I'm 97 years old this year, I'm 27 years old, my profession is a programmer, I've been working in the field, I've been in love with each other for half a year in college, and I've never talked about it again, I started a blind date at the beginning of last year, and most of them didn't contact each other until I met her.
She was introduced by my next-door neighbor, a teacher at a county key high school, in '96, when I was still out of town, so I just added VX, and then we started talking.
At the beginning, I also understood some basic information and shared some daily life, I originally had a very bad impression of the profession of teacher, because I had introduced 3 teachers before, all of them were not easy to get along with, and the conversation was very stiff, so I didn't have too many illusions, so I thought that the conversation was almost over, meet up, and then end.
So I invited her to meet for the first time, my hometown is Hubei, so I wanted to come back to meet, but the first invitation was because she and her colleagues had already made an appointment to go to Wuhan to play. I didn't think much about it at the time, but I just thought that I might not have made an appointment in advance.
So after more than a month, I was invited to meet again, but this time I still refused, the reason was similar, I didn't have time to go to Wuhan with my relatives to play, so I understood that I didn't want to see it, so I mailed the prepared small gift to her, and dispersed.
Why are they all scattered and send a small gift?,Because that gift has her unique label on it.,Since it's scattered.,Put me here a little diaphragm.,Just be a human beauty.,Give it to her.,And then said some inappropriate polite words.,Dispersed.,But still keep VX.。
I didn't expect her to receive a gift, I liked it very much, and then asked me if I was on a blind date, I said no, I guess I will go home for the New Year, and then she said that I was embarrassed to go home for the New Year, and I was invited to eat when I came home for the New Year, I didn't experience this battle, and the girl invited me to eat alone, so I wanted to be a machismo, and said that you are looking for a delicious place, the landlord treated, but I didn't expect her to reply to a uh good.
Later, my classmate got married and had a wedding in my hometown, so I came back in advance, asked her to eat a barbecue, I paid for it, and then went to climb the mountain with her for a while, and then rushed back to work by high-speed rail, I thought it was over, but I didn't expect her to wait for me to return to work and ask me how I felt today. I'm a little blindsided at this time, what's going on, is she going to continue?
I talked to her about a lot of things that night, complimented each other, and didn't explicitly say that we wanted to continue to get along, but we all tacitly continued to talk awkwardly on VX.
Then I continued to chat on VX, during which I added Douyin to share some interesting things, once she asked me when I would go home for the New Year, I revealed the date of going home with her, she said to pick me up by car, I was very happy, so I bought flowers and hundreds of cosmetics, planning to meet and give it to her, to express my gratitude, I didn't expect God to make people, it was freezing rain in Hubei, my train was late that day, and it was 8 o'clock in the evening when I returned to my hometown train station, but I still wanted to try if she could pick me up, she said it was too late, she couldn't drive, Later, it turned out that she could drive at night, but I didn't think much about it at the time and expressed my understanding.
Then on the morning of the first day of the new year, I finished the New Year, and I was going to ask her out to play, but I didn't expect her to say that she was too tired to go out, so let her take a nap, and then talk about it when she woke up, but she didn't expect this to wake up the next day.
During this period, there were several blind dates in the family who said that they wanted to introduce them to me, but I refused on the grounds of chatting with the current one.
But the next day she asked her to come out, she refused, the reason was that there were guests at home, she had to take care of the guests at home, I didn't have much patience at this time, so I planned to deal with it coldly for a while, and went to meet other people, after 2 days, on the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, the family introduced a 99-year-old, called her Brother Fu, the reason will be said, at that time I went directly to her house to sit, and then with Brother Fu and her younger brother, her parents and uncle chatted there, her parents said that the relationship between sister and brother is good, since my sister went to college, My brother's clothes are no longer bought by my parents, my sister helped her buy them, and now my sister is working, and my brother will go to my sister to play if he is fine, I have a good impression of my sister before I heard this, her family opened a hardware store, and someone came to buy something during the chat, she immediately stood up and went to sell something, faster than her parents, and looked slightly fat, but very cute, when I heard his parents describe how good the relationship between their sister and brother is, I really wanted to run away immediately, and I didn't add WeChat behind it, and left.
Gone that night,The female teacher who refused to invite me many times asked me what I was doing.,Is it a blind date?,Why didn't I chat during this time.,These 3 consecutive questions,Let my patience with her drop directly to 0.,Rejected her on the grounds of inappropriateness.,As a result, when she was ready to go to bed at night, she suddenly called over with a VX.,Said that I wanted to continue to understand.,I was also very angry at the time.,Just yin and yang weirdly said that it was difficult for her to date.,Then I made an appointment with someone else.,I didn't expect her to be angry.,And apologized to me.,Said that I didn't pay attention to me during this time., Forgive her once, and I relented and agreed.
I've never been on a blind date like this, and I thought I was going to get rid of the single, so I thought about getting in touch with the idea of falling in love.
