A month ago, I met Ms Joe, who is 53 years old and 9 years younger than me, and she said she didn't mind if I was older than her. Through a period of interaction, I have a very good impression of her,

A month ago, I met Ms Joe, who is 53 years old and 9 years younger than me, and she said she didn't mind if I was older than her. Through a period of interaction, I had a very good impression of her, and I planned to settle our marriage, but just yesterday, things changed, making me worry about our future.

My acquaintance with Ms. Joe was purely accidental.

My daughter-in-law is an accountant in a factory, and Ms. Qiao is the leader of my daughter-in-law. Ms. Qiao could have worked for another two years, but for physical reasons, she retired early. Ms. Qiao once gave my daughter-in-law a lot of help, and the relationship between the two has always been very good.

A month ago, it was Ms. Qiao's birthday, and my daughter-in-law had already bought a birthday gift and planned to send it to Ms. Qiao herself. But that morning, my daughter-in-law suddenly received a phone call saying that there was an account that needed to be re-checked, and the data seemed to be wrong, so my daughter-in-law rushed back to the factory.

When my daughter-in-law left, she gave me the gift she was going to give to Ms. Qiao and told me ms. Qiao's address, asking me to send the gift to Ms. Qiao for her.

I heard my daughter-in-law say about Ms. Joe, but I've never seen her.

After my daughter-in-law left, I took the gift she gave me and went to Ms. Joe's house. When I met Ms. Qiao, she saw that I was holding a birthday present in my hand, and she was very curious, I introduced my identity and explained my intentions, and Ms. Qiao warmly let me into the house.

I planned to give the gift to Ms. Qiao and say goodbye to her, but unexpectedly, Ms. Qiao was very enthusiastic, she said: Today is my birthday, my son and daughter just called, saying that they are busy at work, can not accompany me to celebrate the birthday, I still feel quite lost, just you came, my relationship with your daughter-in-law, not a day or two, although we are the first time to meet, but I do not take you as an outsider, you stay with me to celebrate the birthday.

Although she really kept me, I still felt embarrassed, and the first time we met, I stayed at her house for dinner, and there were only two of us, and I felt embarrassed.

But Ms. Qiao repeatedly retained, she also said: I heard your daughter-in-law said, you sing very well, especially the tenor, can reach the level of singers, I also like to sing, when we finish eating, I ask you for advice, we can also try to compete.

It was difficult to be gracious, so I stayed. Ms. Qiao went into the kitchen to prepare lunch, and I was embarrassed to be idle, so I went to the kitchen to help her.

When my wife was alive, any housework in the family, I did not have to worry about it, after the death of my wife, my son and daughter-in-law took me to their house, they took care of my diet and living, and I did not have to do anything, I cooked stir-fry, that is a clue.

I help Ms. Qiao, that is, to collect rice for her and wash vegetables. Unexpectedly, this unintentional act of mine actually touched Ms. Qiao's heart. At that time, Ms. Qiao said to me: Since my wife died, no matter what I do, no one has ever helped me, and today you can come to help me, which makes me feel very warm.

I learned that Ms. Qiao's husband, who also died of illness more than a year ago, had a son and a daughter, but they were busy with work every day, and Ms. Qiao did not want to bother them, or lived alone.

Although there were only two of us, Ms. Qiao was in a good mood that day, she made a table of delicious food, and I was also very sympathetic to Ms. Qiao, we are all widowed elderly people, there are many common topics, we eat and talk, the same encounter, let us understand each other more, empathy.

After eating, I helped Ms. Qiao clean up the dishes, and after doing all this chores, Ms. Qiao asked me to sing a song to her, she had only heard it from my daughter-in-law's mouth before, I sang at a great level, and now, she wanted to listen to it with her own ears.

I have loved singing since I was a child, especially love bel canto singing, since Ms. Qiao invited me, today is also her birthday, in order to show my heart, I sang a song "My Sun" to her, unexpectedly, Ms. Qiao listened to it, and everyone appreciated my singing skills. After I finished singing, she also sang one, and she sang well, but compared to me, it was still slightly inferior.

Since then, Ms. Qiao has often asked me to go to her house and let me teach her to sing, and after a period of contact, we have a good feeling for each other, in our hearts, but we are not embarrassed to say this.

Later, my daughter-in-law asked me, and she said: Aunt Joe called me and said that she liked you from her heart, but she was embarrassed to confess to you, and she asked me to ask you, what is your impression of her?

I told the truth to my daughter-in-law, and I said: I also admire your Aunt Joe as a person, I am afraid that she will not look at me, and now that she has taken the initiative to propose it, if you do not object to my association with your Aunt Joe, I also plan to live with her and be a companion.

Neither Ms. Joe nor I was sloppy, so we decided to bring our children together next Sunday, have a meal together, announce our affairs to everyone, and then we'll live together.

But just yesterday, things suddenly changed, Ms. Qiao called to tell me that she still has an older brother in the countryside, and her brother is in his 70s. Three days ago, her sister-in-law died suddenly, her brother and her sister-in-law, childless all their lives, after the death of her sister-in-law, her brother had no one to take care of, she wanted to bring her brother to her side, we supported her together.

Things came unexpectedly, and Ms. Qiao's request was not excessive. My daughter-in-law also said: Aunt Joe and her brother are very good to my Aunt Joe, take him over, the three of you live together, more people are more lively, I have no objection.

But I was a little worried that her brother's lack of pension would undoubtedly increase the burden on me and Ms. Qiao. I'm a little hesitant right now.

You are a little worried, Ms. Qiao also has a pension, and her brother is more than 70 years old, in terms of life, to meet him can feed and feed, and does not need too much cost, although he is a rural person, but when he is sick, he should also be able to enjoy the reimbursement treatment, do not have to bear much of you.

Ms. Qiao and her brother are very good to her, and now, Ms. Qiao wants to bring her brother to her side, which is also a common sentiment, and you are very satisfied with All Aspects of Ms. Qiao, don't spoil your good deeds because of this little episode.

Knowing the grace of the picture, Ms. Qiao did this, it is precious, she is a good person, do not miss.