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Babies who are secure and insecure are completely different.
Mengmeng is a fan mother from Guangdong, she found a strange problem when she was two months old, and shared it with her mother in the group:
@梦梦麻: I seem to have discovered a new continent of baby sleep, but if the baby sleeps by himself for no more than half an hour before waking up, as long as I also lie down next to the baby to sleep, the baby can sleep for at least two hours, sometimes three hours.
The mothers in the group also began to discuss hotly, and many mothers found out that sleeping with the baby can really improve the baby's sleep, and some mothers said that the baby woke up when they went to the toilet and took a takeaway.
Therefore, this is also a difference between the baby's sense of security and insecurity, if the mother can do a good job of feeling safe, the baby will be better in the future, the mother should understand.
Babies with a high sense of security are not only in a good mood and sleep quality, but also have a happier mother.
Babies with a low sense of security have bad mood, poor sleep quality, and are particularly prone to crying, and the baby's personality will also undergo great changes, which should be paid attention to.
The baby's sense of safety still deserves to be taken seriously, so this point should still be taken seriously.
The baby's sense of security is different, and the difference is also very obvious
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Sleep differences
At the stage of 0-3 months, the baby's sleep is also related to his sense of security. If the baby does not feel a sense of security, he will wake up frequently, and he will often cry and make a fuss.
There are also babies who have a sense of independence and security when they are two months old, so this kind of mother is very happy, the baby can also fall asleep independently, and the mother can easily say goodbye to sleep.
The difference in sleep is very obvious, through the baby's sleep you can detect whether the baby has a sense of security, mothers should not be negligent.
02
Personality differences
The baby's personality at the age of one month will also be affected by the sense of security, and if you want to cultivate a good character of the baby, you should also pay attention to the problem of security.
If the baby has no sense of security, it will often fall into panic, easy to be frightened, the baby is not only anxious, angry and crying, but also very inferior, and easy to autism in the future.
Babies with a high sense of security will be emotionally stable, will also have a strong sense of comfort and satisfaction, and will have a relatively gentle personality and be relatively sunny.
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Developmental differences
Babies with a high sense of security will also develop higher, because the baby's sleep and diet can help the baby improve the development rate.
If there is no sense of security, the baby's sleep quality is very poor, sleep is the stage of the baby's growth hormone secretion, if the sleep is shallow or lack of sleep, the natural baby's development can not be maximized, and even stunted growth may occur.
Therefore, the level of security has a great impact on the growth and development of the baby, and it will also directly affect the happiness index of the mother with the baby.