It is difficult to get married, it is difficult to go to the sky! Especially in the rural areas where the economic conditions are relatively backward, it has become an indisputable fact that a family has a hundred women to ask for, and some people may not be able to get rid of the identity of the single stick by giving everything they have.
It is reasonable to say that marrying a wife should be incredibly happy, but this sad young man has subverted everyone's cognition.
Judging from his loveless expression, the young man did not have any expectations for this marriage, more like he was forced to do it.
Getting married is not only to find someone who knows the cold and the hot to spend the rest of her life together, but more importantly, one more person to support each other and walk the road of life together, but the bride's state is indeed far from normal people.
Rural boys have nothing to love when they get married
Unlike the grand wedding scene in the impression, there were only a few relatives and friends present in the small courtyard, and the expressions of these relatives and friends were the same as those of the groom, and there was no half-joy on their faces.
There is no doubt that they consider the same problem as the groom, what is the significance of marrying such a special bride, not only can not support each other, the groom can also take care of her in turn, and marriage is a lifelong thing, this burden is not light.
Perhaps this is the root cause of the guy's sad face, with such a wife, no one can be happy.
It's like going to the execution ground
Compared with the troubled young man, the bride with a crooked head and a grin is much happier, when the witness shouts "a worship of heaven and earth", the groom kneels in response, bending down and bowing his head the moment makes people sad, do not know that he thought he was on the execution ground.
The kneeling ceremony should be the two brides performing the ceremony at the same time, but the bride has no intention of moving at all, does not understand what the worship hall is, and does not know what the worship of heaven and earth has to do with herself, so she stands stupidly and rubs her fingers, thinking of herself as an outsider.
The mother's family rushed to make her gesture in the distance, but the bride still couldn't understand it, just clapped her hands a little sluggishly.
The bride grinned because of the intellectual disability
In desperation, the mother's family had to kneel down and signal the bride to wait and do the same, but she did not expect that the bride would be wrong again.
Before the witnesses shouted "two prayers to the high church", the bride was already squatting down, ready to bow her head, and the aunt on the side quickly pulled her aside, so that she could coax her up.
Seeing this bride who could only grin and smirk, the big aunt leaning against the wall shook her head repeatedly, and the color of pain overflowed into words.
I just don't know if she is hurting the bride or the groom, presumably this is the first time she has seen this kind of marriage.
I'd rather beat a bare stick than marry
This special wedding picture triggered a fierce discussion among netizens, of course, there are many netizens who send blessings, but there are more netizens who are distressed about the groom, and some netizens are even more blunt: "I would rather fight a lifetime of bare sticks than marry such a wife!" ”
Although this sentence is somewhat absolute, it also represents the attitude of many people, and marriage is a natural thing, which is based on feelings.
The two obviously did not have any emotional basis, and the boy never looked at the bride for even half a second, staring at the ground the whole time.
It is not that the appearance of the bride is not good, but in the state of the bride, it is impossible to have any communication with the young man, two strangers living under the same roof for a lifetime, this marriage is doomed to not be happy.
Netizen: It's good to have a woman
There are also a few netizens who are not impressed, saying that "it is good to have a woman!" The origin of this argument is that it is difficult to marry a wife.
Although it is difficult to marry a wife, there are more older young people in society than this young man with better conditions, but the difficulty of marrying a wife does not mean that the requirements are reduced indefinitely, and marriage is a lifelong thing.
Instead of marrying a wife who can't communicate and can't take care of herself, it's better to be single.
Don't say anything about throwing off the hat of a single stick or passing on the generations, even if you have children, it is difficult to grow up in this family environment.
Marriage should still go with the flow, do not marry for the sake of face, and do not marry for the purpose of completing the task, otherwise it will be unfair to both parties.