Less than a year after marriage, he was persuaded to leave by netizens, and this scumbag was scolded

After reading the news of Big S's remarriage, I thought I was no longer shocked by human emotions, and it turned out that I was still too naïve.

In the TV series "Two Conjectures of Marriage", the hero and heroine officially announced their love affair less than half an hour after the first meeting.

Is this a play in past lives and in this life?

Not

Male protagonist Yang Zheng (

Peng Guanying

), is a typical IT man, striped shirt to wear to death, straight male cancer written on the face, everything rely on big data to speak.

The heroine Shen Mingbao (played by Yang Zishan), graduated from a prestigious university graduate school, is currently an advertising agency social animal, a roll king, and is obsessed with efficiency in everything.

The two met on a blind date.

The two sides took the resume, briefly chatted for two sentences, found that the other party and their own views of marriage and love are the same, they took a group photo in the circle of friends officially announced, before and after half an hour did not arrive.

Seeing this, I am also speechless, are the two a little too sloppy?

The speed is so fast and the efficiency is so high that even the big S must be admired.

Seeing the second side, the male protagonist played the role of itman and produced a set of "marriage matching" test questions.

The two sides only did 300 questions to understand all the information of each other, and it did not take long to enter the marriage hall.

But after marriage, Shen Mingbao came back to taste that he was not married to her husband, but a "father".

Of course, this "daddy" is not a real dad, but a daddy".

What is Daddy??

To put it bluntly, people who are extremely macho, like to PUA and preach to others, and stubborn (not specifically men).

Yang Zheng's fatherly taste is first manifested in his extreme machismo, believing that his wife is his vassal.

Yang Zheng and Shen Mingbao are both office workers, and they are crazy overtime party, daily 996, busy 007 kind.

After getting married, the two people are in a staggered state when they meet each other, basically once every ten days and half a month.

Shen Mingbao did not work during the day, and it was early in the morning after work; Yang Zheng did projects in the company's closed doors, slept in the company's tent, and did not go home for several days.

This was the consensus reached between the two of them before marriage, but after marriage, Yang Zheng suddenly could not accept it.

Either he hated the clothes and did not wash them, or complained that the coffee table was not wiped, thinking that Shen Mingbao had failed to fulfill his obligations as a wife, and caught some trivial nagging

But he seems to have forgotten that Shen Mingbao is a professional woman, and her position is to earn money to help you pay off your mortgage, rather than to work and take on housework.

In Yang Zheng's context, women should do something.

For example: Isn't marriage to have children?

Another example: the wife should be a full-time wife at home.

Another example: you give up your job to take the child at home, which is the mother's vocation.

This kind of daddy speech abounds, everything is based on sacrificing the rights and interests of his wife and social values, and he stares at her all the time.

At this time, I suddenly thought of the speech that Qiao Xin made a few days ago:

“

Men are so strange, they don't like ordinary women who want to marry into good people's families, but they want to marry some independent and capable women, go home and be trapped at home and have children

”。

Yang Zheng is also a PUA master and control freak.

Not long after the marriage, Shen Mingbao became pregnant, but because of the excessive overtime, the child miscarried, and his first words to his wife who had just woken up after giving birth were: "The child was not saved, and finally it was as you wished." ”

There was no word of comfort, but instead he sneered at his wife with a black face and did not care about the child in her belly.

At this point, I really don't understand, what is the purpose of Shen Mingbao, who has suffered physical and mental sin?

Afterwards, his operation was even more bizarre, first running to his company to make trouble without his wife, scolding the boss and his boss over and over again, and then resigning for her privately and sending a lawyer's letter to sue the company.

How does this allow Shen Mingbao, who has taken a leave of absence, to stay in this industry again?

There is no problem for the wife to go out, the company encourages overtime is not very benevolent, and there are indeed places that are not done well, but how do you resign without your wife being the master for her? Why do you meddle in someone else's work?

His purpose in doing so was to let Shen Mingbao prepare for pregnancy at home and be a full-time wife.

He knew very well in his heart what the state of a full-time wife was, the kind of life of "three hundred and sixty-five days a year, and no rest days" that he did not want to live, so he let his wife live.

Most outrageously, he was also a propagandist of extreme traditional ideas.

