Men need a confidant with a red face the most
In this world, what men need most, in addition to a wife, seems to have a red-faced confidant.
When you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, holding your hand, panicking, tearful that person must be your wife, she is afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, crying and crying, obsessively entangled, making your heart uneasy. And the confidant of the red face does not cry. She just stands outside the door or window, staring at you quietly, reading your mind. She knows where your pain is, and she understands and is willing to share it silently for you, so that your soul is no longer lonely.
She cries because she loves you; she doesn't cry because she understands you.
The confidant of the red face knows best in his heart: if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or be his confidant.
Give him the right amount of care, but don't give him emotional threats, and don't let him have the pressure and pain of loving you.
You go out and travel far, there is no news, and the red face confidant has concerns. When you have drifted enough and stood in front of her with a disheveled face, she just smiled and asked, "Haven't seen you for a long time, have fun?" She wouldn't mention her worries, her anxieties, her anger, never! She knew it wasn't her business to mention those things.
Usually, the wife is the talker, and the confidant is the listener. In front of the red face, men can be tired birds, prodigal sons; they can be tired, they can be lonely, they can be helpless, they can escape, they can be idle. And she is able to accept your night, give you quiet, and be your space to recover your energy.
Therefore, the confidant is the angel in your life, she can walk through the layers of masks, such as entering the no-man's land, entering your soul, and using a language that you and she understand to have soul dialogue and communication.