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Preface
I am Fu Jing, and I would like to share with you the story of my encounter with my wife Hassan, I went to her country for a field trip under the arrangement of the company, but I did not expect to meet my love and marry a wife.
Hassan from Africa is willing to marry in China, and I am very touched by the fact that I have two children in three years, and whenever I propose to go back to Africa together, Hassan will say with a sad face, I don't want to go back to Africa again, what happened to her?
[This article is a fictional story, the names in the article are pseudonyms, and if someone carries it, they will be held responsible]
Transnational romance
Our company has been approached for a public welfare project in Kenya, Africa, and I went to the local field with several colleagues to feel the enthusiasm of the African people.
Because it is a public welfare project that is beneficial to both parties, the docking company is very considerate and has prepared food and accommodation for us, and we only need to complete the work content and give timely feedback, so as to achieve a win-win situation.
I was very adaptable, the first day I was in the area was just a rough idea, and the next few days I enjoyed doing my job, testing and calculating data every evening, and my colleagues were just as enthusiastic as I was.
In the middle of the project, the local hosts also held a bonfire party, where people of different colors came together to feel the kindness and warmth between people, and the atmosphere was very good, and the people were very pure, so that they could forget about the hustle and bustle of the city and the troubles of life for a while, and calm down and study their skills.
At the party, Hassan and I met, and I especially remember that day Hassan wore a bright dress with local clothing, her figure was curvy and outstanding, her gestures were full of confidence and generosity, and her eyes were full of welcome and admiration for our guests from afar.
Hassan took the initiative to come to me and chat with me, saying that his father praised our team many times for their efforts, and thanked us very much, Hassan took the initiative to say that he liked Chinese culture very much, and he did not expect to be able to cooperate with us one day and get together for dinner and chat.
I heard that Hassan likes China very much, my national pride is at its peak, I told her that China has a lot of unique scenery and delicious food, people are helpful and live and work in peace, I am proud and glad that I was born in a peaceful China, this country has a long cultural history and profound cultural heritage, I believe that everyone will love this land when they set foot on this land.
This night, I spoke freely to Hassan, from my upbringing to my life ideals, the cultural differences between the local and Chinese cultures, Hassan has always listened carefully to my stories and opinions, she is really a very simple and kind girl.
With this heart-to-heart conversation, I always hope to meet Hassan after work, and she will also come to care for our team from time to time, bringing us all kinds of snacks and fruits.
In my opinion, I want a relationship to have a fulfillment in the eyes of the world, and if we love each other to the point where we need to enter the palace of marriage, whether I should stay in the local area or let Hassan leave his relatives and friends and follow me back to China, which is the reason why I have not dared to take a step forward.
When I put a lot of time into work, Hassan unexpectedly expressed his heart to me, such a straightforward and brave girl is really rare, she does not think that women can not take the initiative, but after seeing her own mind, she hopes to get a response.
As a man, I think I should take responsibility for the future of both of us and think long-term, and when I voiced my concerns, Hassan said that she wanted to come to China with me, and she wanted to come to this land for a long time.
Although she said sincerely, I could also feel her love for China, but it was Hassan's resoluteness and sincerity that touched me when I came to China alone for the sake of feelings, and I had to overcome many difficulties and bear the corresponding consequences.
With the consent of Hassan's parents, we returned to China together at the end of the project, which also strengthened my feelings for Hassan, and although there are many challenges ahead, I hope that neither of us will regret it.
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After returning to China, I first took Hassan to travel around China's great rivers and mountains, so that she could experience the various "beautiful scenery" of China, the grasslands and the sea, and when people integrate into and accept nature, they will always be extra calm and calm.
I helped Hassan bind her bank card and told her that she only needs to bring a mobile phone when she goes out in China, which can meet your daily needs, travel, payment, booking, etc., Hassan was pleasantly surprised to find that China is developing so rapidly.
In order to spread Chinese culture to her, I took her to the historic Forbidden City, took her to see the misty Jiangnan town, and saw the Cangshan and Erhai Lake, where she loved the scenery.
In terms of food, I took Hassan to taste the fragrant and spicy hot pot, took her to eat sizzling barbecue, and took her to the food stall to buy special pastries, crayfish and stinky tofu, etc., which she couldn't believe were just the tip of the iceberg of Chinese food.
I introduced Hassan to a stable and decent job, and I take her around every holiday, although we will have friction, but fortunately, we are all emotionally stable people, we know that this relationship is not easy, and there are occasional surprises in the small days of mutual tolerance, and we enjoy the current state.
After spending some time together, Hassan really became my wife, and I invited her relatives and friends to come to China for a specially organized Chinese wedding, and with the flowers and applause of relatives and friends, we moved on to the next stage of our lives.
We have a stable relationship after marriage, we have a son and a daughter in three years, I am very grateful to Hassan for being willing to have children, temporarily stop her work, become a housewife, when I teach her how to use electronic products, log in to social platforms, every day I will see her like a "child" playing with her mobile phone, sharing her current life with netizens.
We talk every night before bed, and Hassan always says that China is really a very strong and safe country, that life here is still very convenient, and that he is already trying to learn Chinese in the hope of adapting to life here faster.
My family relationship is not complicated, I only have one sister, my parents have their own careers, they can be called a well-off family, when they learned that I wanted to marry an African girl, they did not stop me, I am grateful that they are so open-minded.
My parents would try to learn some basic African greetings, my sister would prepare Chinese costumes for Hassan, and the family would welcome Hassan with the most sincere smile when they first met for dinner, and after they got married, they would take care of Hassan.
Cultural differences
Hassan told me that at first she thought that she would be discriminated against or looked at differently because of her race, and she was afraid that it would be difficult to die alone in China, but she still chose to believe in me, and she also hoped to go outside and let her parents see what she was capable of.
I told Hassan that Chinese people rarely reject others, and after experiencing an era of lack of food and clothing, and everyone is in danger, everyone longs for peace in their hearts, and when they encounter difficulties, they will come forward to help, which is a good virtue that has been passed down for many years.
Some developed countries will still encounter various situations such as being robbed, encountering homeless people on the street, etc., but it is rare in China, we have a perfect and advanced management system, and we have been trying to help poor families for many years, and the progress of science and technology and the times are all in order to benefit the people.
When I asked Hassan to meet in Africa, she reluctantly said that she had adapted to such a convenient and developed life in China and did not want to return to Africa at all, which made me laugh and laugh at her frankness and frankness.
epilogue
My encounter with Hassan is amazing, transnational romance does face many challenges, but in the process of getting along, you can also find a lot of "new things", cultural differences between the two countries, and I look forward to more foreign friends coming to China!