After messing up Shen Mingbao's work, he applied for a "female Durban" for such a key University graduate in Kochi.

Female Durban is known as the "Successful People Kennai Aid Refresher Course", which is actually teaching women three from four virtues.

There was a statue of a sitting man in the classroom, and the female students all knelt there dressed in white, learning how to serve men.

Opened his eyes, the Great Qing has been dead for so long, there is still such a ghost class?

Don't look at Yang Zheng's appearance of how much he hates professional women, in fact, he himself has been sheltered by professional women.

His father cheated on him when he was young, abandoned the mother and son and Xiao San to form a family, if it were not for his mother who had been working in the factory when he was young, he would have starved to death, let alone growing up and career?

Speaking of this, I also realized that Yang Zheng was a man with no empathy.

After his mother was forced to divorce in that era, she was pointed out for twenty years and fought hard to bring him up.

Who knew that this "great filial piety" actually took it upon himself to take the daughter of Xiao San and raise him after his father's death, and he kept stabbing a knife in his old wife's heart.

There is no heavenly reason, his mother did not dream that he would have to give the little third adopted daughter when he was old.

In the face of his mother's hysteria, Yang Zheng said, "Twenty years of grievances, let it pass." ”

His weak empathy is even more vividly expressed in his wife.

Shen Mingbao in the third trimester of pregnancy, Yang Zheng never ignored it, plunged into work, and did not necessarily go home once a week.

That's it, he also mentally cheated on his beautiful boss.

▲ I took it, and the problem of cheating was even inherited

The evidence was long hair in the car and lipstick marks on clothes. Shen Mingbao looked for him to theorize, but he sneered and sneered, and the words he said were heartfelt.

"Pregnancy really lowers a person's IQ."

"Can you please not hold my hind legs during the ascent of my career?"

"Don't be like those resentful women, treat all the women within five steps of your husband as imaginary enemies."

The most desperate thing is that when Shen Mingbao cried about the difficulty and fragility of her third trimester, as soon as she turned her head, her husband had quickly dressed, put on his watch, and was ready to go out.

The feedback she got was his expressionless face, as if to say: Are you done?

In the face of his wife's emotions, he only felt annoyed.

At this time, the bullet screen has been covered with the words "divorce request".

Later, Shen Mingbao gave birth to a premature and difficult delivery, and the bleeding increased, and even the adults and children were all closed at the ghost gate.

Mother-in-law, mother, girlfriend, sister-in-law are waiting at the door of the delivery room for the first time, but the husband is still busy at work, and the child is born or known in the mouth of colleagues.

He rushed to the hospital, and his girlfriend asked him why he was only here now, and he actually said, "Where do I know to be born today?"

Look at this cold-blooded speech, the heart of the beast is hotter than you. You have to notify you in advance when you have a baby.

Everyone found that No, Yang Zheng seemed to be a wandering non-staff member in this family. He cared far less about this family, for his wife and children than for an outsider.

Because in his eyes, men are defined by work, and he looks down on all the little men involved in family affairs.

Seeing this, I think of a book called Feminism from Scratch, where the author mentions the concept of the AB side of society.

"Politics, economics, time, employment are the A side of society, while the B side is life, childcare, care, disease, disability, etc."

Yang Zheng is the one who is always living on the A side, turning a blind eye to everything on the B side, although it is closely related to him.

What is even more puzzling is that he is also very good at beautifying himself. Taking spiritual infidelity as freedom, saying that "the spirit is a wild horse, it is free, and no one can hold on to it."

No, you can't hold back, it shows that you have a weak sense of morality, it shows that you are an irresponsible bastard, it shows that you are exquisite and self-interested and insatiable.

Fortunately, in the end, the two divorced, and the heroine was relieved.

To tell the truth, Yang Zheng's character is extremely unreal, as if he is a buff full of scumbags, without the minimum humanity, only used to provoke the audience's emotions.

Artificial saccharin will be greasy when you eat too much, and artificial peppers will choke when you eat too much.

A marriage drama, no warmth, only coldness. It seems to be about the attitude of single women to face marriage, which is essentially the same set of "Niangdao", and even inferior to "Niangdao".

Such a drama put on the market will only exacerbate women's fear of marriage and childbearing, and will not cause a trace of people's positive discussion and reflection on marriage.