I studied thousands of extramarital affairs and came up with three harsh truths about human nature. Recently, I was watching "Emotional Apocalypse", which has a large number of cases of extramarital affairs. Thousands of cases of extramarital affairs were studied

I studied thousands of extramarital affairs and came up with three harsh truths about human nature.

Recently, I was watching "Emotional Apocalypse", which has a large number of cases of extramarital affairs. After studying thousands of extramarital affairs, I came up with three harsh truths about human nature. Below, I will use three stories to explain these three truths from the heart.

01

"My daughter, your social status is about to marry you. If you do this to her, she deserves it; if she wants you to have money and she marries you, you deserve it; if she wants to marry you like this the way you do, that's a sin! ”

This is a classic line in the TV series "The Peach Blossom Icon on the Tree". In the play, Bloom is accidentally reunited with his junior high school classmate Luo Yaohui. She didn't care that Luo Yaohui didn't have a room or money. It didn't take long for her to sneak up on her parents and get her certificate.

In order to make her daughter's life better, Sheng's mother also spent more than 100,000 yuan to decorate the old house, and Sheng Ge even paid for his sister to build a toilet by herself, saving them the inconvenience of running public toilets.

It is reasonable to say that Luo Jia did not earn a penny, married a college student, and his living standards improved, which should be very good for blooming.

But it didn't happen. Instead of winning the respect of the mother-in-law, the blooming "posting" method is looked down upon. Mother Luo even scolded Mother Sheng: Why do you spend so much money, just because you know that your daughter was left after being by a man?

In real life, we often hear many girls "upside down" like a blooming flower of love, and eventually not cherished, husbands cheating, hastily divorced.

In marriage, the cruellest truth of human nature is that it is difficult to cherish the people and things that people easily get without paying too much for themselves.

02

I remembered my former middle school classmate Xiao Ah, she was a very beautiful girl. There are a lot of boys in the class who like her, and Little B is one of them. Under the unremitting pursuit of Little B, they came together smoothly. They also studied at the same school in college, fell in love for 6 years, and married after graduation. She is a "fairy lover" that students greatly admire.

Later, at a class reunion, I overheard that they were divorced, and the reason was that the man was cheating!

After a detailed understanding, I learned that after graduation, Little B worked as a salesman in a private enterprise, because he was tall, handsome, smart and capable, and was appreciated by his boss. The boss's only daughter also works for the company. Because of the boss's relationship, the two of them came together one after another. But the boss's daughter didn't want to be so mysterious with Little B. What she wanted was the perfect marriage.

As a result, Little B and he filed for divorce and even went out of the house.

For years, Xiao Ah tried to save her marriage with their feelings, but Xiao B changed her mind and insisted on divorce no matter how much she pleaded.

In the words of Little B: Having been with her for so many years, I have not loved her for a long time. Now I like my boss's daughter a lot. After I get married to her, I can fight for at least ten years less!

After the divorce, Xiao B and the boss's daughter soon got married, and the boss handed over the company to Xiao B, and Xiao B began to get along well and get better and better career.

Xiao Ah returned to his hometown after the divorce, and there was no news after that. I've heard a saying before: Never underestimate the fertility desires of lower-level men and the upward desires of middle-level men.

Most of the marriages of low-level men do not care whether the girls are beautiful or not, what family conditions, only want a woman who can have children, whether there is an emotional basis does not matter.

For a middle-class man, if given the chance, they want a wife who can help them struggle for a few fewer years. Of course, this is also the reason why most women want to marry men with good family conditions. Because the essence of living things is to seek advantage and avoid harm, and people are no exception.

Another harsh truth in marriage is that most marriages are not pure and most are the result of weighing the pros and cons.

03

I don't know if you remember Luo Ziqun in the TV series "The First Half of My Life". When Luo Ziqun was young, he thought that love was everything. He thought that he would not live unless he married Bai Guang.

Despite my mother's and sister's objections, I insisted on marrying Bai Guang, thinking I could drink enough water, but the truth was: but not as those who had been poor together knew.

In real life, most girls who want to make money from their families will generally end up living a better life, and those girls who gamble with youth, despite their parents' opposition and only think about love, most of them lose miserably.

Why? Because in a marriage, 80% of the troubles can be solved with money, and the remaining 20% can also be used for a slight delay.

Of course, this is not to persuade everyone to want material, but to use material as the emotional basis of the best love. Think for yourself. After two people get married, they have to spend money to buy a green onion, not to mention the milk powder money and education fees after giving birth.

Maybe being in love can make you feel full of water, but not married. Kids can't drink boiled water, can they?

Two people enter into marriage without material support, love will be consumed in chai rice oil and salt, leaving only chicken feathers, and the final outcome is likely to be divorce or cheating.

Just like Luo Ziqun in the play, he also briefly cheated on a hairdresser.

The last harsh truth of marriage is that a marriage without a material basis is a mess.