01 Volume 1 Preface
People, always at a certain age, will understand some truth. However, when we understand these truths, we feel extremely lost, perhaps, this is the trouble of growing up. A person, as he grows older, will become more and more stable and more cautious, in fact, this is a kind of gain and loss after middle age. However, there is a certain truth to such afflictions and losses, especially for a person who has reached middle age, it is even more important to understand that we should not go to the family of these four people, and if we go, our troubles will come. Why?
02 First of all, when people reach middle age, the home of fox friends should not go.
By middle age, we are already the pillar of the family. At such an age, we should focus our main energy on working hard for the prosperity of the family. On the road of life, the friends we meet, but also when people reach middle age, begin to precipitate, those friends under the mud and sand, will slowly go farther and farther away from us. At the same time, we must also know how to take the initiative to start cleaning up our circle of friends, those fox friends, those who only know how to eat, drink and have fun, and even often encourage us to do something that should not be done by the "bad friends", we must know how to take the initiative to stay away and quit. When people reach middle age, we must understand that we should not go to the homes of those fox friends. Once we go, we may be disturbed again, and sometimes, we will even follow them to "fool around", so that our troubles may come, which is an act that is not worth the loss for us in middle age.
03 Secondly, when people reach middle age, the home of negative energy people should not go.
When people reach middle age, we must spend our main energy on work and life. At such an age, we must know how to stay away from right and wrong, away from the things that make us feel unhappy and unhappy. Especially those friends who are full of negative energy, those who have a "grudge complex", we must know how to stay away. Because we who are middle-aged have no time to listen to these people complaining, there is no need to listen to the truth that these people are full of negative energy. When people reach middle age, we have a lot of things to do, we have a lot of people to love, we have a lot of ideals, we need to slowly practice step by step. Therefore, when people reach middle age, those who are full of negative energy, we don't want to go, we must accept the interference of these people's negative emotions, and slowly, we will also become a negative and tired person, so that our life path will be more troublesome.
04 Third, when people reach middle age, they should not go to the home of their confidants.
When people reach middle age, we must pay attention to maintaining a distance from the opposite sex. Perhaps, when we were young, we once had two very talkative friends of the opposite sex, who explained to us when we were distressed and painful, in order to guide the way forward, and at the same time, gave a lot of emotional support in addition to love. However, such a red-faced confidant's feeling is a feeling between love and friendship, and if it is one step closer, it is easy to develop into a relationship. People reach middle age, we already have our own family, but also into the seven-year itch of marriage, if at this time we are still too close to the confidant, it is likely to let this feeling beyond the bottom line, so that our troubles can come, to solve, it will really become very difficult. Therefore, when people reach middle age and the home of a confidant with a red face, we should not go, and it is inevitable that there will be a lot of troubles.
05 Fourth, when people reach middle age, the home of the former predecessor should not go.
By middle age, we already have our lovers. At this time, we must know how to get along with our lover and walk well for the rest of our lives. Perhaps, when we were old, we had some kind of relationship, and even had a short marriage, so the word "ex" became very heavy in our hearts. Maybe, after we break up with the ex, for one reason or another, we will go to the ex's house, chat, or get something and explain some problems. However, such behavior, in our lover, and the former lover, is always very inappropriate, and some, and even a lot of trouble. Therefore, when people reach middle age and have been the home of their predecessors, we don't want it, and from now on, it is best for each of them to be well.
06 Concluding Remarks
Friends, after people reach middle age, these four people's homes will not go, go, and troubles will come. Have you ever had a similar emotional experience? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, wonderful comments, I will put the top to encourage Oh.