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Women in different ages, often have different beauty, young full of vitality and upward vitality, and then in middle age, become more and more mature, but also more feminine.
Vitality and charm are two different kinds of beauty, the former is determined by age, while the latter is determined by experience.
Compared with young girls, middle-aged women have seen the world, know what they want, live more transparently, and are more awake. They will not easily lose themselves because of men's sweet words, but they can make correct judgments and make the choices that suit them best, so as to live more elves.
This is also the reason why middle-aged women are more attractive and attractive than younger girls.
Writer Zhang Ran once wrote such a paragraph in the book "Your Elegance Is Worth a Million":
"Some people say that a woman's elegance is a beauty and gentleness when she is young; in middle age, it is a maturity and perseverance; in old age, it is an understanding and care."
Beautiful when young, mature in middle age, gentle in old age, no matter what age group you are in, women have their own unique charm, which makes people particularly fascinated.
However, if a woman still has heterosexual flirtation in middle age, it is not necessarily a good thing, which illustrates at least three problems. The first and third are proof of charm, but the second can only be said to be their own reasons, which must be corrected in time.
One: both mature and attractive, with a seductive femininity
Many women reach middle age, they are more gentle, they have suffered a lot of life and emotional suffering, so in the treatment of people and things, more empathetic.
There is a saying that people who have been drenched in rain always want to hold an umbrella for others.
If a woman has experienced ups and downs, then in the future, if she meets someone who has a similar situation to herself, it may be easier to understand, and their ability to perceive emotions is far stronger than that of ordinary people.
And those women who reach middle age and still have the opposite sex actively approaching, are often mature and attractive, and they have a seductive femininity that makes people feel good.
At the same time, they are more understanding than the average person, and this is the most attractive point for men.
Why do men want to have a confidant with a red face? It is nothing more than because the confidants of the red face can understand themselves, and their gentleness and understanding will make them feel that their souls have belonged and their hearts have sustenance.
According to the principle of same-sex repulsion and heterosexual attraction, men prefer to have red faces and confidants than brothers who know the roots. And having feelings with a confidant with a red face is also an extremely normal thing, after all, two people are very close, and the other party also has a feminine taste.
Two: Being frivolous and casual, always giving the opposite sex some vague signals
If the first case is a proof of charm, then this one is just the opposite, and the reason why some women still have men chasing in middle age is mainly because she gives the other party some wrong signals.
Once the other person perceives that you are frivolous and casual, they will no longer respect you.
He will say a lot of ambiguous things, and even do a lot of things that cross the line, and if you don't stop, reject or draw a line at the first time, then it is very likely that he will become more and more excessive.
This requires middle-aged women to be a self-respecting and self-loving person, and in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, they must be strict with themselves and know how to restrain their behavior.
Don't give the other person some wrong signal and make him look down on you. Otherwise, he will come after you, not necessarily out of sincerity, but to take advantage of you.
Three: Virtuous at home, too honest, very suitable for marrying home to live
In addition to the above two situations, some middle-aged women are actively pursued by men, only because she is more virtuous and at home, and in the matter of marriage and love, there are no too high requirements, so men will feel that it is very suitable for marrying home to live a life.
In life, there are many men who will soon remarry after divorce, or after the other half dies of accidents, illnesses, etc., they may not all have feelings for their ex-wives, and it is possible that they are not used to no one around to take care of them.
In this case, they prefer to marry a virtuous woman and help themselves take care of the family.
They don't mind whether they have love for each other or not, or even whether they are suitable, but just want to find someone who has similar conditions in all aspects and make a living.
However, a really good marriage is inseparable from love, if the husband and wife do not have different hearts, even if they are married, they will only look like they are separated, and there will be no real happiness.
So women should be cautious and, if possible, still have to find a man who truly loves you.
Usually, women in middle age and heterosexual flirtation, nothing more than the above three reasons, no matter which kind you belong to, I hope you can be cautious about every relationship, so as not to hurt yourself.
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