When it comes to confidants with red faces, our first reaction is mostly red faces, not confidants, why is this?
In fact, the big premise of the red face confidant is the red face, that is to say, she is a woman, and the appearance, temperament, charm, etc., give people the first feeling must be very comfortable, yes, it is eye-catching, heart-pounding, unconsciously obsessed and dependent.
It is this kind of woman who has captured the first heart of a man, if you add a loss of kindness and sincerity, or a little more talent and cultivation, then she will become a man's confidant.
Women who can make men move their hearts are actually not in the minority, but women who can hold men's hearts tightly are very few, if they can't break through the appearance and reach the depths of men's hearts, even if they are beautiful, they are useless.
In the end, the final landing point of the red face confidant must be the peace of mind of the man, she will make the man feel safe, can't help but rely on and trust, and there is a feeling of snuggling and pity for each other in the dark, and it seems to have found the fit of the past life and this life.
Although in many cases, the red face confidant can not accompany men to grow old, but their existence to men is always to give men a hard and guidance, encouragement and support, so they can be regarded as a kind and warm companion, because they themselves have a sense of proportion, know how to advance and retreat, know the trade-offs, can not bear to destroy the peace of men's lives, will choose to quit at the right time, or turn around, belongs to a very kind and beautiful existence.
Most of the confidants with red faces who really choke the lifeblood of men win men's hearts with their own good qualities, rather than appearance and tricks, at this point, it is very clear.
The red-faced confidants in men's eyes are often these kinds of women.
[01] Beautiful woman
Red face confidants, to a large extent, are more beautiful women, of course, things are not so absolute, some red face confidants are also very ordinary appearance, but almost the vast majority of red face confidants are more beautiful women, this is beyond doubt.
In fact, the biggest reason why a man has a confidant with a red face is that the woman gives him the first look of the heart, so why does he have the first look of the heart?
The reason why men are moved is the beauty of women, this beauty contains many aspects, such as the beauty of appearance, the kindness of people in the world; warm and sincere, treating people sincerely; willing to pay; thoughtful bystanders, etc., always bring a warmth and light to the people around them, it is such a beautiful woman, so that men have to be moved, but, hindered by their goodwill, and have to respect her opinions, such as only to be friends, can not cross this boundary, etc., this is also the beautiful and kind woman who is the most pinching man.
Men think that they are so beautiful and moving, probably to capture the hearts of men, but in fact, they are more willing to bring warmth and beauty to everyone, not only for men.
What is the use of superficial luxury? If the inner character is not pure enough, it is difficult for men to be obsessed for a long time, and even after a period of time together, they will gradually get tired of the original intention.
But beautiful, kind and sincere women, it is different, they will desperately curb the man's liking, where they are, the man's eyes are there, not only the attraction of appearance, but also the capture of character.
[02] Talented women
Talent and appearance can be combined, there is no divergence between them, it should be complementary.
A woman with good looks, if she has a little talent, it is very remarkable. Once such a woman is met by a man, it is repaid, and the designation will breed a love, but how can it be done with love alone? Men will definitely follow her excellence, borrow a help, and bring themselves a little growth.
Don't think that men have red face confidants, all in order to plot against them, or occasionally ambiguous, or to fill the lonely emptiness and boredom, in fact, not, more men will put the red face confidant in life, rather than life, they are more willing to treat the red face confidant as a spiritual companion, the attitude towards them, men are always extra rational and objective, absolutely will not be easy to emotional things.
In fact, men are very realistic, they know how tempting such a good woman is, once they can resist this temptation, then long-term relationship or companionship, is a beautiful, otherwise it is very embarrassing to cross the line or love each other.
Talented women, will become a man's guiding light, but may not serve as a companion in men's lives, in contrast, most of the red face confidants act as men's soul support, so that men will always have the spirit to break in the colorful world, for them, men are only occasionally appreciated, will not tie the pace of life.
[03] The woman who knows how to be funny
In getting along with men, most of the confidants with red faces are very measured, will not casually integrate into men's lives, they have their own principles and bottom lines, that is, do not destroy the peace of men's lives, nor let men infiltrate into their own life circles, the two are just a friend relationship, and there is no so-called ambiguity.
In the end, most of the women who are more successful in being confidants with red faces are very interesting, knowing when to improve, when to retire, always bring men some beauty, but there will never be any involvement and distress, of course, men can do such perfection only by relying on their own reason, but women if they do not have a concentration or rationality, it is difficult to do this.
Women who can rationally handle the relationship between the sexes can be men's confidants, women who are too emotional, simply can't do it, maybe they can accompany them for a short time, but over time, women will be emotional, unwilling, aggrieved, or entangled with men, in short, once the feelings are mixed in, everything is chaotic.
Red face confidant, most of them will hold such a mentality, you come to me warmly embrace, you go I do not send you, very rational and calm, because there is no emotion, so everything is a beautiful look.
In the eyes of men, most of the confidants with red faces are free women, who have a very clear positioning for feelings, never easily exile emotions, but rationally control their feelings, including rational response to men's temptations, etc. What is brought to men has always been frank, but never superficial.