Family background
I'm Zhang Xiaoyu, an ordinary girl living in the city. The family was not wealthy, but my parents always tried to meet the needs of my brother and me. My parents were an ordinary working family who were busy but always tried to give us the best life possible. I am the eldest daughter in the family, and I have been sensible since I was a child and know how to share the burden for the family.
Biography
I am a person who is very serious about feelings, I believe in love, and I believe that everyone deserves to be happy. Emotionally, I'm always fully committed to finding someone with whom I can walk through the rest of my life. I want to be loved and I want to be able to give more love.
The story begins
I met a boy named Li Yang. He was my college classmate, a sunny and handsome boy. We started as friends and slowly developed into lovers. In him, I found the love I had been looking forward to.
Every day we spend together is full of sweetness and romance. He always surprises me and makes me feel pampered and pampered. We went to the movies, went shopping, traveled together, and every time we were so happy and enjoyable.
However, as time went on, I began to have some doubts. I'm worried about whether our relationship will just stay in the present, whether we will develop further, whether we will have a longer future.
I started talking to a couple of sisters around me about it. They are all women who have had a long relationship experience, and maybe they can give me some inspiration.
The first sister is called Xiaoting. She and her boyfriend have been together for five years and have always had a good relationship. She said: "After a woman is satisfied, of course she wants to move on to the next time!" However, the key is to look at your definition of 'satisfaction'. If it's just material satisfaction, sooner or later it will feel empty. If it is spiritual satisfaction, then it is true happiness. ”
The second sister is called Xiaoli. She is an independent woman with a successful career, but her relationship has not been smooth. "Women are emotional creatures, and we need not only material satisfaction, but also emotional support and companionship," she said. If a man can understand you, respect you, and tolerate you, then you will definitely be willing to go down with him. ”
The third sister is called Xiaomei. She is a housewife and already has two children with her husband. She said, "After a woman is satisfied, of course she will want to move on to the next time!" However, contentment is not set in stone. Our needs will change over time. A good man should be able to adapt to this change and give us new satisfaction. ”
After listening to their words, my heart suddenly brightened. It turns out that satisfaction is not the end, but a process of constant pursuit. I've learned that as long as we understand and support each other, even if we're satisfied, we'll always want to continue.
finale
I decided to communicate with Li Yang and tell him my expectations and thoughts for the future. After hearing this, he smiled and hugged me and said, "Honey, I will always be by your side, accompany you through every stage, and give you more satisfaction and happiness." ”
Since then, our relationship has grown stronger and we have gone through many difficulties and challenges together, but we both know that as long as we love each other, we can overcome everything. I believe that our future will be even better because we have been working hard and have been working hard for each other.