In "Two Conjectures of Marriage", Shen Mingbao, played by Yang Zishan, is 30 years old, has not married or had children, and is bent on his career before he has gained a foothold on the man's turf.
Shen Mingbao, who has a sense of goal planning, decided to quickly solve life events on a blind date, "get married within one year, have children within two years", and then re-emerge in the image of a hot mother, and the marriage career is not wrong.
Yang Zheng, played by Peng Guanying, is an older programmer, straight male thinking, everything must talk about data, find the other half is no exception, take the resume to kiss, directly through big data speed dating.
Finding shen Mingbao the best candidate, less than an afternoon, two single people who had never known each other decided to raise their eyebrows, life and death together.
The result of rapid marriage is that no one has adapted to life after marriage, Shen Mingbao should rush the career of the rush, Yang Zheng should knock the code of the code, back home, no one to cook, no one to wash the clothes, absolutely the real single under the pseudo-marriage.
The golden sentence in the play came: I thought marriage was the antidote to loneliness, in fact, not even a painkiller.
Programmer Yang Zheng said: "Marriage is like code, you can only make mistakes and patch them to continue running." Shen Mingbao, a strong woman, said: "Marriage is a charger, the family is a gas station, and the spouse is a trash can." ”
But when it comes to life, he has two basic characteristics, one is survival, the other is reproduction, as soon as the time comes, the birds will build nests, the fish will swim back, and the people will get married and have children.
When two people have children, everything is different.
Shen Mingbao had to choose between the two in the family and career, Yang Zheng naturally hoped that she would stay at home and go out hunting by herself, which was a sense of accomplishment.
However, having a family, just seeing half of the chicken feathers, you will feel that the person who has not lived together is like a white moonlight, and Yang Zheng has also met a female boss who seems to be close to him.
Although it is a speed dating marriage, Shen Mingbao has already fallen in love with Yang Zheng and has no sense of security, "You say that a woman, to prove that she is worthy of love, is a ridiculous thing." I am a good wife, I am a good mother, I take on family responsibilities, social obligations, will he inevitably love me? If I play chess, calligraphy, and painting, needle and thread female red, everything will come, will he inevitably love me? I am in good health, good hygiene habits, my height and weight meet the standard, my facial features are arranged according to the golden ratio, I can give birth to and raise, I can earn and spend, I can kitchen, I can hall, I look as good as wearing an evening dress and wearing an apron, will he inevitably love me? ”
There is no necessity, there is no certainty, but one thing that can be confirmed is to be economically and spiritually independent, at least to be able to afford to lose!
For love, Xia Yu said: "I used to want to find a 100% I liked and suited me, but now I understand that it is impossible, so the best way is not to find a 100% person, but two people combined to strive to reach 100%. "It takes time to run in and witness, and not any big data can be deduced."
For marriage, if anyone divorces and remarries, this person must be heroic, eat love as a snack, eat marriage as a meal, marriage is a trivial life, the key is that the other party has patience and ability to treat the triviality of life, after seeing the nature of marriage, in the face of imperfect life, you can still love each other, you can also trust each other, although it is a stone crossing the river, but know that you and the sunshine are around.
Promotion and salary increase at work can bring a sense of value, the growth of children can also bring a sense of achievement, no way of life is more noble and more correct, but choose to suit themselves, but never lose themselves, do not lose the ability to stand and rich heart, to let themselves have the courage to retreat from the whole body, but also the courage to pay for love.