Now that there are more men and fewer women, it is reasonable to say that women basically do not worry about marrying, and even marrying a few times is no problem, but now there are many older single women in life.
In previous years, the term "leftover women" swept the Internet, and the so-called "leftover women" were leftover women, and they were especially obvious in various large cities.
Unlike the man's being left behind, women are left with a lot of times not being in good enough condition, but the expectations of marriage are divorced from reality and leaving themselves behind.
Now there are more and more elderly unmarried women, some cities have more than one million single unmarried women, and some experts have directly predicted that there will be a large number of female singles in the future.
Why is there still a female single stick in this era of more men and fewer women?
First of all, men and women's views on marriage and love are not the same, and most men like to find a woman who relies on themselves and enjoy the feeling of being the head of the family.
Even if the woman doesn't know anything, the family situation is not very good, the boy often does not mind, after all, the future marriage is to live with themselves, the couple can work together to live a good life.
Men's rationality is often very tenacious, women are more emotional will always be impulsive, contact with so much marriage mediation, women are too strong to deal with the impact on marriage is indeed very large.
And women are generally more Mu Qiang, what is "Mu Qiang"? In fact, Mu Qiang is to admire the strong, look at the mate selection standards of various women, many hope that the man can be stronger than himself in all aspects, and bring himself to growth.
Throughout the ages, women have mostly moved up and married flat, and there are not many women who are really willing to marry, don't be deceived by those TV dramas and love stories.
People have a habit, always the more they lack something, the more they like to sing what they like, those love legends, basically rich women fall in love with poor boys, and finally come together against all odds.
In the past, information did not circulate, and the scope of women's mate selection was generally limited to their own villages, and everyone's mate selection criteria were those families with better conditions in the village.
But now it is different, the information age has expanded the scope of mate selection countless times, before the scope of mate selection was Zhang San Lisi in the village, and now it is possible on the earth.
In the past, it was thought that marrying into the best families in the village was success, but now many women only have the best five percent of the men, and other men are not in the range of mate selection at all.
Coupled with the fact that many people on the Internet show off their wealth, in order to cheat money and engage in all kinds of exaggerations, what a domineering president of a 19-year-old entrepreneurial business has made many people who lack subjective judgment have a great misunderstanding of reality.
The emergence of makeup and beauty cameras, but also let the beauty bubble growing day by day, all say "no ugly women, only lazy women", as long as the facial features are not too ugly, paint a picture makeup, photo repair is "beauty".
If everyone is plain-looking, many girls are really not as good looking as men, look at the animal kingdom, basically male animals are better looking than females, because they want to attract the opposite sex to breed offspring.
Many people mistakenly regard the face painted on the face as themselves, take the beautiful photo from a certain angle as themselves, and then find the object according to this standard.
Obviously, his conditions are not good, but he is picky about men, even if the man is very good, he always feels that the other party is not worthy of himself, and fantasizes about marrying into the golden nest.
Many people pick and choose, and finally leave themselves behind, and like to comfort themselves with the fact that they don't want to get married, and the next one is better.
It is undeniable that there are indeed many older girls who are very good, although they are in their 30s, but they have high incomes, high education, high looks, and some of them have a house and a car.
Although the conditions are very good, their understanding of love and marriage is very selfish, they only want to find men with better conditions than themselves, and they have to take care of themselves after marriage, and they don't want to take on any housework.
But since the marriage market is a market, it must follow the laws of the market, and the value of a commodity is not determined by the seller, but by the person who can afford it.
It is undeniable that many older single women are excellent, but the kind of men they want are basically married, and they can only go to others to grab one if they want to find one, so many people choose to step into other people's marriages.
Even if the man really divorced the original partner, can such a marriage really be happy?
Even if there are some fish that slip through the net, but these older excellent men are not so easy to take, they are very good at using their advantages for profit, and in the end, they will only let you lose your wife and fold the army.
And older women are falling into the embarrassing situation of having wolves and tigers before, young girls are not demanding, and they are more likely to attract men, and some conditions are not so good, such as women in second marriage, they are not demanding and considerate.
At that time, older women will fall into a kind of procrastination and embarrassment, even if they are very good, but the people they meet are very ordinary, and the more unwilling they are, the more they suffer.