The back is the same as other dates, eating, shopping, climbing, but only holding hands, once asked her to go to the bathing center to take a bath, I lay in a room with her, two beds, at the time half-joking that we two are open room? She also joked that if you come over and we lie together, I could bear it, immediately ran over, hugged her in my arms, she said her feet were cold, I put her feet between my calves, just feel each other's breathing, and then she felt inappropriate, let me go away, I was cheeky and didn't go, the more she struggled, the tighter I hugged her, and then hugged her and kissed her, when her body suddenly froze, her eyes were a little red, I felt too bold at the time, so I ran to my own bed, Then I was silent with her for a while, and suddenly my phone vibrate, and it turned out that she was afraid of embarrassment so she sent me a message with VX, complaining that I was so bold and saying that if I forcibly had a relationship, I would call the police.
I said some love words to pull the topic over, and then the two of them ate together and went home, during which I had an ambiguous relationship with her, and I thought about confessing and establishing a relationship, but a voice chat made me hesitate.
She said that her mother asked her to meet a few more, find the most suitable one, don't worry about the relationship, other boys want to confirm the relationship, and they refuse on the grounds of knowing more about it, at that time I thought it sounded too much, and second, I couldn't figure out why she would confess these things to me, and I joked at the time, I wouldn't be one of your fish ponds, and she smiled and said yes.
But I really liked her, not only in terms of her appearance, but also on a lot of topics to talk about, so the idea at the time was that I had the confidence to make her accept me.
During the period I discussed with her a lot of things about marriage and buying a house bride price, but did not reach a consensus, her ideal is to get married this year, next year's marriage, bride price 20w, Wuhan full amount of a suite, this requirement is difficult for me to do, one is that I think I and her know less than a few months, long-distance, meet only a handful, want to get along for half a year and then decide on marriage, she heard very unhappy, she said she is 28 this year, old, do not want to delay, this year must be booked, either I or with other people, The second is the full payment house in Wuhan, my family is not a very wealthy family, there is a younger brother at home, the house of my parents can pay 3/2, and I pay the rest myself, she feels no, insecure, and said that her previous ex-boyfriend has an annual salary of 40w (because she gave up the teaching staff and went to Wuhan to work and break up), There is also an annual salary of 80w (and other girls talk about breaking up), value me because I am a local, and I have a little money in my family, I was really uncomfortable after listening to it at the time, it turned out that she liked my family conditions from beginning to end, not me.
Later, I was a little embarrassed, so I hung up on the grounds that it was too late and went to bed early, and I thought she would change people directly when she heard that I didn't get married too soon, but I didn't expect to continue chatting as usual the next day.
The night before yesterday, I talked to her about the blind date, it was this conversation, which made me completely dead, she said that the blind date is a kind of compromise, not that her conditions are not good, but at this age you can only find such a thing for the time being, I joked that there is no better person in the future, and kicked me directly, she smiled and said, of course, I continued to ask at the time, what if I am already married? She said then she would make you green.
Hearing this, my head suddenly began to buzz and my hands began to go numb, but I still forced a smile and said that this is the end of today's topic, go to bed early.
Because VX is full of some daily and some ambiguous flirtatious words, these are all said during voice chat, and there is no way to send them out, so there may be some discrepancies, but the general meaning is no problem. Talking about this melon again today, I don't understand the thinking of girls, and this can also be cp.
I didn't make tea today, I changed to green tea, and to be honest, I was patient to the limit.
I'm here again, at the beginning of March, I went to Wuhan with her to play, played for 2 days, she opened the room, double bed, we both projected the screen together and watched the movie, watched the recent very hot Zhou to eliminate the three evils, looked at it and hugged each other, and then something indescribable happened, my first time, she was not, and then we went to East Lake together, went to buy clothes, originally I wanted to buy it for her, but she didn't want it, and it became that she bought it for me, and it cost more than 1000, I know that her current income is only more than 7k, So it was a big expense to buy clothes, and I was very moved at the time and wanted to buy her a jewelry in return, but she dragged me out of the mall.
The time of meeting was too short, two days was too fast, I went back to Hangzhou, and then showed my mother the clothes she bought for me, the original intention was to let my parents know that she was good, but my parents told the introducer about it, so there was some unhappiness between me and her.
She is more mindful that I have a relationship with her This matter is known too much by the neighbors, I am in a place with her hometown, and it takes less than 10 minutes to walk over, the introducer's daughter is her best friend, the introducer asked my mother, how I got along with her during this time, my mother told me to go out with her, so the introducer's daughter also knew, and then this girlfriend chatted with her, sighed well, and made rapid progress, and then she was very angry, saying that I told my parents everything, and asked me if I was a mother's boy, I coaxed her to say that I wouldn't tell my parents about the relationship between me and her in the future, and I asked why I minded this, and her answer made me not know how to pick it up, and she said that if I didn't make it to her in the end, it wouldn't be good for the girl's reputation.
After coming back, the scene is video every night, I work out every day, and it will be about 10 o'clock after I go back to take a shower, we sometimes talk until more than 12 o'clock, and sometimes she will call at 2 o'clock or 3 o'clock in the middle of the night, saying that she misses me.
The reason for the quarrel and breakup is this, her best friend, that is, the daughter of the introducer, because she lives next door to my house, so her best friend said that my mother is very strong, difficult to get along with, and is not optimistic about my relationship with her, these words I didn't know, I heard her say that her best friend doesn't look good at us, so I continued to ask.
