In life, everyone's view of marriage is different. In the past, people always felt that not getting married at an old age was a big thing. So there will be ridicule for those older leftover women, older leftover men. However, with the rapid development of today's society, many people do not want to enter marriage too early, and even in life, there are many unmarried people. But what they do is seen as a rebellious act in the eyes of the elderly who have stubborn ideas.
Many people don't get married because they've seen through the nature of marriage. Although in life, some people have entered into marriage because of those so-called loves, but there are still a large number of people who choose to get married because of the expectations of their parents, and even because of the inheritance of the family. But what is the point of such a marriage? Therefore, many people have discovered such things in their lives, so they choose not to get married.
Recently, in her life, Fang Rongying was persuaded to leave by her 34-year-old sister-in-law, who was still unmarried.
Sister-in-law who refuses to marry
Fang Rongying and her husband Wang Qianhai met through the introduction of others, because both people were busy looking for jobs outside when they were in college, and there were many things in school, so neither of them had a relationship in college. But most of the classmates around the two of them had love experiences in college, and even chose to enter marriage as soon as they graduated. So after the friends around them all chose to get married, the two people gradually began to feel anxious. So both people accepted their parents' advice and began a blind date.
Fang Rongying and Wang Qianhai met when they were on a blind date, because the age of both people is not small, so they also feel very anxious about getting married. Therefore, after the two people met through blind dates, they also quickly became closely linked. The parents of both sides are also very happy to see this matter come to fruition, so with the help of both parents, the feelings of the two people have soon undergone a qualitative change.
So when the two people met, they went to see their parents shortly after they met, and set a date for the marriage of the two people. After the two people got married, Fang Rongying and Wang Qianhai lived with their mother-in-law and sister-in-law. After Fang Rongying first lived with her mother-in-law, she was still very worried that there would be a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law between the two people, but after marriage, because Wang Qianhai's sister refused to marry, her mother-in-law put all her thoughts on urging her daughter to get married, so there was no difficulty for Fang Rongying at all.
After Fang Rongying married, because the age difference between her and her sister-in-law was not large, and Wang Qianhai's sister Wang Qianyun was also very good to get along with, so the relationship between the two people was like a girlfriend.
Interview with the sister-in-law
Because Wang Qianyun is very upset about her mother's constant urging, she has always avoided her mother in her life. But because she and Fang Rongying are similar in age to her sister-in-law, she is also willing to chat with her sister-in-law.
And Fang Rongying's mother-in-law also feels her daughter's rejection of herself in life, but after all, now that her daughter is older, if she does not marry again, then it will be more difficult to find a boyfriend in the future, so when she sees that the relationship between her daughter-in-law and her daughter gets along so well, she thought of letting her daughter-in-law persuade her daughter-in-law to marry quickly, so she also quickly told her daughter-in-law about this matter, and for her mother-in-law's request, Fang Rongying did not refuse, so soon, She had her first interview with her sister-in-law.
At the first interview, Fang Rongying let the sister-in-law realize the seriousness of this matter, so as soon as she came up, she put the age of the sister-in-law on the surface, and planned to use her age to stimulate the sister-in-law to quickly find a boyfriend.
But did not expect that for Fang Rongying's approach, Wang Qianyun did not have the slightest wave, she directly said a lot of benefits to Fang Rongying about the benefits of not getting married, and also listed a lot of bad places that can be mixed, so that Fang Rongying directly has no way, after the first interview was lost, Fang Rongying was not discouraged, but directly began to prepare for the second interview with the 34-year-old sister-in-law.
Choose divorce
Because of the failure experience of the first interview, Fang Rongying had already made a lot of preparations during the second interview, but she did not expect that after this interview with her sister-in-law, Fang Rongying was directly persuaded by her sister-in-law to end her marriage.
Before talking to her sister-in-law, Fang Rongying had been mentally prepared, but she did not expect that in this conversation, she directly discovered a husband's secret. Because Fang Rongying felt that only by letting her sister-in-law see a happy marriage could she have the courage to enter marriage, so she used the example of her marriage with her husband to make her less reluctant to get married, but she did not expect that after she used her own marriage to give an example, Wang Qianyun suddenly sneered and said to her, "Sister-in-law, do you really think that my brother is very good to you?" ”
Listening to the sister-in-law's words, Fang Rongying felt very inexplicable. But just when he wanted what the sister-in-law was all about, the sister-in-law directly sent her a photo, and the man in the photo was very familiar with himself, because it was his husband. But the woman her husband was holding, she was sure that it wasn't herself at all. After seeing the photo, Fang Rongying realized that her husband did not know when he had chosen to betray himself. After knowing such a truth, Fang Rongying couldn't stand it at all, and she directly filed for divorce with her husband.
After knowing that her daughter-in-law wanted to divorce her son, Fang Rongying's mother-in-law also persuaded her for a long time, but she ignored it and resolutely chose divorce.
In life, everyone has the right to choose how they live. No matter how you choose to live, it is your own business, even as a parent, you have no right to interfere with the choices of your children. Because now with the rapid development of society, many young people do not have such a high demand for marriage, so we can also see more and more unmarried people in life. But such a choice should not appear in the eyes of many parents. So they will let the people around them persuade their children in life. But how can a person who has already made a decision easily change his decision because of the persuasion of others?
Because our parents and we do not live in the same era, it is inevitable that there will be many generation gaps between the two generations. Under such a purchasing agent, there will be many kinds of contradictions between the two generations. As parents, they feel that only when their children get married is the only way to achieve happiness. But today's young people don't think so, they feel that they can live well alone and don't need to live with another person. So marriage is also a very unnecessary thing for them.
Of course, most parents will not accept such a thought. Because they feel that only after marriage and have their own family, their children will achieve true happiness, and their own family also needs to be passed on from generation to generation. And if your children don't get married, how can you continue your family? So they would never tolerate such a thing happening.
If we choose marriage in our lives, then we must be single-minded about our other half. Because marriage is a very selfish thing, if you can't be single-minded about your other half in life, then it is better not to choose not to get married. In life, before we choose to enter marriage, we must think well, otherwise there will be no choice after marriage.
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