Conceived in October and delivered in one day. After having a child, parents firmly believe that the child they give birth to is their own child, but sometimes for various reasons, there are some accidents.
For example, as children grow up, their eyebrows, eyes, face shape, facial features and other aspects will undergo certain changes.
Due to the differences between the changes in the child and their own, some parents who are more suspicious may suspect that the child is not biological, and some parents will even choose to do a paternity test.
The daughter's appearance is very different when she grows up, and her mother suspects that she is not biological, and after the paternity test, the whole family is not calm
After the birth of Yoyo's child, she also felt very depressed. Especially seeing the folds like her own child's little old man made her even more angry.
Later, her mother-in-law advised that "it will be fine if the child grows up slowly", and she can only treat her child with a normal heart.
But when the child was almost two or three years old, she felt very puzzled: why did her child give birth to a double eyelid when she and her husband were both single eyelids?
After thinking about it, he still couldn't get over this hurdle, so he told his husband about his inner doubts. In addition, they are more aware of their private lives, so they agree that maybe the child is holding the wrong one.
Dissatisfied in her heart, Yoyo asked her husband to go to the hospital with her for a paternity test. The results made the family not calm, and the child was really not their own.
Seeing such a situation, Yoyo was very shocked. How is it good that a child who has been raised by himself for two or three years and already has feelings is not his own?
Later, through a certain investigation, it was revealed that the child was held by mistake after birth.
Although such a problem may not be easy to arise, but after the incident, Yoyo and her husband have to accept it.
Coupled with the relationship between the hospital itself, I finally found my biological child through a certain data survey, and the age of the child itself is relatively young, so it did not cause much impact. It's just that for Yoyo, there are still some entanglements and depression in my heart.
Such a question may seem unlikely, but for various reasons, we do not know what kind of problems the child will experience after birth.
Under normal circumstances, what are the reasons why children are held wrongly?
1) Carelessness on the part of nurses
Although people in the hospital are highly trained, not all nurses and doctors are likely to focus entirely on the child.
In addition, most children will not have obvious characteristics after birth, and the possibility of holding the wrong one at this time also exists.
Especially for those who have no experience, holding the wrong child can be considered a dereliction of duty.
2) Parental carelessness
After the baby is born, the nurse may take the child to another place for a certain registration check to see if the child is healthy, which is also a relatively normal process.
Of course, after the birth of the child, the first person who can come into contact with the child is the mother. Therefore, as a mother, you should consider observing the obvious characteristics of your child as soon as they are born, and keep it in mind.
Wait until the second time you contact your child to see if it overlaps with the previous memories, so that it will not cause the child to lose it.
So, what should parents do to prevent their children from being held wrong?
After the baby is born, it is necessary to reduce the probability of holding the wrong child
Now that we have understood that such a thing as holding the wrong child is not just a matter of talking, it can happen, and we need to take some precautions.
The state shown by Yoyo above may be a good one, after all, he finally learned the news that it was not his own child, and at the same time changed his own child back.
But we need to be clear that not all families will be so lucky, so parents must stop the possibility of this happening in the first place.
✔ Try to choose a hospital with strong specialization
Every hospital has an obstetrics and gynecology department, but not every hospital is more specialized. When choosing a hospital, we also need to choose those that are more specialized.
It not only ensures the health of the pregnant woman, but also enables the baby to be better taken care of during this process.
In addition, when choosing a hospital, you must investigate the professionalism of the department itself, and at the same time understand whether there will be any accidents during the delivery process in this hospital.
Under normal circumstances, those large hospitals that everyone trusts are highly professional and tend to have a lower error rate.
✔ Keep in mind what your baby looks like
Although many newborn babies are born in a relatively ugly state, and it is understandable that novice parents dislike them, such behavior is extremely wrong.
As the child grows up, the skin will become more and more beautiful, parents should not dislike the child is too ugly, but should observe the child's physical characteristics for the first time, keep in mind the child's appearance, so as to avoid the possibility of the child being held wrong.
For example, some children will be born with birthmarks, some are bigger, some are smaller, this is good evidence of identification.
✔ Observe your child's appearance early
From the above examples, we can find that sometimes an observation of children may be able to uncover many of the previous problems.
Especially those who are reluctant to do a paternity test are actually tormented inside.
If we find that the characteristics of our children have a certain deviation from that of the husband and wife, then we need to think, is it really wrong?
Paternity testing itself is powerful, and when we have doubts, it may be the most important thing to do to avoid harm to the rest of the family.
When it comes to paternity testing, many people feel very depressed, and even feel that it is a slap in the face.
In fact, if we perceive a certain problem, why are we not willing to use scientific methods to solve it?
If you just casually say "I'm going to do a paternity test" and are unwilling to carry it out for the sake of face or other reasons, it will only make the family even more broken.
For children, when they grow up to learn this message, they will think that their parents do not love them.
For husbands, they wonder if their wives are doing something wrong outside.
And for the baby, it is even more painful. Obviously I didn't do anything.
In a family, how should we solve such problems? Therefore, in order to avoid unnecessary problems, it is most important to choose the right way to solve difficult problems.
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