At the age of thirty-two, I am a leftover girl from the north, and I have been thinking about who to marry recently. As an undergraduate, I always fantasized about marrying the Prince Charming of my dreams, who came to pick me up on his bicycle and took me into the world of endless romance. However, as time went by, I stepped out of school and into the real world, and my state of mind gradually changed.
When I entered the workplace, I began to feel the cruelty of intrigue and the pressure of reality. In this competitive world, love seems to be becoming more and more distant, and money and status become the yardstick by which a person is measured. Watching my girlfriends marry beautiful and wealthy men one by one, I began to feel that my choice seemed to be a little misplaced.
After failing to fall in love again and again, I finally understood a truth - love is not the only consideration. Reality tells me that a person's quality, career and attitude towards life are the most important. Money is not the only factor that determines happiness, but whether a person's heart is sincere, responsible, considerate and gentle to me, and caring for me, which is the true happiness I seek.
However, there are fewer and fewer men who really meet my requirements, and it can even be said that there are almost none. This left me deep in thought and confused. Am I too idealistic in my pursuit of happiness, or are good men really so scarce in reality?
I began to think about what marriage meant to me, whether it was for financial security or spiritual satisfaction, whether it was to continue to pursue the romance of love, or to accept the reality of marriage, which was a question that I struggled with, and a choice that required me to think deeply.
Perhaps, I need to re-examine my values and redefine the meaning of marriage. Perhaps, I should be more active in pursuing my own happiness instead of being bound by traditional ideas. In any case, I believe that as long as I stick to my choice, I will eventually find the one who belongs to me.
However, the problem remains. Am I willing to give up my yearning for love and choose a real marriage? Or should I stick to my beliefs and continue to wait for the happiness that truly belongs to me? This is a choice that confuses me, and it is also a choice that I need to face bravely.
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