My name is Wang Mei and I am a young working woman living in a bustling city. I come from an ordinary family, my parents are ordinary working-class people, and their expectations for me are simple, they want me to live happily.
Recently, I attended a lecture by a professor from Fudan University on marriage and love between men and women. In the lecture, the professor focused on the difficulties faced by women in marriage and love, and called for more understanding of the situation of women. It touched me deeply and reminded me of an experience I had.
A few years ago, I had an unpleasant relationship experience, it was my first time in a relationship, I put in all my sincerity and effort, but in the end I was hurt and betrayed. At that time, my heart was like a knife, I was in pain, I lost faith in love, and I also lost trust in men.
After the failure of that relationship, I began to cherish my independence and freedom more, I worked hard to improve my abilities, and I no longer pinned all my hopes on my feelings. However, even though I tried to become stronger and more independent, I still felt countless difficulties and challenges on the road to marriage.
On social media, I often see women of the same age getting married and having children, and I envy them for their happy families, but at the same time, I also feel anxiety and uneasiness in my heart. I was worried about whether I would be able to find someone who really knew how to cherish and love me, and I was worried about whether I would be able to find my own happiness in my marriage.
Just when I was confused and hesitant, the professor's lecture gave me a revelation. He said that the dilemma faced by women in marriage and love is not something that we can solve by ourselves, but the entire social structure and cultural atmosphere. He called on everyone to understand more about the situation of women and give them more support and care.
After listening to the professor's lecture, the doubts in my heart gradually disappeared, and were replaced by a kind of firmness and courage. I decided not to be bothered by the pain of the past anymore, I want to believe in myself, believe in love, and believe that in this world, there will always be someone who knows how to cherish and love me.
As a result, I re-examined my life and work, and I began to participate in various social activities more actively and expand my social circle. I also re-examined my heart and learned to be more open about my emotions and needs.
Soon after, I met a gentle, kind, mature and steady man, who was so sincere and caring for me that I felt happiness and warmth that I had never felt before. We confided in each other, understood and supported each other, and I felt that I had finally found a partner worthy of trust.
With him, I learned to believe in love again, I learned to trust men again, and I also learned to believe in myself again. I know that even on the road of marriage and love, I will still face various difficulties and challenges, but I am confident that I will face them bravely and persist in finding my own happiness.
Eventually, he and I entered the palace of marriage, and I felt extremely happy and satisfied. I know that this is my own choice, and it is also my luck, and I will cherish and protect this love forever.