Originally, this was the end of the matter, but I said it when I soaked my feet with my parents on New Year's Eve, and it was a topic to talk about, and repeatedly told me not to say it outside, especially the introducer, I didn't say it at first, who knew that my mother didn't know what to think a few days ago, and sent a text message to explain to the introducer and her daughter, saying that it was a misunderstanding, which caused the introducer to scold her daughter fiercely, and her daughter was also very angry, she called my blind date, saying that she was not enough friends, Then my blind date should be a bosom friend, but I said these words outside, so the blind date of the landlord called me to quarrel, complaining that I said everything home.
This matter is indeed my mother did not handle it well, too anxious, so I comforted her, and promised that some private matters will not be mentioned to the family in the future, she is worried that there will be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, I will not help her, I said that I will definitely stand on her side in the future, but the comfort does not seem to have any effect, she said that she said that she should not be an ordinary friend, I was a little anxious, and quickly said don't do this, Balabala some words of comfort and promise, but she blew me up directly with a word.
She said that I was like this, not as good as her previous ex-boyfriend, I felt that this period of time was like feeding a dog, I was used to her at the time, and said that you will find your ex-boyfriend to go, she replied that it was more than 12 o'clock in the evening, from 11 o'clock to chat, I was very uncomfortable, I couldn't sleep when I turned around, and I was sleepy when it was almost 2 o'clock, and she began to operate again, and I was shut up.
That night I told her to go to her ex-boyfriend, and she said yes, and I hung up the phone, only to have her call back and ask me why I had hung up, and I had a question mark on my face and asked me why I was yelling at her??? I was speechless and hung up the phone. Then just typing and breaking up.
I thought it was over, relieved, it was more than 3 o'clock at night when I went to bed, but I didn't expect her to call me again at 7 o'clock the next day, I really regretted not turning off the phone at the time, she was the teacher who rested after two classes a day, and I had to go to class for a day.
When I was full of enthusiasm for her, she always accused and said backwords to try, and when I wanted to quit, she wanted to redeem herself. I didn't answer, and then there was this conversation, which was quite speechless.
typed a long list of words, and her reply, and now look at the words I typed, it really looks like a clown.
When the time comes, this whole thing is speechless.
A little bit I'm really confused, she sometimes expresses her appeals, such as not bringing an umbrella on a rainy day, wanting to eat sweet, this dress is very good-looking, etc., I said to give it to her, she refused, saying that it was just a topic to talk about, many times I wanted to send it directly without telling her, but I was afraid that she would be angry, and I felt that I had no emotional intelligence, how do I do it, things are not valuables, so I don't have any financial pressure.
It is said that the older leftover women are very real, and the reality is a hard lesson for me. If she is very young, she will probably choose a blind date A, in fact, she is a blind date A I know, is my junior high school classmate, the income is a little higher than mine, but the family is very poor, and I have a younger brother like me. But I'm really aggrieved, and I finally talked about a girlfriend, who is not mine, and I don't have much affection for me, but I just fancy my family conditions are good. But her family doesn't come out of anything, just in, 20w bride price, and the marriage is only a Passat that has been used for several years.
The chat that night made me very unhappy, but I didn't show it, and the next day it may be that she realized that what she said was a little inappropriate, so she asked me not to think about it, I was busy with work, and I didn't continue to talk.
Alas, I broke up yesterday and blamed me for failing her, she said that she had always been very firm on my side.
The reason is that the landlord talked to her about the money of the marriage room, and then talked about how she knew the landlord before, and another blind date object had a good impression of each other, her relatives and her mother said that it was better to choose the landlord, because the landlord's family conditions were good, the landlord did not feel anything at the time, and then her mother said that after marriage, compared to the economic conditions, the others are trivial, she felt that her mother was right, alas, sure enough, there is no romance and beauty in the blind date of adults, only incomparable reality. After speaking, the landlord also said in a weird way, then it is better to find an ex-boyfriend, with his income will not be able to surpass me in a few years, she said do you think it is better for me to choose an ex-boyfriend, the landlord replied yes, she replied that I think so too, and the landlord hung up the phone.
At that time, I ignored her, and the next day I was still hesitating to break up, and the landlord didn't think about it, when I was on video last night, she explained the matter at first, and the reason she said was that the landlord didn't know how to reply, she said that she chose the landlord because the landlord's conditions were good, and the blind date was like this, if the landlord had a daughter in the future, it would be like this, the landlord really couldn't refute it, and he could only say that he regretted not falling in love during college, maybe he didn't have to think about reality at that time, but the landlord was also a tough seed, in this case, The landlord said her conditions, her family conditions are very average, and the marriage is basically a second-hand Passat, and her own conditions are better than the landlord. She said that's or, I took her words, the landlord said that it was better to be an ordinary friend, she said that ordinary friends might as well not do it, delete it, and hang up after speaking.
51 didn't go home, because of overtime, the family was not introduced for the time being, during the 51 period, the teacher asked me if I would go home, and wanted to invite me to dinner, alas, it is estimated that she also did not go well on a blind date.