Don't gently borrow money from others, and don't send invitations to invite people to eat. Don't overestimate where you are in the hearts of others. My seventh cousin daughter Xiaojiao looks mediocre, delicious and lazy, has no job, finds a man of the same style, and is ready to get married.
When my father used to be well, he often helped relatives and seven cousins and parents, but then my father was paralyzed and my brother was mentally ill, so they stopped interacting with us. Later, I became rich, my son and daughter became small leaders, and my relatives who did not come and went knew us again...
Yesterday the seventh cousin and daughter came to my house together, I was doing things when they knocked on the door, my mother was busy opening the door, the mother opened the door and asked them who they were looking for, I heard the voice, I quickly walked over, walked out the door, closed the door and did not let the seventh cousin and her daughter enter the door. (They are not good to find me, the big New Year's Day, I don't want them to enter the house, once they enter the house, the reason is not to say, it must be to ask me to eat or borrow money). I said my house is too messy, I won't invite you into the house, what's the matter? The seventh cousin said to me that Xiaojiao is getting married, one is to send a happy post, the other is that Xiaojiao wants to buy a car, the money is not enough and the difference is 30,000, and wants to ask me to borrow 30,000 yuan. The seventh cousin said while handing me the invitation, I did not reach out to pick it up, I said I want to take care of my brother, my brother is hospitalized in a mental hospital, I don't have time to eat a banquet, I will not accept your invitation. I'm going to pay my brother for medical bills, and I don't have any money to lend you. My son and daughter-in-law did not invite guests when they got married, and you did not have money to study at my house, and you did not invite guests and did not hold a banquet. The seventh cousin immediately turned black after hearing the smiling face. I said I was busy, I went to work, I was unaccompanied, I left them outside the door, I went in and closed the door. When I entered the door, my mother and my mother asked me, and I said, come and borrow money, come and send invitations to tell me to eat and drink. My own mother said, what about the invitation, I said I did not answer, I do not go, what did I do, I have money and I will not borrow. My mother and my own mother said, admire you, dare to say and dare to do. I said I don't embarrass myself, I don't go to eat and drink and directly refuse, borrow money is good to borrow, it is difficult to ask for money, I don't find trouble for myself, I don't borrow. Such relatives are not worth coming and going. My seventh cousin overestimated her place in my heart, and in the end I made her lose face. I didn't want to associate with these snobbish relatives at all.
