Preamble:
In recent years, the phenomenon of marriage and love at home and abroad has been attracting much attention from the society, especially the words "leftover women" and "leftover men" have become hot topics, which have triggered extensive discussions and thinking. In China, with the continuous development and progress of society, the status of women has been greatly improved, more and more women have begun to pursue their careers and dreams, and marriage no longer seems to be an indispensable part of their lives. However, despite this, older single women are still facing heavy marital pressure, and they are labeled as "leftover women" by the outside world, and inevitably suffer from various criticisms and discrimination, which has also triggered a deep reflection on the concept of marriage and gender in society.
1. The current marital dilemma of older leftover women
According to statistics, there are currently 125 million single women in China, of which 42 million are older leftover women, accounting for a relatively high percentage, which makes people have to think deeply about the current social phenomenon.
1. Women's education level and employability have improved
Fundamentally speaking, the increase in older leftover women is inseparable from the improvement of women's status, with the continuous progress of society, more and more women receive higher education, they are no longer satisfied with the role of housewives, but begin to pursue their careers and dreams, which undoubtedly makes a great contribution to the development of society.
At the same time, women's employability has also been greatly improved, and more and more women have become a member of society, and they have won the respect and recognition of others by virtue of their abilities, all of which are inseparable from the progress of society and the improvement of women's status.
2. The gender pay gap leads to increased marital stress
Although the status of women has been improved, but in real life, we still can't ignore the gender pay gap, compared to men, women's income is much lower, which also directly leads to the increasing pressure on women's marriage, many women have to give up their careers and dreams, and put marriage in an important position in life.
3. Marriage should not be the only source of happiness for women
However, we should clearly understand that marriage should not be the only source of happiness for women, women can also achieve happiness in other ways, they can pursue their own careers, they can also enjoy their own lives, marriage is only a part of life, should not be the only criterion for women's success.
Second, attention should be paid to men's marital difficulties
In the current society, everyone pays more attention to women's marital plight, thinking that women bear more marital pressure, but we should not ignore the feelings of men, men are also under heavy marital pressure, and many people are reluctant to get married, there must be various reasons behind this.
1. Explore the reasons why men are reluctant to get married
In order to better solve the problem of marriage, we should fundamentally find the crux of the problem and explore the reasons why men are reluctant to get married.
2. Promote gender equality and a change in the concept of marriage
In addition, we should also pay attention to gender equality education, so that men and women can be treated and paid equal attention, and at the same time, we should also pay attention to the education of the concept of marriage, so that everyone can establish a correct concept of marriage, marriage is not a simple matter of two people, but needs the support and understanding of society.
Epilogue:
In the face of the current marriage phenomenon, we should look at the older leftover women with a tolerant and understanding attitude, and should not label them too much, on the contrary, we should give them more care and support, encourage them to bravely pursue their own happiness, and at the same time pay attention to the marriage dilemma of men, fundamentally solve the marriage problem, realize the equality of men and women, and build a better society together.