Once during the New Year, Chen Kun went to his father's house hungry to ask for 10 yuan of money. Unexpectedly, the stepmother immediately changed her face: "Think beautiful, where do we get the money for you!" His father also scolded Chen Kun

Once during the New Year, Chen Kun went to his father's house hungry to ask for 10 yuan of money. Unexpectedly, the stepmother immediately changed her face: "Think beautiful, where do we get the money for you!" His father also scolded Chen Kun and immediately drove him out of the house.

The ending is breathtaking.

After the father and mother gave birth to him and his brother, they divorced because of emotional discord, and the father said: "I don't want any children, all for you." ”

The mother was in tears, although her own ability was limited, but after all, she was her own son, and she could not ignore anything.

Chen Kun, born in Chongqing in 1976, is a place of less than 10 square meters, and he also has a younger brother, the family conditions are particularly poor, want to go to the toilet, can only go to public places.

Since childhood, the relationship between parents has been particularly poor, quarreling from time to time, hitting people at every turn, Chen Kun often kneels for his parents, do not let them quarrel again.

When he was 7 years old, Chen Kun's parents divorced. His father soon found him a stepmother and brought an older brother who was not related by blood.

Chen Kun's mother pulled him to live with his brother. Because he couldn't take care of it, his mother had to entrust him and his brother to his grandmother.

It was not until Chen Kun was 11 years old that his mother took him home. At that time, the mother and stepfather had another younger brother.

The stepfather lived by setting up a stall, and the family of 5 was crammed into a small house of 13 square meters.

Mom, dad and little brother slept in the house, and Chen Kun and his eldest brother slept in the aisle.

The window of the home was only a thin layer of paper, which could not block the wind at all.

Because his mother was a worker, the salary was too low, and it was very stressful to raise him and his brother, and he could eat meat for the last time, which was also the shredded meat that his mother "picked" from the factory and put it in a bottle to take home.

But my father didn't care much about them!

In an interview with Yi Lijing, she asked Chen Kun: "In the minds of many children, the father is the image of a big hero. ”

But Chen Kun did not agree: "Others are others, in my mind my mother is my big hero, my father is not!" ”

One Spring Festival, Chen Kun saw his stepfather and mother, with a sad face, and later, overheard that they were worried about money.

Therefore, Chen Kun ran to the home of his father, who was rich in life, and wanted to give his father some money to subsidize the family of his stepfather.

However, as soon as the stepmother saw Chen Kun asking for money, she scolded Chen Kun with a black face: "Think beautiful, where did we get the money for you!" ”

His father, who was on the side, also scolded Chen Kun fiercely and immediately drove out of the house.

At that moment, the stepmother and father sent Chen Kun like a flower child, making Chen Kun feel humiliated like never before.

Since childhood, his parents have divorced, his family conditions are not good, and his inferiority has slowly planted seeds in his heart.

Until, when Chen Kun filmed "Hotpot Hero", Chen Kun did not have contact with his biological father.

But who knows, when his biological father knew that Chen Kun was acting in Chongqing, he also specially stewed crucian carp soup for him and sent it to the crew.

In fact, at that time, the crew was not too far from his biological father's home, and Chen Kun had been hesitant to meet him, which showed how much shadow his biological father had given Chen Kun's heart.

As he earned more and more money, Chen Kun proudly raised his family. He bought a big house in Beijing and took the family over. He likes to earn money to support his family, which gives him a sense of being needed rather than abandoned.

Even if he becomes a first-line star and his salary is doubled several times, Chen Kun's bones are still inferior and sensitive. He will panic a little when he gets a high salary, and even says: "I don't think I am the one who should get such a high salary."

The painful childhood experience led him to develop a flattering personality, did not dare to resist, and became accustomed to understanding. So he was particularly envious of his son. He said: "I am learning from my son, and I hope that I will rebel myself." ”

In 2015, he filmed "Hotpot Hero" in his hometown, and his 70-year-old father came to see him with a boiled fish soup.

This made Chen Kun very embarrassed, he was ready to die with his father, but he did not expect that one day, his father would take the initiative to care for himself.

When he saw his father's staggered figure, he suddenly understood that he did not love him, but he did not want to accept him, close to him, the two people were obviously very close, but they especially did not understand each other.

He understood that his father was really close to him this time and cared about himself, so he slowly accepted. Then, his father came to see him with fish soup every three to five minutes, and the relationship between the two slowly eased.

Once Chen Kun was interviewed, he said with a bitter smile:

"I wish my father had been a prophet, and if he knew that I was so capable, he wouldn't have left me."

Chen Kun chose to let go of hatred and truly accept those who loved him, and truly loved others.

Sometimes the moment you let go of hatred is the moment you have love.

The misfortune of the original family made Chen Kun an independent, sensible, strong and enterprising person, fortunately, although he did not experience the warmth of his biological father since he was a child, he felt the gentleness of the world from his stepfather. Lao Liu's kindness also educated Chen Kun into a grateful and responsible person.

In 2002, Chen Kun's son Youyou was born, and for many years, Chen Kun never disclosed the information of the child's birth mother to the outside world, but willingly pushed away many good job opportunities for his son.

For Chen Kun, the warmth given to the child's original family is the most important. This is probably what his life experience taught him!