preface
Society has progressed, people's living standards have improved, but there are more and more single sticks that can't find wives.
Especially in the countryside, the proportion of single sticks has continued to grow in recent years, and it is no wonder that my rural hometown has spread the phrase "women can marry out as long as they have breath".
Some people may think that the proportion of single sticks has increased because young people do not want to get married now, but in fact many men are "forced" to be single sticks, not because they do not want to marry, but because they cannot marry.
In fact, the proportion of women who are single is also growing, why doesn't everyone often say "women can't marry out"? That's because women being single is mostly the result of "active" choices, while most single men are chosen because of "passive".
The 43-year-old rural single stick is very distressed: if you don't smoke or drink, you can't find an unmarried and childless person
Lu Zhilin, who lives in Hunan Province, is 43 years old this year, his ancestors have been farmers for generations, because he was greedy when he was a child, coupled with his parents' illiterate and did not pay attention to the education of his children, so Lu Zhigang dropped out of primary school after 5 years of primary school, and now Lu Zhigang is an employee in an electronics factory in the provincial city, with a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan.
To tell the truth, the salary of 6,000 yuan per month is not much, but Lu Zhigang himself
pocket money
It is still more than enough, and Lui Zhigang does not smoke or drink, he is very satisfied with the status quo of his work, and we can only say that everyone has their own way of life.
Lu Zhigang looks relatively ordinary, short and fat, and his image is not outstanding, but his vision is still relatively high, so he has become a famous "single stick" in the village.
Lu Zhigang's parents are honest and diligent, but the days can only be said to be eating and wearing without worry, anyway, they cultivate their own land, and the grain that they can't eat is sold for some money, and now Lu Zhigang's parents are 65 years old, at this age in the countryside, generally grandchildren will run all over the place, and Lu Zhigang is also worried about the marriage partner.
In fact, Lu Zhigang also fell in love when he was 26 years old, and even the woman followed him home, this girl we called her Xiaozhen, Xiaozhen was young at the time, only 21 years old, so some "crazy and crazy" is also normal, she thinks that since she looks at Lu Zhigang, she must be with him, and pestering him not to go.
Sure enough, people are not used to it, Xiao Zhen showed her determination, whether it is working hard work, or eating chaff and throat vegetables, anyway, how to follow Lu Zhigang, but Lu Zhigang's family is arrogant, at first Lu Zhigang disliked Xiao Zhen "stupid", and then Lu Zhigang's mother began to provoke, she said: "This girl is not dignified at all, she still does not leave here, she does not look good!" ”
To be honest, I have seen a photo of Xiao Zhen in my friend's mobile phone, which is indeed not pretty, just an ordinary look, but it is more than enough with Lu Zhigang.
Because of Xiao Zhen's "low three down four", Lu Zhigang's family became more and more excessive, and even Lü Mu openly exported:
"Why don't you do anything, eating is positive, you go fast!"
Although Xiao Zhen is not very old, she also knows some etiquette, righteousness, and shame.
After Lu Mu said these words, Xiao Zhen packed her bags and went to the train station.
Sadly, Xiao Zhen went to the station with her own baggage, and no one in Lu Zhigang's family sent her
Or this friend of mine happened to meet and drove her to the station, and since then, Xiao Zhen has not heard from her.
After Xiao Zhen left, Lu Zhigang also tried blind dates, and his mate selection criteria were relatively high:
Tall and tall, with at least a high school education
Every time he went on a blind date, he could always provoke the woman, and gradually, the matchmaker did not want to introduce him.
Every time when they go home for the New Year, those aunts and aunts always inquire about Lu Zhigang's marriage and love situation, every year, Lu Zhigang is very annoyed in his heart, but because of the bad attack of relatives, every time he prevaricates with "I don't want to get married early", in fact, he is also very anxious in his heart, helpless to find what he wants.
Just last year, Lu Zhigang began to entrust people with blind dates, but the matchmaker either introduced him to an older unmarried woman or introduced a married person, how could Lu Zhigang agree? He has always insisted on finding a tall, unmarried and childless woman, but now that he is 43 years old, when will he find it?
Jade Rabbit said
Everyone's best choice is not necessarily to "upward" knotted, but to recognize reality,
most
The path that suits you is the best choice.
In fact, men are not afraid of high vision, they are afraid of high vision, their own conditions are not up to standard, if they really have the ability, then it is appropriate to have high requirements for the other half, but Lu Zhigang's conditions are general, but the woman is required to have good conditions, is this possible?
In fact, regardless of men and women, everything should start from their own real conditions, and "good and ambitious" can only end in a fiasco.
You feel that with Lui Zhigang's conditions, you can find unmarried
Infertile
Woman?