Only two months after my husband's death, my mother-in-law forced me to remarry, of course, I did not agree, but then my mother-in-law said something to me, and after I learned the original commission, I burst into tears on the spot. My name is Guan Xiaohe,

Only two months after my husband's death, my mother-in-law forced me to remarry, of course, I did not agree, but then my mother-in-law said something to me, and after I learned the original commission, I burst into tears on the spot.

My name is Guan Xiaohe, 28 years old this year, my family is in the countryside, I am the second oldest, there is an older brother above, there is a younger brother below, my life has been very bad since I was a child, my patriarchal parents always entrust me with the most tiring work in the family, and the delicious and good clothes have never been my share [tears].

After graduating from high school, I worked in the county garment factory to earn money to subsidize the family, and there I met my first love, who was a leader in our workshop, although he was a leader, but he was particularly humble and never had an official shelf for us. Once, I was nailing a button on a nailing machine, and because of a mistake in operation, I accidentally nailed the button to my finger, and he immediately drove me to the hospital for bandage, and in the car, he kept asking me about my situation repeatedly.

Later, he also took the initiative to give me a month's leave to recuperate at home. During the time I was recuperating at home, he often sent me messages and greetings, and I was completely touched by his actions. I knew in my heart that he should be interesting to me! Sure enough, after returning to the factory after the holiday, he took the initiative to ask me to dinner, and we confirmed the relationship.

We talked for five years, and when I was 23 years old, I brought him to my parents, but my parents didn't agree! They resented the conditions in my boyfriend's house too general and didn't meet their expectations.

Later, I don't know what the reason was, my husband's mother actually came to my house to say kiss! And I remember that I obviously didn't know him, so why did he suddenly decide to marry me? He also very happily promised to give my parents 300,000 dowry money!

After I learned of this incident, I immediately asked my parents to retire from marriage, but my parents said: The dowry money has been given by everyone, and the money has already been given to your brother and daughter-in-law, and it has been given as a dowry to the woman, or it will not come back! You collect your heart and wait to get married!

I didn't agree, and as a result, my mother actually took pesticides to force me to die! Under the pressure of my mother, I later married my current husband with tears!

After I got married, I once asked him why he had to marry me, but he never said it, just thought about being good to me!

He was very considerate and caring for me, basically belonging to the kind of look that needed me, putting me on the tip of his heart, and being tolerant of me, but even so, my heart could not warm up, and every day was depressed.

Until a year later, when I became pregnant and had a child, my mind was on the child, perhaps because he was the biological father of the child, and I gradually accepted the husband for the sake of the child. I no longer look at my husband coldly, which makes him very happy.

Probably because of the involvement of the child, the relationship between us is getting better and better, I once thought that he and I should be able to accompany each other like this until old age, but heaven has no mercy! When the child was more than three years old, my husband suddenly had a bad disease, and after half a year of treatment in the hospital, he left our mother and son and left.

I cried in the hospital! Since the birth of the child, my relationship with my husband has gotten better and better every day, and he has already become the most important person in my heart, and his sudden departure makes it difficult for me to accept. If it weren't for the child, I wouldn't know if I could have survived!

But just two months after my husband's death, my mother-in-law suddenly said to me one day: You hurry up and find someone to marry, take Xiao Xu (my son) to remarry together!

I thought I had heard it wrong, but my mother-in-law said it again. After I listened, my heart was particularly angry, don't say that I am not in the mood to talk about remarriage now, that is, I have this heart, and I should not put it forward by my mother-in-law herself! Who has a mother-in-law advised her daughter-in-law to take her grandson to quickly remarry! Besides, my mother-in-law only has one son, my husband! I immediately said I disagree!

My mother-in-law saw that I was very determined, so she sighed, and then she said something again.

It turned out that the reason why my husband had to marry me was because he had known me for a long time, but I didn't know him. And he and my first love boyfriend are actually distant relatives, once my boyfriend took me to eat his aunt's wedding wine, my husband liked me at a glance, but because of my identity, he was not easy to express.

Later, I learned that my family did not agree to my marriage to my boyfriend, so he begged my mother-in-law to come to my house to kiss, originally did not hold out hope, but I did not expect that my greedy parents agreed to it! He knows that he is ashamed in his heart, so he is very kind to me after marriage!

The mother-in-law also said that now that her grandson is four years old and has reached the age of almost governor, she does not want her grandson to know that he is a child without a father as soon as he understands things, and she only hopes that his grandson can live happily in the family of his parents in this life! So she got the idea of asking me to take the kids and remarry my first love boyfriend. And she once talked to my first love boyfriend, and he also promised to accept our mother and son!

Originally wanted to mention this to me after half a year, but she learned some time ago that my first love boyfriend's home began to arrange a blind date for him, she was in a hurry, afraid that my first love boyfriend would change his mind, so she had to bring it up with me now!

After listening to my mother-in-law's words, I was already in tears, and my mother-in-law was thinking about me and thinking about my children! And I blamed her!

But although my mother-in-law said so, over the years, I no longer had any thoughts about my first love boyfriend. Moreover, my husband had only been dead for two months, and I was sad in my heart, and I was really in no mood to think about remarrying. But my mother-in-law is looking forward to me, how can I be good?

Your mother-in-law is a kind woman, she did not tie her grandson to her side because of her selfishness, but wanted to give her grandson a sound family, which is very touching!

Your feelings for your husband are slowly accumulated later, so the death of your husband is a big blow to you, and it is reasonable to be in no mood to remarry, but your mother-in-law's words are also reasonable, if you marry out as soon as possible, when your son understands things, he only knows the current father, which is of great help to his future growth.

Your first love boyfriend is not young, and there is also a relationship basis between you, but his family now introduces him, even if one day he really moves his heart. Then you will have no regrets. So, for the sake of your children, you should make decisions as early as possible.