Love is like two people pulling rubber bands, the wounded are always unwilling to let go of the one, and not all love can be called love, many times may be the person who loves stubbornly unwilling to let go, in fact, the person who is loved, even to pick up the rubber band of love is not willing.
Some people think that the most beautiful thing in this world is a crush, and one person can decide everything, and some people think that the saddest thing in this world is a crush, because no matter what you love, only you will always know.
Beauty or sadness, presumably only the person concerned can know, perhaps for everyone, is a different feeling.
And for the person who is emotional first, there will always be ways to get close to each other, hoping to attract the attention of the other party, will the man like a woman who often chats with him? Listen to the big truth about men.
1, Mr. Zhang, don't like it
Mr. Zhang called the woman who often chatted with him as a confidant with a red face, and he had one many years ago, when he had just stepped into the society and was stunned.
As a newcomer in the company, it is inevitable that he will be "bullied" by his superior PUA and colleagues, which makes Mr. Zhang feel indignant in his heart, but he does not dare to show it, so he often talks to a female friend.
The two met in the game, belong to the network friends, offline never met, as long as there are unhappy things, Mr. Zhang will find each other to complain, and women are also very patient and gentle to comfort him, give him advice.
In almost half a year, thanks to her existence, Mr. Zhang persisted, and then slowly won the favor of his superiors and came to his current position.
For this red-faced confidant, Mr. Zhang is grateful, and he has had a momentary heartbeat, but that's all, if you like it, you really can't talk about liking it, because you don't even have the urge to see her.
Then, a year later, Mr. Zhang met his current wife, and the contact between the two slowly decreased, and they only stayed in the relationship of friends and likes.
2, Mr. Li, like
It is said that the boy's teenage age is the rebellious period, but Mr. Li's rebellious period seems to be relatively long, until he went to college, he was still in this period, and the relationship with his parents once dropped to the freezing point, so basically he did not go back during the winter and summer vacations.
At that time, Mr. Li was full of negative energy, and he himself wanted to change, but he didn't know where to start, and at this time he met his sister who was older than himself.
The two people met in the canteen, and later often met and slowly became friends, although the sister is not a beautiful woman, but it makes people very comfortable, especially when talking, let people feel like a spring breeze.
Therefore, Mr. Li will chat with her when he has nothing to do, and every time his sister will reply to him, occasionally because he forgets to return because of busyness, Mr. Li will keep looking at the mobile phone.
In the constant chat with his sister, Mr. Li also gradually moved from haze to sunshine, feeling that life was not as dark as he imagined.
He thought about confessing to his sister, but he hesitated when he learned that she was going back to her hometown after graduation, because he didn't know that he wanted to stay here.
In the dream and love, he still chose the former, maybe it may not even be love, can only be said to be unrequited love.
3, Mr. Xie, like
Speaking of which, Mr. Xie's current wife is chatting and chatting, the two first met on the Internet, Mr. Xie wants to sell second-hand computers, his wife is the buyer, the two add WeChat to each other and then communicate.
Unexpectedly, the two were like-minded and had a very pleasant chat, so Mr. Xie gave her the lowest price, which was very cost-effective, and after that, the two would chat when they had nothing to do.
At the beginning, it was some innocuous topics, but as the time of acquaintance became longer and longer, the topic of chat continued to deepen, and Mr. Xie would also share his life and troubles with her.
Over time, Mr. Xie had become accustomed to chatting with his wife every day, as if the other party had become a part of his life, and after this feeling became deeper and deeper, he had the idea of going to see her, and it was very strong.
So he immediately decided to buy a ticket and travel hundreds of kilometers to his wife's city, and the two were together.
In fact, it is not difficult to see that for men, their emotions are more inclined to cultivate than to love at first sight, so in frequent chats with women, they will make each other's feelings accumulate and superimpose, and then undergo qualitative changes.
If men are willing to chat with women often and take the initiative to talk to each other about their living conditions, it means that women are not just ordinary friends to them.
Because if they are just friends, there will be chats, but the number of times is limited, and they will not share the bits and pieces of life, because their desire to share is not so strong.
However, it is best to keep a little clean for love, don't start casually, don't rush to compromise, and what is really worth it will not be so easy.
Both men and women must keep this in mind in order to reduce the number of times they wrestle in love.