Women in their forties and fifties have a crush on men of what age, and only women who put themselves in their shoes can show up.
Ms. A, 41 years old, I talk to my friends and family about how old I like men in my daily life, either I like men my age or I like men who are about the same age as me. In fact, my true voice in my heart is that I like men in my twenties, and the reason why I have a hard time opening my heart is because I take care of the obstacles of the world. Men in their twenties are both energetic and full of life, and even if they are not loved by others, they are the dishes in my eyes.
Later, I learned that my girlfriend still had similar thoughts to me. Although we are unable to feast on the obstacles of the world, my girlfriend and I will feast our eyes, at least on a spiritual level through imagination. Liking men in their twenties is simply liking, even if you know that the probability of being together is extremely low, dreams are always needed, after all, what if it is realized? People who are not accustomed to my view of mate selection, hope not to accuse me, just so-called: the mouth is difficult to reconcile, whether it is turnips or cabbage are their own love, many elderly men like women in their twenties, in fact, they are the same as me.
Ms. B, 50 years old, I choose the man I like to base myself on facts, I once heard that women mature two or three years earlier than men's minds, and since the concept is preconceived, I will also be deeply convinced. Moreover, I have also heard and witnessed the precedent of female juniors holding gold bricks, so I have strengthened my belief.
When I talk about marriage, I insist on marrying men who are three years younger than me. Maybe it was a mistake, maybe it was a matter of facts, anyway, my wife and I are still happy to this day. Although age is not the decisive factor for happiness, age can barely be regarded as an objective factor affecting happiness. The results of the stage are good, which can only mean that I have found a marriage path that suits me, after all, strict and seamless adaptation is the last word.
Ms. C, 59 years old, I am almost sixty years old, so I think I am both insightful and human. Although I like men who are twenty or thirty years younger than me, it is a fantasy for me, and even similar almost absurd thoughts will flash by.
Marriage has never been a child's play, from a long-term perspective, weighing the average life expectancy of men and women, I think it is pragmatic for men to be three or four years younger than women. Thus it will increase the probability of white heads and old age, although each other can not accompany each other forever, but can extend the years of mutual companionship as long as possible, so that the first party will not have too much concern, and the later party will not have too much loneliness.
Conclusion: As long as it meets the legal age of marriage, men and women can talk about love and marriage, and the freedom of marriage means that they are not bound by age, and they can put marriage on the agenda because they know the roots and are happy with each other.
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