls can recognize the reality and know that this is just a dream, while some take Korean dramas as reality, live in whimsy, and always feel that they can be matched with a domineering president, and naturally the economic conditions are not good to exclude.
The marriage market favors women, so fantasies will be more and more ideal.
Reality is very bone, women are pragmatic is not wrong, but also look in the mirror...